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Who's your Daddy?

About Me


I identify as a heterosexual, BDSM-bi Daddy and Sadist. I’ve been an active member of the Leather Community for the past seven years and am passionate about education and outreach. I’m a member of a multi-racial gay Leather Household based in Long Beach, CA and affiliate myself with Traditional Leather. I wish to honor my mentors by passing along their wisdom, paired with my own personal experiences and insights. Check out my blogs for more about Traditional Leather, with materials I used for a workshop at Leather Leadership Conference X in New York 2006.
Since 2004 I’ve served as Coordinator/Facilitator of Orange Coast Leather Assembly (OCLA) . I’m a member of the LOBOC Motorcycle Club and I represent OCLA at the Los Angeles Leather Coalition (LALC) . Prior to this, I served as Program Chair for Threshold , and Coordinator for the last 3 Fall weekend event, OCLA Sampler.
I’ve presented programs, workshops and demonstrations at many events, including:
Leather Leadership Conference
Southwest Leather Conference
Avatar Los Angeles
Eagle L.A.
Faultline
Lair de Sade
Piston's
People of Leather Among You
Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert (PSLOD)
Threshold
I’ve also presented workshops at Pride festivals throughout Southern California and have been a panelist on several Human Sexuality Panels at colleges in the Greater L.A. Area. Some of the topics I’ve covered are SM Safety, SM 101, Knife Play, Fire Play, and Impact Play, but I am most well-known for my Electrical Play presentations. I’ve also been co-presenting relationship-based workshops with my slavegirl and have been a judge at several Southern California Leather Title contests. In 2004, I was honored to receive Avatar Los Angeles’ first "Community Service Award" and "Most Supportive Individual of the Year” at the LALC’s Southland Honors in 2005.
I’m currently involved in a unique relationship (Daddy/slave) with slavegirl debbie . Our pairing may seem strange to some, but it really works for us. Once you get past the “titles,” it’s easy to see how much she and I have in common.
So just what is a heterosexual BDSM-Bi Top? I may be het, but I’m definitely not “straight.” As a BDSM-bi Top and Sadist, I thoroughly enjoy doing SM regardless of what gender my chosen bottom is. I’ve played with men, women and transgendered; with slaves, bottoms, boys, bois and submissives; with gays, lesbians and bis. I guess you could say that I'm an "Equal Opportunity Sadist!" The way I play often becomes very erotic no matter who my bottom is, but when it comes to actual sex, I’m into women.

My Interests



If you live in or near Orange County, please join us for the OCLA Program Meetings, taking place the 3rd Tuesday of every month at 8:00 PM at

CM Hurt Studios
13121 Brookhurst St.
Garden Grove, CA 92843

Guest speaker for
October 16th, 2007
Master Arach

will be presenting our OCLA Program in October 2007 on:
Singletail BasicsCome and learn how to handle a small single tail whip, without taking your eye out or ear off, let alone do damage to your bottom ?. Master Arach will introduce and cover basic whip information including the types of whips, the care of whips, safety concerns, how to crack a whip, and techniques for developing accuracy. No experience required. Loaner whips will be available!

Arach has been involved in the BDSM scene and lifestyle for nearly twenty years. Shortly after reading "Screw the Roses" he was honored to meet Robert Dante and began a mentoring relationship that lasted until Robert moved from California. After learning the art of Singletails from Mr.Dante, the two began a continuing singletail class in parks around the Southern California area, finally settling into a weekly meeting on the grounds of Pierce College until 2005. Arach still teaches people how to handle singletails at the Pierce College Farm Walk yearly. He has partnered with Bullwhip and Sir Mense at Threshold to hold their single tail class monthly at the Threshold club house.
What is OCLA?

OCLA is an educational organization and information source for the leather, SM and fetish community in Orange County and surrounding areas of Southern California.

The group is open to adults over 18 years old, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Learn safe, sane and consensual SM practices. Advance your skills and knowledge. Meet other people who share your interests. Hear from noted authorities in the field of SM.

Orange Coast Leather Assembly does not require membership. We are an assembly of adults -- men and women, gay and straight, absolute novice to skilled experts -- who socialize and learn from each other.

I'd like to meet:

I'm here on myspace to network with leatherfolk around the country and to be a resource for newcomers of all genders and orientations who are seeking BDSM and/or Leather information and education.

Music:

OCLA TASTER III: A Delicious Taste of Kink A Day of Workshops for the Community Saturday October 20, 2007 Doors Open: 9:30 AM Taster: 10 AM to 4 PM After-Taste Play Party: 9 PM to 2 AMThreshold Clubhouse 11300 Hartland Street North Hollywood, CA In lieu of SAMPLER this year (see below for Sampler 2008!), OCLA is presenting TASTER, an all-day event featuring over a dozen workshops and presentations on a variety of SM related topics, presented by both national and local authorities. Workshops will take place simultaneously in several of Threshold's rooms and attendees may choose the workshops they wish to attend. Presentations will also be made by several local BDSM, Leather and Fetish organizations, giving attendees first-hand information about the myriad of SM related groups available in the Greater Los Angeles area.TASTER III PRESENTERS & CREDENTIALS Guy Baldwin, Leather Author, Educator, Psychologist and LLC XII 2008 Keynote Speaker Mistress Cyan, Owner of Sanctuary, Producer of DomCon Ms. Cynthia, LLC President Emeritus, OCLA College of Mentors David Farrah, Mr. Christopher Street West 2007, Avatar LA Member Ms. Diana, Threshold President Don Sir, Mr. Long Beach Leather 2007, Co-Founder of The Society of Monarchs Entropy, Creator of Purgatory at Bar Sinister George Wong, Avatar LA Member Jesse Duran, Southern Calif. Leatherwoman 2005 Karen Yew, Ms. San Diego Leather 2004 LR and Fluffy, OCLA College of Mentors Olga, President LARAWW Rane Cox, Southern Calif. Leatherwoman 2007 (co-title holder) Mistress Shelly, LA RAWW Sir Skip Dog & slave karen, Fetish Performers at Bondage Balls, DV8, Hell slavegirl debbie, Founder of LA FUK, Marketing Team Lead of SWLC Steve Ganzell, LALC President Tim, Threshold President Emeritus, Threshold Outreach Coordinator and more to be announced soon! TOPICS Flogging, Singletails, Impact Play, Hot Wax, Rope Bondage, Fire Play, Needle Play, Knife Play, Fisting, Electricity, BDSM Roles & Relationships, Negotiation, Playing With Endorphins, and Guy Baldwin, our featured presenter, on "Ask Me Anything about Old Guard or Leather Culture"LOCAL ORGANIZATION PRESENTATIONS A room will be dedicated to presentations from attending representatives from local groups and organizations, who may give 15 minute presentations about their groups. Sign ups will be available on a first come first served basis, via a blackboard at the entrance of the room across from the kitchen.THRESHOLD SNACK BAR Breakfast, lunch and snack items as well as coffee, water and soda will be available for sale in Threshold’s kitchen from 9:30 AM to 3:45 PM.THRESHOLD PATIO Breaks may be taken inside the event area, or outside on Threshold’s patio, where smoking is allowed.TASTER SCHEDULE 9:30 AM Doors Open 10:00 AM – 10:30 AM Welcome and Opening Ceremonies, featuring a Traditional Leather "Color Guard." Representatives in attendance from local clubs and organizations are invited to show their colors (banners, flags or patch vests) to the community.10:45 AM to 11:45 AM 12:00 PM to 1:00 PM 1:15 PM to 2:15 PM 2:30 PM to 3:30 PM Workshop Sessions (A workshop grid will be given to each attendee and posted throughout the space)3:45 PM to 4:00 PM Wrap-Up4:00 PM to 4:45 PM Clean-Up (All attendees are asked to remain to help re-organize the rooms for the evening’s play party.TASTER ADMISSION FEES $20 for Taster $15 for After-Taste Play Party OR $30 for both events Tickets will be available for sale on site, on event day only. One does not need to be a Threshold member or guest of a member to attend. Anyone 18 years of age or older may attend both events. And don't forget to attend Taster III's official kick-off event, "I'll Show You Mine if You Show Me Yours," taking place Friday Night October 19th at Piston's Bar in Long Beach. Watch for details soon! = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = = SAVE THE DATE! SAMPLER XVI 2008 (Next Year!) The Original 1-on-1 Weekend October 17-19, 2008 Palm Springs, CA

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OCLA TASTER III:  A Delicious Taste of Kink A Day of Workshops for the Community   Saturday October 20, 2007 Doors Open: 9:30 AM Taster: 10 AM to 4 PM After-Taste Play Party: 9 PM to 2 AM T...
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