I have had several long term relationships, (over 7 years) and am currently single, and hoping to meet someone to settle down. You should be on the thinner side of things, and the smoother the better, I have enough hair for both of us, but some hair is cool. ( not really into the big bear thing) I am enough bear for me. Open minded, kinky to vanilla, comfortable lounging around having breakfast in bed on a sunday, or playing time in a dungeon space on Sat nite. I like folks with goals in their lives, if you are floundering around, with no direction, we are probably not going to get along. Age is not so important, its how you act and behave thats the real deal, so if your between say 22 and 45 i think we could get along with that, I just turned 44, so im just hitting the stride.