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"IF YOU ASK ME WHETHER MY PICTURES ARE REAL, I WILL NOT RESPOND TO YOUR EMAILS! THAT IS WHY I HAVE THIS PICTURE ABOVE OK. I HAVE AN AUDIO INTRODUCTION OF MYSELF TALKING RIGHT ABOVE AND ALMOST ALL MY PICTURES ARE STAMPED WITH MY MYSPACE NAME ACROSS THEM! THE ONLY THING LEFT I CAN DO TO PROVE I'M MORE REAL IS TO GIVE YOU BLOOD AND URINE SAMPLES! UNLESS YOUâ€™RE A DOCTOR, YOU AIN'T GETTING THAT FROM ME, SORRY! LOL!"
I'm finalizing over 3 years of intense online research. I was on over 30 different online dating sites at one time (It was actually more like 35; but I honestly can't remember them all! LOL!), and personally viewed literally hundreds of thousands of men's and women's profiles for writing the definitive book on online dating for guys called, â€œThe Online Dating Bible: Guys, Stop Being a Moron and Just Buy This Book Already" and another book about being romantic and a gentleman called "Romance for Dummies: A Man's Guide to Being Romantic and A Gentleman In The 21st Century."
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Passionate Ben Interviews Published Erotica Writer Cynnara Tregarth
What a Real Man Is...
My July phone interview with Suite Magazine finally released!
Great little video clip to watch from George Carlin!
A Single Girl's Prayer
Passionate Ben Reads & Answers On Air 7 Letters From Around The World! - RADIO SHOW #8
Angels, this is about you even though you have forgotten!
Embrace your single status by a divorced woman...
Why is trusting & having faith in people so hard now? - RADIO SHOW #7
Great quote from Mother Theresa from the Angel Forum
PassionateBen.com & Angel Forum officially launch today!
Interview with Editor-in-Chief of the Women's Magazine, Suite! - RADIO SHOW #6
Rapists/Murders use new tricks on women! Angels PLEASE READ!
What is S/M? Radio interview w/a single mom Dominatrix!" - RADIO SHOW #5
Why Do They Say, "God Bless Texas?"
Why Does PB Do This? What's In It For Me? - RADIO SHOW #4
Passionate Ben needs your help Angels...URGENT!!!
One Major Flaw I See In Most ALL Women...
Why Do Guys Cheat On Women? RADIO SHOW #3
A email to me from a woman with low self esteem...
You have NO HEART if this video doesn't get to you...
Hot off the presses got some guy data from some angels..
Angels check out the phone interview I just did with Suite Magazine...
What's the difference between a guy, man, & gentlemen? - RADIO SHOW #2
PROOF when guys stare at your breasts it's for health reasons!
Women are like Apples and Men are like wine...
Why Do Guys Want To Change Women? - RADIO SHOW #1
Most Dangerous Romantic Movie Myths...
Are You Better Off Single? Hmmmmmm...
Holy crap, it's been this long since I posted something! WOW!
Happy 4th and a video documentary all Angels should watch!
The Untold Story Of The Worlds First Dieters: Adam and Eve
You need to watch this Angels, it will put a BIG smile on your face!
Living a Life That Matters! - AUDIO BLOG #6
If your a mom you NEED to read this...You will Probably cry!
Great story, all Angels should read...
Myspace officially SUCKS right now, they've locked me out for no reason!
Angels GREAT poem called, "Phenomenal Woman" by Maya Angelou
Older Women & Younger Guys - What is the fantasy? - AUDIO BLOG #5
Poem about What is Passion?
This is truly telling it like it is...AMEN to this man!
A 3 year old boys poem about his abuse...
Being abused...Please STOP being a victim! - AUDIO BLOG #4!
Without The Immortal Love Of a Womanâ€¦
Maya Angelou on what she thought of growing older...
The beauty of a woman, must be seen in her eyes...
How people are judging YOU on your Top 8 & size of your friends list...
Angels I thought you would like to know what an angel really is?
Why is being honest, loyal, & trustworthy, such hard of traits to come by nowadays?
The 7 Stages of Online Dating Intimacy!
It's not difficult to make a woman happy, a man only needs to be...
Why Do I Call You ALL Angels - AUDIO BLOG #3
Am I REAL? Are you REAL?
Am I REAL?? Are you REAL? - AUDIO BLOG #2
DISCLAIMER: If your under 18 delete yourself now please!
What do my tattoos on my chest mean?
Sorry Ladies my Grandpa just died, 2nd Audio Blog is on hold til next week!
Passionate Ben's - 1st AUDIO BLOG!
If You Were Blind Would You Date The Person You Are With?
15 Myspace Rules!
25 Ways To Make a Woman Smile & Counting!
What Love Is To Me & What It Is Not!
What I Love & We Can All Learn From a Child Eyes!
WARNING! Read this first ladies BEFORE you contact me!
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A little family background. I have no brothers or sisters, and I was raised by a single mother. I have never seen my father; he divorced my mother when I was around one. My Grandpa just died in March, 2006, and my Grandma died of cancer in 1993. I'm extremely AFFECTIONATE. I'm the man you see with other women in the mall that you so wish your boyfriend was like with you in public. I'm HONEST. Honest enough to tell you what you don't want to hear sometimes, but itâ€™s what you need to hear sometimes. Plus, just read and listen to my entire profile and radio broadcasts. You won't find more brutal or direct honesty anywhere(That may be a good or bad thing depending on your personality?) I DON'T get jealous, controlling or possessive of your guy friends, family, career, or your other girlfriends. You have to be with someone you trust; you have to be confident in yourself and selfless enough that you want the other person to be happy and fulfilled ALWAYS! (Why don't 99% of people get that?)

I'm VERY sharp-witted and sarcastic! Some women love that (We love those women!), some are way too damn super sensitive and hate it. (We don't like those women much! LOL!) The super sensitive women that can't take a joke or some teasing and sarcasm can just click on over to someone's else profile pronto. There's that whole honesty thing I was telling you about!
I'm a true gentleman opening every car or building door you will ever get into or enter, ordering for a woman (but only after I find out what she wants first), and paying for everything always! I WANT to take care of a woman. NOT because she needs me to. NOT because I have to. NOT because it's expected of me, but because I truly WANT to take care of a special woman in my life ALWAYS and FOREVER.(This also includes ALL my women friends!)

WARNING! I am NOT for the weak, small, or closed- minded women of the world! If you don't like being CHALLENGED in all aspects of your life (sexually, mentally, physically, and emotionally)and made to think, or if you're online looking for...
BIFF-the-shallow-Bodybuilder-looking guy who lives in the gym and who says his favorite food is protein shakes; DICK-the-Druggy guy who will be in jail or dead in 5-10 years; BRAD-the-Boring-but-really-nice guy that couldn't excite you even if he bought you every Prada, Dior, and Chanel product in the world; VICK Vanilla-in-the-bedroom guy that thinks wild, kinky, passionate sex is having the lights on sometimes; PAUL-the-Poor guy that thinks because you have more money than him that you should buy always or split the check; CHRIS-the-Cheater guy that says he will leave his wife/girlfriend FOR you and says he would never do that TO you; JIM-the-Jealous guy that when you go out on the town wants to fight every damn guy that looks at you then yells at you because you're dressed too sexy; AARON-the-Asshole/Abusive guy that treats you worst than Nazi concentration camp prisoners; RALPH-the-Rich guy who thinks he can buy your love/affection/sex or get in your pants, because he has lots of money or SO he says; and finally, IKE-the-Inconsiderate-selfish-prick guy who for a million dollars couldn't tell you what your favorite flower, dessert or anything else is for that matter that you care about, like or love!
If you date, hook up with, or are attracted to ANY of these types of guys, that's cool. To each her own. I'm certainly not one to judge. Please DON'T CONTACT ME unless it's to be just friends then. Otherwise, it would be a huge waste time for both of us. (Damn, that honesty just screams out of this little boy, doesn't it!)
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My Interests

Ok, I'm a total workalcoholic. I won't lie! I work on average 100 to 120 hours a week running multiple businesses that I own or am partners in. (I REALLY need some great women in my life to help me live in the moment better and to help slow me down some, if that's even possible! LOL!) I love to scuba dive, shark dive, hike, skydive, bungee jump, white water raft, get tattoos (I have 5 and counting!)and of course drink good ol' Jack Daniels...

...I love to travel. Especially to different countries. I love to go to the best parties and events in the world. I have been to The Indy 500, OzzFest, WeFest, Spring Break in three different countries, Mardi Gras, and The Kentucky Derby...

...play sand volleyball, workout, read and learn constantly, snuggling on the couch and watching movies with a special someone, sleeping in late, going to hard rock concerts or festivals, researching everything and anything on the Internet (Totally Addicted!), and of course partying on Lake Travis (Devil's Cove especially) and 4th & 6th streets downtown...

...I LOVE working with kids. I was in a Big Brother/Big Sister program for years. I'm starting my own Children's Foundation called "The Smiley Girl Foundation" in the next few years for abused and terminally ill children as well...

"Hatred is gained as much by GOOD works as by evil..."
- Niccolo Machiavelli

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will NEVER forget how you made them feel."
- Maya Angelou

Also, I have a uncensored online talk radio show for women ONLY called "Passionate Ben Radio Hour" and two websites (one for the online radio talk show and one for women that's on relationships, dating, women, sex, Myspace, human behavior, and human sexuality!

Kind of like a Loveline/Dr.Phil but for 18 yrs or older women. Catered with tons of F-bombs getting dropped everywhere! LOL! I'm not old, fat, bald, book taught about relationships or online dating, nor married like those guys or other "so-called" experts! Because of this, I think I have a much better perspective, as well as insight, than they ever will on subjects like online dating or relationhips of any kind.

I'd like to meet:

Things I'm looking for personally in women as friends, to date, or in someone I want to spend the rest of my life with! I LOVE tattoos on a woman. I think they're very erotic and individualistic. (I have 5 & counting.) The sexiest and most alluring thing about a woman to me is her INTELLIGENCE and DEPTH of character. A close second would be her sexuality that would be WILD, OPEN, GIVING, KINKY, and spontaneous, just like me! You must be very honest, faithful, loyal, and dependable!

OPTIMISM. I want to be around women that say the glass is definitely half full. Must have a great sense of HUMOR & SMILE, and use them both always! Must be very AFFECTIONATE in private or in public with me. OPEN MINDED. Be able to see there are always multiple ways to see EVERYTHING and EVERYONE in the world. A woman that's NOT AFRAID to ask for something sexually or vocalize her fantasies, fears, dreams, and goals to me! A woman that LOVES to dress sexy and provocative all the time in public or in the bedroom! To me, this signals a woman who is confident in her body, herself and her sexuality! ALL eyes on you ALL the time is fine by me. That would make me the luckiest man on the planet in my eyes! (Why DON'T almost all guys get this simple fact - you're with them and going home with them! Duh!)

Send Me Some Questions Or Comments, Angels!

About Passionate Ben's Sexuality:
FOREPLAY. The word most guys dread. It's my favorite part about sexual intimaticy. Endless hours of sensual and kinky foreplay is fine by me, don't you agree? I'm very sexually spontaneous anywhere, anything, anytime with a woman! (Would that be such a bad thing, really? LOL!)

Ever wanted to have sex or give/receive oral in a public place, but your boyfriend didn't want to? Don't worry, you'll probably be the one saying, "Here? Right now? No way, Ben!" I absolutely LOVE giving and receiving tons of dirty talk 24/7 anywhere and everywhere! Nothing hotter! Just not enough of this in the world today, don't you think?

"Many people know so little about what is beyond their short range of experience. They look within themselves - and find nothing! Therefore they conclude that there is nothing outside themselves either..." - Helen Keller

Music:

Staind, Nonpoint, Lincoln Park, Seether, Kid Rock, Korn, Nickelback, Seven Dust, Audio Slave, Tool, Shinedown, A Perfect Circle, Kittie, 3 Doors Down, Disturbed, System of The Down, Chevelle, Metallica, Pantera, Velvet Revolver, Bush, Guns N' Roses, Aerosmith, AC/DC, Breaking Benjamins, Marilyn Manson, The Used, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Papa Roach, Rage Against The Machine...

...Def Tones, Nirvana, Incubus, Rob Zombie, Soundgarden, Beattles, Elvis, Rolling Stones, Eric Clapton, Jimi Hendrix, Sarah McLachlan, Saliva, P.O.D, Mudvayne, Static X, Soil, Flaw, Slip Knot, ColdPlay, Weezer, Trust Company, Silver Chair, The Smashing Pumpkins, Stone Sour, Godsmack, Evanscience, Three Days Grace, Dave Mattews Band, & shhhhhh...don't tell, the Dixie Chicks! OMG! I can't believe I admitted that in public! I will never get into Heavy Metal Heaven after stating that! LOL!

Movies:

The Secretary, Patch Adams, Shawshank Redemption, Meet Joe Black, Million Dollar Baby, Pay It Forward, Bad Boys, Boondock Saints, Da Vinci Code, Good Will Hunting, Beautiful Girls, High Fidelity, 9 1/2 Weeks, The Breakfast Club, When a Man Loves a Woman, With Honors, Buying The Cow, Hitch, Braveheart, Underworld I & II, Gladiator, Seven, Legends of The Fall, Bull Durham, Forest Gump, American Psycho, Top Gun, Big, Varisty Blues, The Last Samurai, Garden State, Swingers, Boiler Room, Wall Street...

...Glengary Glen Ross, Animal House, Revenge of The Nerds, Closer, Weird Science, Fight Club, Sleepers, Instinct, Pump Up The Volume, Platoon, Full Metal Jacket, Traffic, My Science Project, Slapshot, Caddyshack, Ghostbusters, Any Given Sunday, Sleven, Vendetta, The Girl Next Door, Chasing Amy, The Wedding Crashers, all the Star Wars and Lord of The Rings movies (what can I say my inner geek is crying out! LOL!)

Television:

I NEVER watch TV. Literally. I don't even have cable anymore! Way too busy actually LIVING my life instead of watching it on TV like the masses do! Unlike the average American household that now watches for over 7 hours & 40 minutes a day! True and pathetic fact!

Books:

The Road Less Traveled, The Loving Dominant, The Topping Book, Essential Manners of Men, As A Gentleman Would Say, Guerrilla Marketing, The Psychology Influence of Persuasion, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Persuasion The Art Of Getting What You Want, Trump The America We Deserve...
...The Purpose Driven Life, A Boy Called It, How To Win Friends & Influence People, The Da Vinci Code, Angels & Demons, Screw The Roses Just Send Me The Thorns, Stupid White Men, Slowing Down To The Speed of Life, Man's Search For Meaning, and tons more. I told you I am a total reading whore! I'm like Will in the movie, "Good Will Hunting" in that way, I guess! ; )

Who'd I'd like to meet in history? Jesus, Plato, Socrates, Aristole, Marquis de Sade, Leopold Sacher-Masoch, Albert Einstein, Gandhi, Dr. Alfred Kinsey, Michelangelo, Angelina Jolie, Leonardo da Vinci, Don Juan, Alexander The Great, George Carlin, Sigmund Freud, Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra, Casanova, Marilyn Manson, Machiavelli, Nietzsche, Budda, Confucius, John D. Rockfeller, J.P. Morgan, Andrew Carnegie, Thomas Edison, Robin Williams, & Benjamin Franklin.

Quotes that I love & try to live by
"Entrepreneurs are simply those who understand that there is little difference between obstacle and opportunity and are able to turn both to their advantage."
- Niccolo Machiavelli

"We live in a society of victimization, where people are much more comfortable being victimized than actually standing up for themselves."
- Marilyn Manson
"Believe me! The secret of reaping the greatest fruitfulness and the greatest enjoyment from life is to live dangerously!"
- Friedrich Nietzsche

"FEAR Is Temporary, Regret Is FOREVER" - Unknown
"Anybody can become angry. That is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way - that is not within everybody's power and is not easy. - Aristotle

Heroes:

Any person that lives their life like every day is their last (not many); people that don't let FEAR control their life (very few); people that are VERY open-minded, giving, and risk-takers; people that are mentally and/or physically disabled or challenged; abused or terminally ill kids; and people that DARE TO FAIL endlessly until they succeed in all aspects of life! Those are my heroes, I guess, in this life.

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My Blog

Why people should need licenses before they can become parents...

Hi beautiful angels, Passionate Ben's blood has been boiling since last Sunday night (March 11) because of what he saw from a couple of messed up parent's with there kids. I wanted to write this blog ...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Tue, 20 Mar 2007 05:23:00 PST

By popular request here are some pictures of my new views & neighborhood...

Hey angels, Many of you have requested I show pictures of my new digs and such. Well, for privacy reasons (need to keep the stalkers to a minimum! LOL!) I can't show you my actual place, but I can sho...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Fri, 23 Feb 2007 10:09:00 PST

Happy Valentines Angels! ...Yes, PB is alive!

Hello Angels, Did you think I was dead and buried somewhere?...Maybe I ran away with a rich old women to Bora Bora? ...Or joined a monastery to become a cellibate masturbating monk? (I feel ...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Thu, 15 Feb 2007 12:52:00 PST

Happy New Year's Eve angels...yes I'm still alive!

Hello angels, Holy crap it's been two months to the day since I did a blog. WOW! Well, I finally closed on my investment property on Lake Travis a few weeks ago (Thank God what a nightmare from hell t...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Sun, 31 Dec 2006 12:28:00 PST

Happy Halloween, Angels...Be Safe & Sexy! : )

Hello, Angels, Long time no talk. I know, where have I been, right? I have been busy doing God knows everything under the sun for my clients and my businesses among other things. Most of my time ...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Tue, 31 Oct 2006 12:34:00 PST

Passionate Ben Interviews Published Erotica Writer Cynnara Tregarth

Hey Angels, Passionate Ben Radio Hour Episode #9 titled, "Passionate Ben Interviews Published Erotica Writer Cynnara Tregarth" can be listened to now by clicking below, or for those (smart angels...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Fri, 20 Oct 2006 10:56:00 PST

What a Real Man Is...

What a "Real Man" is toPassionate Ben& 1. A REAL MAN respects his friends and family first and foremost in his life.2. A REAL MAN raises his kids - not JUST out-of-pocket, either. H...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 01:22:00 PST

My July phone interview with Suite Magazine finally released!

Hey Angels, I got permission from the Editor-in-Chief of Suite Magazine to share the MP3 recording of the phone interview they did with me in July for their August issue. It wasn't available to the pu...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Sat, 30 Sep 2006 05:37:00 PST

Great little video clip to watch from George Carlin!

Hey Angels, There is a great video clip to watch from George Carlin, who is one of my favorite comedians. I agree almost 100% with everything he says in this clip about people in this country and the ...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Wed, 27 Sep 2006 03:34:00 PST

A Single Girl's Prayer

Hey Angels, I read this somewhere and I thought it was hilarious and very cute. I thought many of you single angels could relate and enjoy it. Take care, PB : ) http://www.passionateben.com http://p...
Posted by Passionate Ben on Tue, 26 Sep 2006 02:38:00 PST