I like this music; the Smashing Pumpkins, Mirah, Quiet Riot, Gwen Stefani, Big Bad VooDoo Daddy, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Nirvana, the Aquabats, Gogol Bordello, Garbage, Pearl Jam, the Cranberries, ATB, Tool, Ayla, DJ Tiesto, Bad Boy Bill, Dresden Dolls, the Mansfileds, Trans-siberian Orchestra, RHCP, Modest Mouse, the Killers, Green Day, BNL, Bach, Gunther, U2, ABBA, Bon Jovi, Snow Patrol, Pepper, Paul Oakenfold (old stuff), Lorena McKennet, 80's dance music, Sasha and Digweed, Blue man group, punk covers, the Echo, Irene's March, Save Ferris, Alanis, Flogging Molly, the Dropkick Murphies, No Doubt, Brian Setzer, The Briggs, Panic! at the Disco, Audioslave, Jet, Seal, J Geils Band, Fallout Boy, Rancid, a Perfect Circle, All American Rejects, the Brunettes, Deathcab for Cutie, Astray, and so much more. Lots of swing music, alternative, trance, and German Music: Wir Sind Helden, Christina Sturmer, Silbermond, Schnappi, Fettes Brot.
Other things I like: crime shows, CSI (all three), the L-Word, the Tudors, Project Runway, Without a Trace, Cold Case, NCIS, Criminal Minds, Close to Home, Dead Like Me, Stargate, Redwall, Buffy, Agatha Christie, Patricia C Wrede, Anne McCaffery, Orson Scott Card, Tamora Pierce, The Band Never Dances, historical romance novels, tea (loose), chocolate, white russians, grasshoppers (the drink), mojitos, buttery nipples, bailey's, peppermint schnapps in hot chocolate, good white wine, soup in a bread bowl, fries with buffalo sauce, chocolate, peppermint, dolmades, fondue, feeling safe, sushi, saag paneer, naan, noodles and co, falafel, latkes, cuddling, cats, animals, snuggling, spooning, forking, sporking, making out, boys, girls, trusting, feeling like I'm not alone, snickers, laughing, reading, star gazing, making snow devils, dressing up, wearing PJs, wearing cat ears, wearing devil horns, running around naked, kissing, tickling, driving, American Beauty, Kinsey, Secretary, Monty Python (all three plus the Flying Circus), Bang Bang You're Dead, Der Untergang, Coming Soon, Love Actually, Gosford Park, Coupling, Hetty Wainthrop, Mystery, Degrassi:the next generation, Pimp Mein Fahrad, alles Deutsch, German, Hebrew, Jew Crew, breasts (particularly my own), hipbones, punk girls, ruggers, hockey players with all their teeth, guys who hug properly, people that kiss properly, endorphin highs, IHOP at 3am, Pumpkin pancakes with chocolate chips, watching the goalies stretch at the hockey games (and do the splits, and save shots..and just be goalies), dancing in the rain, driving naked, acting, tech work, taking cat naps with my cat, talking about sex, sambuca, tattoos, piercings, king sized beds, knitting, being appreciated.
Orgasms.
People I can't meet: Kinsey (As in Alfred P, not my cat), my father again, Agatha Christie, Nina Hartley, Bettie Page, Annie Sprinkle, Joanna Angel, Anne McCaffery, Matthew Grey Gubler, David Krumholtz, Billy Corrigan, and more.
As a friend: Anyone open minded...who doesn't mind hearing about sex. It happens.
Sex buddies. But I am so not into bio guys right now, it's not even funny. I'm a QUEER FEMME DYKE. All genders, feel free to drop me a line. I'm kinky (bottom/sub). I'm safe. I'm a hell of a lot of fun.
New friends!
I hate; pink, heights, spiders, snakes, people who are closed minded, people who want to control women, people who want to control women's bodies, homophobia, transphobia, fat-phobia, rapists, onions, scallions, haunted houses, horror movies, roller coasters, death, being alone, my family driving me crazy, people who try to snuggle when it's 102 degrees, knee surgeries, getting infected with things like cellulitis, breaking my tailbone...twice, my windshield wipers freezing to my windshield, sketchy people messaging me...and so on.
I want; to feel safe, to love, to be loved, to be trusted, to trust, chocolate, a significant other I like, to want to cuddle, to make out, to sleep for a week, to get my Master's by summer 2008, to move back to Colorado, to move to California or Oregon or Washington for a bit, not to have another knee surgery, for my knee(s) to be better, to dye my hair, to hang out with more guys like I used to, to not fight, to find someone that understands me, black roses, sterling roses, another tattoo....
I have; more than I deserve. Not enough. Too much. A head full of thoughts and not enough time to write them all down.
Current book I'm reading:
Some Agatha Christie. I'm on vacation, ok?
Book I just finished:
Sex Writing 2008 (love it; great though and intellect in this baby)
My father (1947-1999). My grandparents who survived Auschwitz, Bergen-Belsen, Buchenwald and Treblinka. My cat who just chills all day and still gives me unconditional love. Kate Bornstein. Leslie Feinberg. Anne Fausto-Sterling. Nina Hartley. Judith Butler. Dacia Ray. Jamye Waxman. Candida Royalle.