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Mistress Jolly

unconditional love and understanding is not a bad thing

About Me

Passionate, Strong, Self-Aware, Creative, Insightful, Playful, Spontaneous,silly, Compassionate, Questioning, Open-minded,fiercely autonomous, Willful, Motivated(except when I'm not), Talented, Intuitive, Curious,weird, Kinetic, Peaceful sometimes and all Riled up at other times(when watching the news a lot!), a Smart ass at times, Lover of Wordplay, Secure, Insecure, Loving and Trustworthy but not Trusting, Extroverted except when I want or need to be alone,Giving, and a fun handful...Don't ever bother trying to lie to me-I will ALWAYS know, it is an insult to my intelligence and my intuition, and it is a waste of both our energy. the truth no matter how hard it is to say or hear is ALWAYS preferable.What you see is what you get and I expect the same from others as false pretenses and sycophants annoy the fuck out of me...and just for the record if you are passive-aggressive, and/or manipulative it was nice NOT knowing you...I believe people should make an equal effort, whether fucking or friends-or both...I am passionate about all things life...

My Interests

music, writing, reading,loving on my babies(the feline variety-lost puppy in the "divorce"),cursing out loud on my treadmill,ashtanga yoga,making out with someone who can kiss, running with scissors(sometimes but rarely hoping I trip), watching modern dance,yelling back at the news, cooking,throwing foam tv bricks at the news,prattling on incessantly in my blogs, sashimi, artichokes, spontaneous combustion,gay boys with great hair products, my real friends, picture taking,playing the cloud game, discovering art forms that are new to me, brigading, loyalty...and avoiding love like the plague...seriously I hear from a reliable source you can catch cooties! I used to believe in true love now I wonder if we are only designed to have a true love for different cycles of our life. I have always been the faithful one-the loyal one and look where it landed me...or I could simply still be bitter and a bit broken from love's last carnival ride. whatever.

I'd like to meet:

I would love to meet people who are creative, real, a happy mess, or even just plain happy,people who are open-minded and compassionate, intelligent and silly, people who like to laugh and to play(but not head games), people who understand that being attentive to oneself first is not really a selfish act so much as a selfless one - we can't be present for others if we are not present with ourselves first, people who are not afraid to leap -without nets, but most importantly people who are true to themselves even if that journey is not an easy one..."to thine own self be true"

Music:

Garbage and theSTART,Dresden Dolls, Amanda Palmer, Epoxies, Nirvana, Beatles, Led Zepplin, Cream, skinny Elvis, Buddy Holly(shhh), Janis, Jimi, mr Mojorisin, AC/DC, Lead Belly, Madonna, Madonna, Madonna, ND, Peaches(see her live once and she owns you), YYY's white stripes, Fiona,Bjork, sarah, pj from beginning til now, Depeche Mode,the cure, Blondie, The Pretenders, Cash, Velvet Underground, New York Dolls, Kinks, nick cave, RS(early),Eurythmics, Siouxsie and the Banshees,Black Sabbath,Portishead, Dee-Lite,The Clash,the Ramones, Patti Smith, Hole, Smashing Pumpkins,early motley crue, Black Sabbath, Ozzy with randy rhodes, early van halen,Violent Femmes ABBA(my inner queen),Tori(some), cowboy junkies, Pink Floyd, Sheryl Crow, earlier Sinead, the murmurs(shhh) Perfect Circle, me in the car or shower...OH and for the musical record I FUCKING HATE CELINE DION AND WOULD SOONER DROWN MYSELF BEFORE LISTENING TO A FULL SONG...tired will write more later ;)Ok, so I wrote all these out when I set up my profile so the truth is there are sooo many more but I will never bother to finish the list so there...

Movies:

What ever happened to Baby Jane(and anything bette), Some like it Hot, Sunset Boulevard, My Life as a Dog, Mulholland Drive, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, True Romance, The House of Yes,Best In Show, Partygirl, Silence of the Lambs,Notes On A Scandal, Crash, Original Charlie, Wizard of OZ, Harold and Maude, Harold and Maude, Harold and Maude and so many others but alas I am bored with listing them for now...music ending ditto-in other words the same ending from music is valid here as well...

Television:

Jeopardy! Original CSI, Daily Show and Colbert Report, Meet the Press(whilst curled up in my bed on Sunday mornings-RIP Tim Russert),Dexter, Weeds, L Word, Law & Order SVU,Original Iron Chef and really who the fuck cares what tv I or others do or don't watch ;)and also music-movie ditto...

Books:

Bastard Out of Carolina-Dorothy Allison Written on the Body-Jeannette Winterson, Velveteen Rabbit, The Heart is Deceitful...JT Leroy(whoever the fuck that really is-still a great read) Sexing the Cherry-JW, Valencia by Michelle Tea, Stiff, Paint It Black-Janet Fitch, Everything David Sedaris...and again too many more to list right now...I bet you can guess the rest...music-movie-tele Ditto!!!!

Heroes:

the people who work and/or struggle each day just to survive...Amy Sedaris rules...oh and definitely muppets!!!!And last but not least, musicians(music) for keeping me strong during some rather tough times...you know who you are, and even if there are two who will always mean the most on a very personal level- you all fucking rule! ...So Seriously thank you to all the passionate, talented, music making motherfuckers out there! And a special shout out currently to The Dresden Dolls and Amanda Palmer's solo art/work/MUSIC...for touching my soul at a time when I could not let anyone else in......I gushed way to hard on vodka and have gotten rid of that part...nothing personal or anything...never update while drunk.

My Blog

I’m not gonna live my life on one side of an ampersand

Ok, so yes the election was an extraordinary and magnificent thing to bear participatory witness to...wanted to bask in the positive for a bit before having a mini-rant of sorts...also was out ...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Mon, 10 Nov 2008 02:35:00 PST

random pictures while listening to Who Killed Amanda Palmer

i can't sleep even though i am fucking exhausted...or maybe i can't sleep because i am sooo damn tired...or it could be the lovely post-op pain fully setting in and the nerve endings beginning to reaw...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Mon, 10 Nov 2008 01:44:00 PST

the pieces dont fit together so good

and that is ok.at least most of my pieces are still here.a little sore around the edges and a bit inside as well...but still mostly intact.i am thinking of deleting my my space page altogether.i am on...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Mon, 10 Nov 2008 01:04:00 PST

thank you america...

for restoring at least a bit of my faith in humanity tonight...seriously thank you...i cried the whole way through his acceptance speech...it was a glorious cry...thank you.i will be MIA for a bit...i...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Wed, 05 Nov 2008 11:10:00 PST

voting~friendship~love~breast cancer

I can barely get out of bed i am so sore...got tossed around in my car at the hands of a semi but i am alive even if i am too sad to still be kicking...i still voted...i still spoke my heart to a frie...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Tue, 04 Nov 2008 01:46:00 PST

Ive had better days but I dont care...

cause i just got my amanda palmer tickets in the mail...I also started my period today which means once again my attempt at being the first immaculate lesbian conception or better yet the first mastur...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Thu, 30 Oct 2008 12:32:00 PST

if wellness is this what in the hells name is sickness...

Ok, so clearly i have been a whiny, emotional, and all over the landscape girl of late...loss of my dearest friendship due to horridly evil, bitchy, and uneccessarily  possessive pussy-who is als...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Wed, 29 Oct 2008 01:46:00 PST

cracked & bleeding

Have you ever had your heart so broken that it splinters and cracks your soul as well?I am not referring to romantic love gone by the wayside...sure that hurts deeply too but people grow and change an...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Thu, 23 Oct 2008 01:03:00 PST

nursing as a JOB...

I used to know how lucky i was to be doing something i loved for a living...bailing on med school and switching to nursing was the best choice for me as it allowed to actually be there for people...mo...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Tue, 21 Oct 2008 01:57:00 PST

sing cause its obvious...

I know I am in love with a song when upon hearing it~feeling it~aurally orgasming from it I work out a performance art presentation of it or dramatic re-enactment in my head...ok it starts in my head ...
Posted by Mistress Jolly on Fri, 17 Oct 2008 02:52:00 PST