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stephinitely...FOREVER

i don't have to think... i only have to do it. the results are always perfect, but that's old news.

About Me

my name is stephanie and i have a good life. i am an artist. te amo nueva mexico...te extrano...te necesito...por todo mi vida...aquella vez se fue nunca y siempre.

the taste of "mine" is not bitter, but it nourishes no one.

quien ha hecho mil cosas y quien no ha hecho ninguna, sienten iguales deseos: hacer una cosa.

when they call me "my", i am no one.
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a first sign of the beginning of understanding is the wish to die.
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My Interests

the exquisite pain of departure...

paint stained fingers........

....what you smell like when you come home.

...missing.

I'd like to meet:

anyone who made it this far

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those that love...................those that can and will set their life on fire..............and do it again.................and again

boys on bikes are always so so cute

people who make things.

it never hurts to have as many tender passionate people come into my life as possible. it reminds me that i'm ok......but i must say that i am often weary of total strangers contacting me. i get too shy if there isn't some sort of mutual connecting factor. that being said, forgive me if i don't reply.

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Music:

many...
liars
cocorosie
clinic
animal collective
air
peter bjorn and john
clap your hands say yeah
death from above
css
black eyes
sufjan stevens
radiohead
pj harvey
ween
nazz
sonics
love
?and the mysterions
kinks
stevie wonder
otis redding
os mutantes
.prince
fela kuti
buena vista social club
mercury rev
fischerspooner
missy elliot
blonde redhead
aretha franklin
spoon
elliot smith
songs:ohia
black heart procession
stereo lab
lowlights
tortoise
joy division
pixies
les savy fav
talking heads
arcade fire
31knots
many many many....
always wil oldham and todd rundgren
and elton john...totally.

Movies:

anything done by william kentridge
the life aquatic..
and my very favorite: the pillowbook

Television:

six feet under

Books:

voices
the prophet
persepolis
siddhartha
monkey
diary
the history of forgetting
cien sontos de amor
being there
one hundred years of solitude
natural history of the senses

damn near any book about artists i can get my hands on....like these:
ida applebroog
nan goldin
sophie calle
richard serra
chris burden
goya
kathe kollwitz
max beckman
kandinski
klee
rebecca horn
henry darger
josef beuys
nancy spero
lorna simpson
mathew barney
yoko ono
maya lin
so many....so many.

Heroes:

my heart

My Blog

bear got married.

i am so so so happy for mark and sarah. they are absolutely perfect for one another. you can see their wedding flics under my albums. they get to be in mexico right now. warm. sun. ocean. jerks.so......
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 10:34:00 PST

ride in peace

i have gone over and over in my heart and through my mind about the horrific events that have taken place over the last two days. a young woman, a student at Pacific Northwest College of Art, only 1...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Sat, 13 Oct 2007 02:20:00 PST

red dirt

i went down to see my beloved grandmother and my namesake, anita cofer. but i really only call her gran. infact for years and years i thought that that was her name. i was shocked to find out that ani...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Thu, 13 Sep 2007 06:47:00 PST

29 years old

So I am another year older. And I had a small birthday potluck over at my place. It was fun. I haven't really had anybody over since suni moved out. It was nice to show off my place and celebrate wit...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Thu, 06 Sep 2007 11:56:00 PST

life in change and we ride on... PART TWO

at long last.... we arrive late at night and we stay at suni's parents' house out in corrales. holy shit is it purty out there. we went out for cinco de mayo and had such a good time. i love my girls...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Tue, 15 May 2007 11:20:00 PST

life in change and we ride on... PART ONE

so i helped move suni back to the burque and we made a road trip out of it. here we go...our first stop was san fransisco. man i like that place. we stayed with the best man ever: the good dr. jason w...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Tue, 15 May 2007 08:36:00 PST

time love and tenderness

thank you for all that you do for me. you put up with my breakdowns and tantrums. you make it better when i am hurting and lonely. you talk to me. you share and you love.i love you dan. and i am so ...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Tue, 24 Apr 2007 04:30:00 PST

happy nighttime

new years. suni. me....
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 12:41:00 PST

kansas--oklahoma

i go to my grandmother's house every year for thanksgiving. i have missed it three times in my whole life. typically i fly into kansas city and then drive down with my two sisters, robin and leslie. h...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Sat, 02 Dec 2006 01:49:00 PST

apartment

so suni moved out and i have had a few requests to put up flics of my apartment now that i'm solo. i love the place to my own....but i do miss suni. here is the living room:and here is the bedroom. lo...
Posted by stephinitely...FOREVER on Sun, 12 Nov 2006 10:49:00 PST