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Bryan

If this is a dream, the whole world is inside it.

About Me


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Here is where I need to think of something witty, huh? Damn. Writer's block. So it is just the facts ma'am. I am pretty much a 40 year old male who's like a 21 year old at heart. Or 2 at times! LOL I love and live for music, reading, photography, travel, food and wine, sexually open and energetic people who love life. You only live once and who knows what comes next so enjoy it! I have a beautiful and lovely wife to enjoy it with and as of May 26, 2005 a son as well! Gavin Walter is one cool baby already!
I live in Jacksonville but have lived in Sacramento, CA and Boston, MA (for 10 years!) but was born in (do I have to admit to this?) New Jersey. Who knows where I will end up? Remember, you only live once! Live life to its fullest!
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My Interests



Music, my iPod (13,026 songs and counting!), reading, vampire and horror movies, travel, my wife and son, sexy and sexual women, cooking, food, wine, sex and anything hedonistic with someone who truly enjoys life!



I'd like to meet:

The person who sees my pics, reads my profile and is intrigued enough to write to me. I figure at that point there is enough in common that we would really get along well.
As far as famous people I'd like to meet...hmm. Would love to hang out with Jeremy Davies. I think he is a cool actor. Weird, but cool. Add Christopher Walken to the list. Weird and cool again. Hell, anyone cool would be good! I travel a lot so if there are cool people in any of the following cities, hit me up! Nashville, Memphis, Des Moines, Holland MI, New York City, Ft. Lauderdale, Tampa, Orlando, New Orleans...!

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Music:

Last 10 songs that played on my iTunes!



Pretty much anything other than new country and folky folk. I used to DJ at an alternative station so that is first love. I enjoy chill out music and candles with a glass of wine in the evening. Favorite bands are Radiohead, Coldplay, Nine Inch Nails, Elvis Costello, U2, Catherine Wheel, Better Than Ezra, Lloyd Cole, Paul Weller, Bettie Serveert, The Clash Dresden Dolls, Skinny Puppy and WAAAAAAY too many more to list. But then I also like a lot of classical music, jazz, blues and some world music. Music has been my drug of choice my whole life. Literally.



Here is where I am going to share a current list of what is on repeat in my CD players and on iTunes. As of April 17, 2006:

Hotel Lights "Hotel Lights" - I was never a huge fan of Ben Folds Five and can't say I was a fan at all of Ben's solo stuff since. But lo and behold here we have Hotel Lights! If you DID like Ben Folds Five and miss that sound but want a modern version of it then you are in luck! I suppose it fits in with all the "emo" labeled music of today but I find it oddly refreshing and, if this makes any sense, more mature than most of what is out there today. Hail hail Hotel Lights!



Helmet "Size Matters" - The last time I updated this I had listed Gavin Rossdale's new band Institute. Well, if you went and listened to that and like it then you will love the latest from Helmet. Unless of course you are only in love with Gavin. He ain't here but you do get one of the classic "hard for their day" Eighties bands back in top form! If it sounds like Institute at times it is because Chris plays guitar for both bands. Expand your horizons and "discover" these guys all over again!



KMFDM "Hau Rock"- I have no idea why but this is a band that I have somehow managed to avoid in my many years of involvement with music. Never played them on the radio, in the clubs or even listened to them. Never knew what I was missing! For the casual listener who is a fan of NIN, give these guys a listen. I think you'd like them even though they are NOT like NIN really. Hard to describe their sound so you'll just have to take my word and go to Amazon and preview the tracks. Hope you enjoy!



Movies:

I love going to movies! Anyone wants to be my movie going partner let me know. I run out of friends that are willing to go! Some all time favorites of mine (in absolutely no particular order) (except maybe the first few!) are Zandalee, Million Dollar Hotel (yes it was written by BOno but it is a gREAT movie!), After Hours, The Hunger, Cat People, Nightmare Before Christmas, 28 days, Resident Evil, From Dusk Til Dawn, Boondock Saints (rented it by accident and LOVED it!)most all horror movies (A or B), The Matrix, Star Wars (all of them), Tomb Raider (both), The Third Man, Lost Boys, Underworld, Office Space, Dude! Where My Car?, Alien (series), Under the Tuscan Sun (how the heck did THAT get in here?), whatever that space movie was with the killer beach ball ("Dark Star" directed by John Carpenter - Thanks Sara!), Beetlejuice, 12 Monkeys, Kontroll....hell, I could go on forever. I have a pretty large and eclectic DVD collection. If this list appeals to you and you have some faves not listed, please let me know what they are! As I said, would love someone to go to and watch movies with. New addition to the list: Napoleon Dynamite! Funny. For some anyway.
Great foreign movie that is multi-dimensional. Meaning, it will leave you thinking! Rent it or buy it today!

Ode to New Orleans....come back soon my fair city!
Looking forward to this one!
Need to travel to see this one as I sincerely doubt it will be coming to Jacksonville...
Another one I hope plays here in Jacksonville! Looks like it will be a good horror movie! Something there has not been a lot of!!
I love Nightmare Before Christmas even more but this is a great movie! I love Chef!
FINALLY got to see MirrorMask! Went in keeping my expectations low and was blown away. Reaffirms that Neil Gaiman is an un-American God. If you like Labyrith, Neverending Story and similar you will love this!
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Television:

Not a fan of TV as a whole. That said I do love all the CSI shows (Vegas is the best) and some of the Law & Orders. Other than that, I'll watch Leno or Letterman depending on who the guests are.

Books:

I read SOOO many books that I could not possibly list my favorites here. Topically, I will read almost any interesting horror novel as well as books set in interesting or familiar settings (New Orleans, Boston, Venice, Paris, etc). Anything that questions our origins on this planet, what the majority call religion, the reason for Aztec and Mayan civilizations and the reason they are gone, Egyptian lore included, decent vampire novels (trust me there is a ton of CRAP in that vein) and anything with a cool cover and an interesting soundinf jacket. I travel a lot so read a lot. Some specific books I have really enjoyed: "White Apples" by Jonathan Carroll (most by him), early Anne Rice including "Feast of All Saints", "Link" by Walt Becker, everything by Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child and many many more. I also liked the new Dean Koontz "The Taking" Cool story for him. I will add more here as I read them.
I also love to read magazines. Wine Spectator, Rue Morgue, Bon Appetit, Gourmet, Food and Wine, Travel & Leisure and Conde Nast Travel.

Heroes:

Two. My Grandfather and my Dad. RIP. William Orville Large and Walter Alan Cichon. My Grandad was born November 8, 1921 Died March 17, 1999 Sucks. He died while I was a Love and Rockets concert so I have that to forever relate to one of my favorite bands. He gave me the life I have and made me who I am and gave me the opportunity to grow. Everyone should be so lucky to have a "father" like him. My father is MIA in Viet Nam. You can search the internet for his name and get his military information. Next time there is an election, please vote for whoever is least likely to take us to war. No other children should grow up without their Dad because his life was thrown away to "protect our country." Diplomacy is the best way to protect our country and our, and our childrens', future.

My Blog

"Coolest Dad Ever!"

Magazine Street in New Orleans is one of my favorite places to hang out.  There is still a Rue de la Course for me to get their awesome iced mochas, plenty of great eateries and bars and some awe...
Posted by Bryan on Mon, 04 Sep 2006 11:23:00 PST

Working Out

It has been way too long since I posted a blog but then again no one has asked me if I had writer's block or anything so perhaps no one cares?  I'm happy as long as at least one (okay, maybe two)...
Posted by Bryan on Sun, 27 Aug 2006 05:02:00 PST

Warped Tour 2006

As Fat Mike from NOXX stated, "Jacksonville is a weird city.  You have to admit, there are much better cities in America."  No doubt Jacksonville does not compare to New York City, San Franc...
Posted by Bryan on Sat, 24 Jun 2006 08:03:00 PST

It's Been Awhile...Another Trip to NYC and Now off to Dublin and Paris!

I am writing this as I get ready to head on a MUCH needed vacation.  I have been so busy with work travel I haven't had time to post much here. Sorry for that for those who care to read my drivel...
Posted by Bryan on Sun, 28 May 2006 01:21:00 PST

My First Time!

No, THAT I have done at least a couple of times.  At least.  I just got back from my first visit to the New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Festival!  Jazz Fest for short if you don't know.&n...
Posted by Bryan on Mon, 01 May 2006 06:18:00 PST

Bock bock Easter Bunny!

I hope everyone enjoyed the day!  After one of my friends telling me she spend 3 hours on her hair getting ready for Church services because it was expected of her and everyone that went, I felt ...
Posted by Bryan on Mon, 17 Apr 2006 07:41:00 PST

Celebrating 40 Years of Life

I turned 40 on April 6 and got to celebrate it in my favorite city of New Orleans.  More on that in a bit but first I wanted to reflect on what precisely I had to celebrate. TURNING 40 wasn'...
Posted by Bryan on Sat, 15 Apr 2006 06:20:00 PST

Still a goody!

Okay so maybe it is because my 40th is right around the corner but yesterday morning I spent my coffee drinking time loading 70's songs onto my computer and in turn my iPod. It got me thinking about r...
Posted by Bryan on Mon, 03 Apr 2006 09:14:00 PST

Mardi Gras, March Mastications and More

I will apologize upfront for what will surely be another lengthy blog from me.  Since this is a "catch-up" blog consider it a compendium of blogs that never saw the light of a computer monitor bu...
Posted by Bryan on Mon, 27 Mar 2006 10:02:00 PST

2 Days in Chocolate City

Maybe Mayor Nagin thinks, or wishes, he is in Hershey, PA?  Or then again, to quote Fred Le Blanc from Cowboy Mouth, maybe he is just a "dumb ass."   But you know, that is one of the th...
Posted by Bryan on Sun, 22 Jan 2006 06:32:00 PST