M y name is Yumi and it sounds like you-me. I am a Japanese that is direct yet ambivalent, goofy yet astute, sweet yet spicy and bitter. I value communications not only with fun but with intelligence, honesty, respect, wit, humor, caring, and affection - and of course, with laughters.
M y joy comes from being stimulated and stimulating people with good and kind spirit as well as exchanging ideas and sharing thoughts and feelings with warm hearted people with some experiences. Intelligence is sexy to me. It is ok no matter how fxxxed up your life was in the past (only if you are aware of your fuxxed-up-past self and live in *now* with all awareness).
Of course it is not as easy as saying it..
I know that you are hiding there.
N obody wants to be hurt..
So, some people lie or hurt others to defend oneself..
What is it being evil..? Being weak? :p I live with the idea of a lifestyle that would probably never be understood by others correctly besides just as a fashion, a fetish, a play, a game and/or even as a hate. What it is happening between the couple invisibly is actually so different (perhaps rather opposite) from how it may appear or sound to the eye/ear of the 3rd people . I believe that words and deeds in this relationship are the reproduction of an ultimate intimacy that a man and a woman can experience with the deepest trust and highest honesty in between with rather symbolic notions that only the couple can cultivate based on their rules but not by others.
Q uit being an A'hole.
I drink coffee with milk no suger.
S ex, drug and violence? Hmm.. Saddness, loneliness are like poison that makes you addictive to those or makes you self-destructive and vicious.. eh?
I needed a ride. Then here was my pet. But the ride was myself.
And it was magic.
T his relationship, I believe, is impossible if not based on friendship, romance, trust, respect, honesty with a balanced mentality that can see things in a bigger picture of a matter. It may reveal oneself fully even the disgraceful past or self if any, but that is why the acceptance may become such an enlightening experience, when it happens.
W hen a relationship can reach that height, it can be even a spiritual experience as itself. - It doesn't limit only between a man and a woman but the yin-yang balance may apply even in any style of a couple with femininity/masculinity. ♥W e ain't anything like that you think we are.
Shouldn't limit your imagination with your prejudice.
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Idealy I'd like to spend everyday like......
like.. my Birthday.. like.. Christmas...
like.. the last day of my life
like.. the New Year's like.. Valentine's