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Help Holly

ANGELS DO EXIST - THEY COME IN THE FORM OF CHILDREN

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WHAT HAPPENED: Our little girl became ill in July 2006 (then aged 3) with serious bladder & bowel problems. Although Holly has had problems, on & off, since she was only 4 weeks old, the Doctors just called it "colic" or "constipation", but I knew it was more serious. Holly had many infections, especially urine infections, a bowel condition called Intussusception when she was 21 months old, and was diagnosed with an enlarged kidney and duplex ureters to that same kidney. Holly also has a slight problem with her immune system, so she can get quite sick with infections. Then after a fairly good year of health, Holly became much worse in July 2006 and then she was in hospital for 6 weeks during September/October 2006, and had many tests to try and find out what was causing her symptoms of severe tummy pain, loss of appetite, tiredness, pains in her legs etc. One test showed she had a very enlarged bowel (esp. the large intestine) a very large bladder, and large stomach. Her bowel also doesn't work properly as it's " too slow", although the laxatives she is on now are helping her. She cannot tolerate solid food very well and was given prescription drinks, in October 2006, called Scandishakes to take the place of normal meals. The main condition that was mentioned in October 2006 is Hollow Visceral Myopathy. Although a year later we were told that it isn't this condition. Then in July 2007 Holly was put on a dairy-free diet and her Scandishakes were replaced with ProvidExtra drinks. ****************************************************** HOLLY ALSO SUFFERS WITH A BLADDER CONDITION: Along with Holly's bowel condition, Holly's bladder also stopped working properly in September 2006 and caused very painful urine-retention, and now she has a catheter through her tummy straight into her bladder, called a supra-pubic catheter. After having the suprapubic catheter for 22 months, Holly was going to move onto using Intermittent Catheters to help reduce the amount of urine infections she is getting, but the Neocate drinks she was on for her bowel, helped her bladder condition too and her bladder started to recover: The suprapubic catheter was removed in Aug 2008. In 2006, Doctors thought that the illness went undiagnosed for so long, it caused her bowel to swell and this pressed on her bladder, squashed it, and stopped it emptying properly. Although in 2008 some other Doctors think it is more complex than that, and that she has the same condition in her bladder as in her bowel. In the bladder the condition is called Eosinophilic Cystitis. To date, we still don't know for sure what is causing her bladder condition. Holly's bladder is still very large and she still has some urine rentention which is being treated by a speacialist nurse.****************************************************** HOW HOLLY GOT A DIAGNOSIS FOR HER BOWEL: After Holly had colonoscopies and biopsies in October 2006 and again in July 2007, we then saw a private Doctor at GOSH in October 2007 and the conditions Holly has been diagnosed with is: Eosinophilic Enterocolitis. Holly has to avoid Dairy & Lactose to help her overcome this condition, some dieticians call this a "MEWS" diet because Holly also has to avoid Milk, Eggs, Wheat & Soya. In Oct 2007, Holly's diet has been restricted even more, and now she is having special drinks called Neocate Active on prescription. Then during the winter of 2007/08, Holly had one infection after another and this caused a "flare-up" in her Eosinophilic condition. By February 2008 Holly could only tolerate JUST Neocate, she had an Ng (nasal-gastric tube) fitted to help her to take the Neocate drinks (as she hates them!). Holly couldn't eat for 4 months! The Neocate diet helped Holly so much that in June 2008 Holly started eating "safe" foods and we are reintroducing one new food a week, but in keeping with her Hypoallergenic Diet. In August, after 5 months, the Ng was removed. ****************************************************** Since getting this diagnosis for Holly I have set up a new page on here called "EOSINOPHILIC SUPPORT". I started it on the 1st November 2007. It was set up to try and give others the information I was finding so hard to get hold of myself! Please click the banner of Holly below to go to it.I edited my profile with Thomas Myspace Editor V4.4 (www.strikefile.com/myspace)

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IF YOU WANT TO CONTACT ME AND DO NOT HAVE A MYSPACE ACCOUNT, PLEASE EMAIL ME AT: [email protected][Disclaimer] I am not a qualified medical professional and I do not intend to take away from your Doctors/Nurses advice. I am only here to help raise awareness and share Holly's own experience.

I'd like to meet:

Since we have been going through this with Holly, I have noticed that it is very hard to get help, support and information about this condition ~ especially from some Doctors themselves! I would like to meet other Mums/Dads/Carers that can relate to what we are going through. ****************************************************** Holly has been in our local newspaper 3 times, on BBC News two nights running, in a local children's health magazine, and I have done a radio interview. ****************************************************** I find the worst thing...not knowing what the future holds. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this, Love Tina and Holly's Daddy, Pete xxx

Television:

Holly loves: Doodle-Doo. Jane and the Dragon. Milkshake TV. Teletubbies. In the Night Garden. Big cook Little cook. Lazytown. Peppa Pig!

Books:

Holly's favourite book is The Gingerbread Man.

Heroes:

Holly...You are my hero, you are my angel, you are Mummy's best friend, you are the person I will do all I can for, whatever it takes. Mummy is often helpless when you are in pain. Mummy is often the baddie when trying to give you medicines. You are too little to realize that I am trying to help, but that I can't explain that to you just yet. Mummy wants to tell you that "it will be ok, and that it won't hurt", But Mummy knows that it will sometimes hurt, and I have to hide my helplessness when I am trying to comfort you. Mummy wants to take all your pain away and make everything better, But Mummy knows she can't. What Mummy can do is cuddle you, and kiss you, and protect you the best she can, and hold you and try my very, very best to do everything in my power to get you through this. Mummy can be your rock and fight for your safety. Mummy can try and talk to as many Doctors and Nurses that will listen (and even the ones that won't). Mummy is your voice, and I will scream at people until they listen because you can't, you are just a little angel, Mummy's little angel. An angel with invisible wings (but mummy can see them). Holly, you have angels all around you, I truly believe that. Children are the most precious little gifts on earth, they are our future and do-not deserve to hurt. I need help to comprehend why this is happening. I get all the help I need looking into Holly's eyes, and listening to her giggle even when she is going through all this. You are Mummy's hero Holly, and I hope to be yours xxx

My Blog

Holly’s Summer ’08 Update:

Holly has had a much better summer Thank God.  I'm sure it's due to all of your prayers. The Neocate Liquid Nutritional Drinks helped a great deal.  Holly had these drinks, and nothing else,...
Posted by Help Holly on Mon, 01 Sep 2008 06:27:00 PST

Bowel AND Bladder caused by Eosinophilic Disease?

MYSPACE: I started this MySpace page for our daughter a year ago now.  I was on here every night, working to get more information to Help Holly, working to get her in the media, to get answe...
Posted by Help Holly on Mon, 14 Jul 2008 01:24:00 PST

Swimming With Dolphins As Therapy?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnCQEmvvDlg Holly so wants to go swimming with Dolphins, they are her favourite animal, and they may just help her too?! x...
Posted by Help Holly on Tue, 08 Jul 2008 02:45:00 PST

Conditions, Tests done so far, and Symptoms...

Conditions Diagnosed Already: Eosinophilic Enterocolitis, Rectal Outlet Obstruction, Constipation, Ileo Colonic Intussusception, Mobile caecum: this part of Holly's bowel is in the wrong place!...
Posted by Help Holly on Thu, 21 Jun 2007 11:18:00 PST

Hollys full story from birth. A Poem for Holly from Mummy xxx

Holly was born the day after her due date by caesarean.  I had to have a caesarean because I was very ill with Holly's pregnancy.  I had a condition called Symphasis Pubis Dysfunction, ...
Posted by Help Holly on Fri, 22 Jun 2007 11:05:00 PST

Our Local Newspapers Article on Holly:

Parents of little girl with mystery illness appeal for help By Siobhan Ryan The parents of a little girl struck down by a mysterious illness are appealing for help from others who may be able to shed ...
Posted by Help Holly on Tue, 09 Oct 2007 11:45:00 PST