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NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit

Soft is the heart of a child; do not harden it. ~ Anon.

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The "Joyce & Patrick" Benefit

The Benefit will be a night devoted to fundraising for Joyce Abalo & Patrick Kommakech (a caretaker since injury). The benefit will start at 7 pm on September 30th, and end shortly after 10 pm. We have scheduled performances and multimedia & verbal presentations for you to enjoy. You will have the opportunity to purchase drinks from the bar (suggested 2 drink minimum) and satisfy your taste buds with complimentary hors d'oeuvres.

About Joyce

Joyce is a 3 1/2-year-old Ugandan girl who I heard about just as I began to take pride in my response and input in the lives of nieces and nephews as well as children-based initiatives I had signed up for. So, when I heard Joyce's story, it really wasn't an option to not help. She had the most severe, brutal, overall tragic circumstances and group of afflictions I had heard of in one so young.

About two years ago, Joyce was traveling with one and a half dozen people in a vehicle when the LRA (Lords Resistance Army) ambushed them in a roadside attack; a common thing in the region of Gulu. Everyone was killed... except Joyce. Joyce crawled away but was seen and dragged back—thrown into the car's inferno. She crawled out again and was wrapped in a burning carpet but was saved when Ugandan army forces engaged the LRA and chased them away. The carpet left Joyce with burns all over her body and webbing in her scalp. In addition to this, she was found to be stricken with Tuberculosis and HIV once taken to the hospital.

Jimmie Briggs, author of Innocents Lost: When Child Soldiers Go to War, was traveling Gulu with actor Ryan Gosling who will be shooting a film based on his book and his director of photography, Adam Kimmel, when Joyce was bought to their attention. The trio was there for a different purpose but Joyce's situation touched their hearts so they began arranging additional care for her and launched fundraising efforts. Her HIV and TB medications and initial operations were taken care of, and Jimmie administers funds donated for her care still.


Ryan, Patrick, Joyce, Jimmie, Adam


About Patrick

The 26 year old ex-combatant, Patrick, was Joyce's primary caretaker in Uganda since the beginning. This young man is a miracle in many ways. Escapees are often murdered, but Patrick took the chance to get out after ten years of exploitation and abuse in the rebel army.

Day in, day out Patrick remained by Joyce's side, keeping in contact with Jimmie (who administers funds as needed and coordinates additional operations when needed). He has recently signed up for a program for ex-combatants that will grant him the chance to obtain his GED, while remaining linked to Joyce and her care.


Above photos courtesy of Jimmie Briggs


My Interests

August 16th update:Circumstances beyond our control have made it necessary to change the date of the benefit to September 30th. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience.

The Online Donations process is finished! Click here to make a contribution.

Tickets for the benefit are on sale NOW! Click here to make your purchase.

You can purchase your ticket(s) and make donations with your choice of credit/debit card, or with a PayPal account. A very limited amount of tickets will be reserved for purchase at the door.
Tickets are $45 each. 21 and over; ID will be required at the door.

A small percentage of the proceeds of your ticket purchase is going to the Remote Lounge for hosting the event ($5); the rest goes into the Trust for Joyce & Patrick.

There will be a cash bar (Remote suggests a two drink minimum) and complimentary hors d'oeuvres served.

Every attendee will be given 1 complimentary raffle ticket, with the opportunity to purchase additional raffle tix at the door. 100% of the proceeds of the raffle go to Joyce and Patrick.

I'd like to meet:

I hope to assemble a community of people whose pledges (entry tickets), raffle purchases (optional) and private donations (optional), provide supplementary funds to cover the day in, day out living expenses for the above two once what already exists is depleted (via Mr. Briggs).

Tanyeno Wotorson, Joyce Benefit Organizer

Music:

*See performer info in our blog.

Movies:

Television:

* If this one doesn't load, hit the F5 key along the top of your keyboard to refresh.

Books:

Innocents Lost: When Child Soldiers Go to War

Heroes:

THE JOYCE & PATRICK TEAM

* Tanyeno Wotorson - Benefit Organizer, Administrator Contact, Media Coordinator
* Robin Caines - Remote/Sponsorship Coordinator
* Carolyn Pons - Consultant/Benefit Assist
* Toni Bonitto - Web & Print Design
* Perthrina Pegus - Talent Coordinator
* Gloria Phillips Jones - Talent, Talent Coordinator
* Kanitra Perrault - Clothing/Toy Drive Coordinator
* Aisha Caines - Clothing/Toy Drive Coordinator
* Jaime Hanson - Clothing/Toy Drive Coordinator
* Equin Jones - Benefit Video taping
* Products & Services Coordinator - contact available upon request*
* Not-for-Profit Counsel - contact available upon request*

*These are our respective responsibilities but everyone included has contributed ideas, time, and solutions across and beyond their choice of duty.... so it is a labor of love.*

My Blog

8/13 Notice: Date Change for Benefit (updated 8/16)

Circumstances beyond our control have made it necessary to change the date of the benefit to September 30th. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience. The website and online ticketing process have...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Tue, 14 Aug 2007 07:44:00 PST

Those seeking to donate product or service for the raffle...

Hello Friends!Those seeking to donate a product or service for the raffle (benefit) at Remote Lounge, need to call 718.763.4386 and leave a message.Please leave your name and the best way and time to ...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Sat, 11 Aug 2007 11:47:00 PST

8/9/07: Online Donations are LIVE!!

The Online Donations section is live! See: http://helpjoyce.bonitto.com/TicketsDonations.html    Thank you!!...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Fri, 10 Aug 2007 08:37:00 PST

Clothing/Toy Drive information [update 7/22/07]

7/22/07: Unfortunately, it has come to our attention that an influx of new merchandise not available overseas would bring Joyce unwanted attention and put her at risk. As a result we will not be accep...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Thu, 28 Jun 2007 06:43:00 PST

Remote Lounge

Remote Lounge (green arrow below)327 Bowerybetween 2nd & 3rd StreetsNY, NY 10003Near: 6, B, D, F, V trains. Parking available onGreat Jones St. or Bond St., between Bowery & Lafayette....
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Thu, 19 Jul 2007 05:33:00 PST

Benefit performer bios/contact information

NELSON VIERA (DJ NELS) has been DJ'ing at numerous clubs/lounges and private events in and near New York City over the last 15 years. He has spun @ old-school favorites such as Les Poulets and the Lat...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Thu, 28 Jun 2007 05:16:00 PST

John Prendergast (ENOUGH! project) and Ryan Gosling discuss Northern Uganda

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd9PAihvs6U  http://www.enoughproject.org...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Wed, 20 Jun 2007 05:41:00 PST

Check out this video: TRI

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Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Mon, 18 Jun 2007 09:02:00 PST

Check out this video: I Got Soul

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Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Mon, 18 Jun 2007 08:58:00 PST

WHO IS THE LRA? IS THIS STILL HAPPENING?

For those of you who want to know more about who was fighting, how Joyce could have gotten caught in the middle of this ~ some online information...Who is the LRA? http://www.globalsecurity.org/m...
Posted by NYC Joyce & Patrick Benefit on Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:42:00 PST