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LadyARIES

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About Me



"Everything ends up okay in the end. If its not okay, its not the end"
This section is going to tell you more about who I am in real life than most of my previous about me sections. Most of the time I concentrate on one aspect of myself and elaborate on it because I think, at the time of writing, that it is the most influential aspect of my personality. Before this, it was about the misconception that I am a cocky individual. To summarize, it was an explanation of the fact that one can be comfortable with oneself and ones' appearance without thinking thinking that it makes him/her better than others. This section however, although is about appearance, is a step in a different direction.
Recently, now graduated from college, I suppose it is only natural to expect to be associating with those of a higher education level. What I should have expected was that my image (which I have taken great pride in) is conflicting with the social realm in which I find myself. Although I love my hair, and I love my gauges, and I will ALWAYS love my tattoos, I am running head on into the social force most commonly known as Conformity.
At this point it is up to me to decipher what the pros and cons of Conforming are. Yes, if I keep my style I could go on saying that everyone should accept me for me and that my image shouldn't have an impact on people's perception of who I am. No, I couldnt get any upper-level positions in just about any company or corporation. Yes, I could go on satisfied with the attention of everyone or No, I probably won't meet someone who exceeds my expectations for a serious life partner. Alas, I come to the conclusion that Conformity does not mean that I need to change my personality. In fact, I am finally coming to the point of my seemingly endless ramble.
I am not saying that I'm going to dye my hair brown and start wearing Abercrombie. But, as time goes on I find that I have to convince more and more people that I am a generally 'boring' person.
It is very rare that I get drunk. It is very rare that I even have more than three drinks over an entire evening. It is very rare that I get what most would consider 'roudy' or as like to call it, roisterous :).
It is unlikely that I will talk much unless I have something intelligent to say. It is unlikely that I will do much of anything without thinking of the consequences of my actions first and it is unlikely that I will spend much of my time in places where stupid people are known to congregate.
It IS likely that I will budget my time to have it spent with the people who mean the most to me. It IS likey that I will be in school for the rest of my life because I believe that life is boring once you stop learning. It IS likely that I will alter my appearance so that it fits my maturity level which unfortunatley is looking less and less like pink every day.
These are my tales of facing maturity and responsibility, Friends. I suppose that most run into these same issues as time progresses but it is a shock, even to me, that I am running into it so soon. I think I will tribute this new About Me section to SLC Punk, call it a night and try to prepare myself for the day I forfeit my image to Conformity.

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"Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means you're two steps ahead"

"Its better to be hated for what you are, than loved for what you aren't"

"You can stand tall without standing on someone. You can be a victor without having victims."

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I've finally figured out what I want to be doing for the rest of my life and I intend on using myspace as a tool to get where I want to go. I'm using it as a networking mechanism and to keep in contact with friends. I'm not using it as popularity contest however the larger number of friends I have, the more people I know and therefore the more networking I can do. I am primarily interested in networking with photographers, makeup artists, artists, all educated people, tattooists, tattoo enthusiasts, tattooed people, and everyone involved in either productions or philanthropy.

I am NOT interested in pornographic offers. I am not interested in why you think I should date you. I am not interested in giving my real name or my phone number. I am not interested in people who talk shit and I am not interested in people who do not seek the best out of themselves. I think this is all pretty clear. If I didn't cover something that you think needs to be addressed, please send me a message and I will add it to the list.

If I sent you a request it is for one of the aforementioned reasons. I am not a bot, I'm just looking to meet new people who share my interests.

NEW ADDITION:
This is probably a waste of effort considering that it is the same people who opt NOT to read my profile that this would apply to but I will add this to my list in hopes of avoiding it anyway. Do NOT call me Mami, Sexy, Baby, or Babe or any other lame, useless, disgusting pet names that you can think of. If I do NOT know you I am NOT any of these things to you. Apparently I wasn't clear enough the first time. Keep your pet names and your attempts to get me to message you back by calling me them to yourself. You are a waste of my time and I have no interest in you anyway. Want a sure-fire way to get me to NOT respond to you? Give it shot! See what happens.

"There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it behooves all of us not to talk about the rest of us."

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My Blog

Call me feminist but.... Respond to this!!

I wouldn't necessarily call myself a feminist but I have been presented with an individual who seems (to me) to have quite a warped sense of humor that tends to be particularly deragatory towards wome...
Posted by LadyARIES on Wed, 21 Nov 2007 10:52:00 PST

Thats Life: Lesson of Offense spawned by a car wreck

Life; Such a broad word that incorporates so many things. What does "Thats Life" really mean anyway? It means things are tough. It means you get hurt. It means you love, hate, cry, smile and learn. It...
Posted by LadyARIES on Thu, 15 Nov 2007 10:52:00 PST

I wish I was the Biggest loser

This is going to be another personal note, or blog, or whatever label is attached to a public personal diary, that hopefully will serve as an outlet for a tiny bit of frustration that I'm dealing with...
Posted by LadyARIES on Mon, 22 Oct 2007 02:11:00 PST

The Devil on my Left

It has been such a long time since I have written anything of significance so I send an apology to my returning readers. I have to say though, that it is rare that anyone writes about smooth sailing s...
Posted by LadyARIES on Wed, 26 Sep 2007 04:06:00 PST

we DO live in the land of opportunity... you're just lazy.

Cut through all the statistical squid ink surrounding the issue ofeconomic inequality, and you'll find a phenomenon that genuinelydeserves public concern. Over the past quarter-century or so, the retu...
Posted by LadyARIES on Thu, 12 Jul 2007 08:36:00 PST

The Distorted Female Mind

I used to wonder what stands between a woman and a mirror. I used to wonder what so commonly alters what the mirror seems to present to the individual standing in front of it. Whether it make her hips...
Posted by LadyARIES on Wed, 20 Jun 2007 07:35:00 PST

This goes out....

To all of those who've lost someone close to them. Especially those in recent times, where no one can take the blame because no one is officially to blame. My heart goes out to those who have lost som...
Posted by LadyARIES on Sun, 17 Jun 2007 07:46:00 PST

Painted Blades and Rotten Roots

How many times have you wanted something so bad and worked for it and worked for it and when you finally have it, its not what you had expected? Often I find that when I desire something for an extend...
Posted by LadyARIES on Fri, 18 May 2007 08:13:00 PST

What Women Want... written by Aries

What do women want? Dear God! What do they want?!Yeah, Freud said that. And I'm sure that the question is still out there, incompletely answered if not unanswered at all.Surprisingly, I have finally g...
Posted by LadyARIES on Fri, 11 May 2007 01:32:00 PST

Fuck You :)

'.....if you want'. When asking a potential interest if (s)he wants to so something, have you ever followed it by, 'If you want...' ? Example: "You should call me later if you want." Every time I hear...
Posted by LadyARIES on Thu, 10 May 2007 10:11:00 PST