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About Me


Here's my beautiful stepdaughter. She's very proud of her brother and they love each other lots. Sometimes I don't think it's too fair for her that my son takes up so much attention but she handles it well. I'm pretty proud of her as well...
I've been married 3 years and have received many wonderful gifts during this time. The best of all is a precious lil boy with Autism and a beautiful stepdaughter. Hubby and I had planned on marrying and stopped preventing pregnancy. Within 2 months I was blessed with a miracle. We didn't think it would happen so soon because I was told in the past it would be very hard for me to conceive. Those 9 months were rough but nothing abnormal and my baby was born perfect!!!
He had 10 fingers and toes, the blondest hair I've ever seen and beautiful blue eyes. I learned a love that I didn't think was possible.
My son progressed and developed a little slow but always within the timelines, and he had litte 'quirks' but we didn't think much of them. He was very independent, could entertain himself for hours, and smiled and laughed when he was happy. When it was time for him to talk though he didn't. Everyone told us he would catch up. He never did, and he will be 3 in July and still doesn't speak our language. We started looking up sites about Autism and realized his 'quirks' were actually red flags.
I requested an appt with a specialist and since then he has gone through blood tests, genetic testing, a sleep study, MRI, and an evaluation through our local early intervention program. They ruled out everything but Autism. In fact he just got the official diagnosis. We got the answer we were looking for. They confirmed my suspicions that I have a very special boy. Now my goal is to learn more so that I can help him progress and learn to connect with him in his world.
He is getting therapy four times a week now and he has already progressed well. We have introduced the PEC system and sign language and I have high hopes that one day soon my son will be able to communicate his needs, wants, and maybe even his feelings. He is getting ready to start special education preschool so I have high hopes with that as well. He still has issues and quirks and is delayed, but in our world we don't concentrate on that so much. We have many good days and that's what keeps us going.
Since therapy he now communicates with gestures and a couple of basic signs. He has shown us he's great at doing puzzles, and loves to learn new things. We just do things different and more step by step than the typical child. He now rolls his cars around instead of just spinning the wheels, and is dealing with transitions better. I've gotten his meltdowns down from lasting for hours to about 15 minutes. He loves for me to sing songs with gestures and sometimes even gestures himself.
For those of you who suspect or have recently gotten a diagnosis, this is not the end of the world. It's just a beginning of a new one. Don't give up and no matter what don't lose hope. They deserve that chance.
My son was perfect when he was born and that hasn't changed. He's still a precious gift and the love of my life. He may do things different, but that doesn't mean they are wrong. He deserves my love, patience, and understanding and that's what he'll get.
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My Interests

My loving family, cuddly cats, Autism, Wicca, Nature, making candles, aromatherapy, relaxing, and having fun...

Picture collage of Kaden & Family:
DEFINTION OF AUTISM:
Autism is a complex developmental disability that typically appears during the first three years of life and is the result of a neurological disorder that affects the normal functioning of the brain, impacting development in the areas of social interaction and communication skills. Both children and adults with autism typically show difficulties in verbal and non-verbal communication, social interactions, and leisure or play activities. One should keep in mind however, that autism is a spectrum disorder and it affects each individual differently and at varying degrees - this is why early diagnosis is so crucial. By learning the signs, a child can begin benefiting from one of the many specialized intervention programs.

SIGNS OF AUTISM:
People with autism also process and respond to information in unique ways. In some cases, aggressive and/or self-injurious behavior may be present. Persons with autism may also exhibit some of the following traits:

Insistence on sameness;

resistance to change

Difficulty in expressing needs,using gestures or pointing instead of words;

Repeating words or phrases in place of normal,responsive language;

Laughing (and/or crying) for no apparent reason showing distress for reasons not apparent to others;

Preference to being alone; aloof manner;

Tantrums;

Difficulty in mixing with others;

Not wanting to cuddle or be cuddled;

Little or no eye contact;

Unresponsive to normal teaching methods;

Sustained odd play;

Spinning objects;

Obsessive attachment to objects;

Apparent over-sensitivity or under-sensitivity to pain;

No real fears of danger;

Noticeable physical over-activity or extreme under-activity;

Uneven gross/fine motor skills;

Non responsive to verbal cues; acts as if deaf, although hearing tests in normal range.

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