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matthew

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

36, work full time and have just finished an undergrad degree, after 6 years of part time study. I have a love of music, and film. I Used to present a few programs on community radio, before uni and work commitments made it too difficult to do. 'alt.' and 'eclectronica' were a couple of shows i was lucky enough to co-present with the talented Dean Galloway. Dean also set up a cool site for 'eclectronica': http://www.geocities.com/eclectronica_fm/.................. if you are into BLOGS, and after you have read mine :-)....check out these ones:............ my good friend Fiona is living in France and has a great Blog about it..some pics and tips for tourists as well: http://colourmecrazy.blogspot.com/ she also has a culinary blog with great resturant reviews, food chat, links to other culinary blog's etc..oh and a few recipes: http://colourmecrazy.blogspot.com/ ...............

My Interests

listening to music and writing/ playing it. Having coffee, hanging out at cafe's, and chatting with friends.

I'd like to meet:

people who are emotionally mature, have a sense of humour and humility. In the flow of conversation and thoughts, perhaps i might learn a thing or two, or three or four :-)

Music:

anything from alt country, to indie, pop, electronica, 20th century and beyond. I love melody, tone, texture and a great beat.

Movies:

Victor /Victoria, Little Miss Sunshine, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind

Television:

As time goes by, Curb your enthusiasm

Books:

Harry Potter (does that offically make me a nerd?), Jane Austen, Sociology Text (or does this make me a nerd?)

Heroes:

Anyone who is themselves and acts with integrity and isn't afraid to admit they make mistakes, or afraid to make amends :-)

My Blog

A & E

A & E         Though I do not refer to accident and emergency, but to arrogance and ego, it is almost as fitting. I discovered it almost accidentally and in my haste...
Posted by matthew on Mon, 14 Jul 2008 04:03:00 PST

'H & I' Saturday the 17th of November

  Saturday the 17th of November 2007   'H & I'            I thought the rain would mean our planed picnic was going to be a wash out. I put t...
Posted by matthew on Sun, 18 Nov 2007 01:27:00 PST

Arrogance

  Arrogance How did I go from shy and scared child, to class trouble maker/clown, to confident adult, to arrogant person?   At what point did I lose, or begin to lose my humility? &nb...
Posted by matthew on Tue, 06 Nov 2007 02:02:00 PST

The calm space within

That calm space, that which lies between the inhalation and the exhalation. I meditate and I am there. I breathe slowly, deeply, and suddenly the space between breaths lasts for what seems forever. My...
Posted by matthew on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 05:07:00 PST

so close , yet so far away

So close yet so far away.   His possible visit has been known about for a while now. I have busied myself with work and exam preparations. When I have become really anxious I have meditated or g...
Posted by matthew on Sat, 27 Oct 2007 02:42:00 PST

Jealousy

Jealousy   In the Pet Shop Boys song "jealousy", Neil Tennant sings "Jealousy& I never knew 'till I met you"   I have had those feelings in the past, mostly with a man whom I loved deeply....
Posted by matthew on Sun, 14 Oct 2007 04:46:00 PST

Ramblings on the truth

Was it that Jesus who said "the truth will set you free" ?   Will it?   And who's truth might that be?   While there are many truths and many versions of the truth, the question over t...
Posted by matthew on Tue, 04 Sep 2007 02:54:00 PST

The greatest love of all&..

  The greatest love of all&..     Its late, Sunday night, tomorrow is work. Where do I start? I guess the beginning is as good as any other place, but that was so long ago, that I may ...
Posted by matthew on Sun, 29 Jul 2007 05:50:00 PST

Growing up&.. at last

Growing up&.. at last   Growing pains, yes they do exist, but will a time come in which they will ease? 2 years back on a family holiday I felt so upset that I wanted to cry and leave&to run, to...
Posted by matthew on Wed, 25 Jul 2007 03:42:00 PST

The heart is a lonely hunter

'The Heart is a Lonely Hunter' is the beautiful title of a book by Carson McCullers. A book about mis-understanding and loneliness, people attempting to connect with others and attempting to be unders...
Posted by matthew on Sun, 01 Jul 2007 01:17:00 PST