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Destin

Erotic Rockstar

About Me

Check out: http://www.EroticRockstar.com
There is so much more to our sexuality than most of us even understand. We have had no good role models for how to have a strong positive relationship to our own sexuality, let alone how to have an amazing healthy hot sexual connection with someone else.
I remember first coming into my sexuality and having so many questions. Yet, I had the hardest time really getting them answered. I couldn't talk about sex to my family. The sex education we had at school was too little, too late. And the sex ed that I got then was way better than most of what's taught out there today. The "abstinence-only" sex education programs make me sick. It's not just that they don't teach things that teens have a right to know, it's that they lie. They warp teens minds and fuck with their sexuality. Why? Because their own sexuality was fucked with. I have compassion for our parents' generation. I do. But, we have to break the cycle.
I have chosen an unusual path. I have dedicated my life to exploring my sexuality as a primary part of my life. Since heading down this path, I've discovered things that go far beyond what I ever knew could be possible. And now is the time for me to share what I've been discovering.
We live in a time of great transformational shift in human consciousness. Part of that shift MUST be a shift in consciousness around our sexuality. This is where I'm stepping up to play my role in this beautiful tapestry of existence.
More and more of my energy is being focused on creating large scale group experiences in which transformation can take place. Strengthening the connection between the genitals and the heart. Healing the rift between sexuality and spirituality. Releasing any shame held around one's sexuality and moving into a place of real celebration of one's own eroticism, rooted in respect for self and respect for others.
I also do erotic coaching work with people, particularly via phone so that I am accessible to people no matter where they are. I work from the belief that you are capable, whole, and powerful. The answers lie inside of you. You are on your own unique path. I likely have information that you do not yet possess, and can act as a guide for you on your journey. Someone to help you identify and set goals. Someone to help hold you accountable to the goals you set. Someone to give you little kicks in the ass when you need it, and to celebrate with you when you've reached goals or milestones.
. My beloved MegaStar Anastasia and I modeled for this burner fashion show. She comes in at the 1:16mark, with me following at 2:02.
Destin's and Anastasia's lapdances in Maui.

My Interests

Exploring all that is erotically possible. Sharing it with the world.
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Performing with the Tantric Circus:

I'd like to meet:

Others who are on a journey to discover their erotic selves. And those who are just about to start on that journey.

Music:

Frou Frou, Telepopmusik, Goddess Alchemy Project, Ooah, Bassnectar, Sofiah Thom, Niyaz, Azam Ali, and I have to admit, two of my most played songs lately have also included Still Dirrty by Christina Aguilera, and SexyBack by Justin Timberlake

Books:

Starting to read: The Jewel in the Lotus and The Art of Sexual Ecstasy

Heroes:

Joseph Kramer, Annie Sprinkle, Betty Dodson, Carol Queen, Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., and every person who has dared to make a difference in this world.

My Blog

Take a look at this

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Posted by Destin on Thu, 14 Aug 2008 02:43:00 PST

MASTERING SEXUAL COMMUNICATION

Men, check this out! Women, pass it on to the men in your life!DestinMASTERING SEXUAL COMMUNICATIONA 4 PART TELECLASS FOR MEN WHO LOVE WOMEN (AND WANT TO LOVE THEM BETTER)Tuesday July 8th, 15th, 22nd,...
Posted by Destin on Thu, 12 Jun 2008 03:08:00 PST

Updates from the past few months

-Hawaii was epic. The Tantric Circus was incredibly well received. Especially on the Big Island where a sex-positive community of 20- and 30-somethings simply LOVED us!-I've been building my private c...
Posted by Destin on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 03:10:00 PST

Embodying Masculine Desire JUNE 10th 6-7pm

Tuesday, June 10th, from 6-7pm, I'll be doing the first of a series of FREE tele-summits. The topic is, "Embodying Masculine Desire," and I'll be co-leading the call with Robert Allen of roguetantra.c...
Posted by Destin on Sat, 31 May 2008 10:06:00 PST

Destin Explains his take on Tantra

http://youtube.com/watch?v=8m8AzCUBIy0
Posted by Destin on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 01:50:00 PST

Destin Explains his take on Tantra

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Posted by Destin on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 01:51:00 PST

Turning 30

Friends and Loved Ones,This Saturday is my 30th Birthday. The big 3-0.I've been asked repeatedly, what do you want for your birthday? What do you want to do? Etc.I am blessed with having a community o...
Posted by Destin on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 04:42:00 PST

The Tantric Circus at the Honoring the Goddess Gathering

The Tantric Circus is back from Hawaii and will be presenting a night of reEvolutionary erotic theater prayerformance at the Goddess Gathering next weekend!www.honoringthegoddess.googlepages.com/~Pre-...
Posted by Destin on Tue, 18 Mar 2008 09:58:00 PST

The Tantric Circus Presents: Destin and Anastasia

Destin Gerek aka The Erotic Rockstar (www.EroticRockstar.com) and his love, Anastasia, performing lapdances for each other in Maui as part of the Tantric Circus Hawaii Tour. Super Hot! ...
Posted by Destin on Wed, 12 Mar 2008 12:53:00 PST

Hawaiian Island Tour Schedule

Anastasia and I leave for Maui TOMORROW!!!This weekend we'll be performing at SOURCE, a Maui Burning Man weekend festival.http://www.sourcemaui.com/10pm, Saturday night. Sounds like a perfect time slo...
Posted by Destin on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 08:42:00 PST