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About Me

Sexploration with Monika is a sex-positive feminist radio talk show about sex, love, and everything in between... on FCC Free Radio 107.3 FM , San Francisco's Alternative Radio Station.
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Sexploration with Monika has thrown out all the "rules" about sex, love, and dating - except the essential, central principle: adult consent. The secret is, among consenting adults, where everyone is getting what they want and having their unique kind of fun, *anything* is possible, as long as everyone says YES.
As a sex-positive feminist, I like to discuss how women and men get what they want in the context of sex and relationships, with a heavy emphasis on exploring new ideas, consent, negotiation, safe sex, non-traditional love and sex relationships, connection, communication, and play. Sexploration show topics range from female ejaculation, sex-robots, Japanese Bondage, foot fetishists, metamorphasexuals, orgasmic meditation, better sex through yoga, consentual kinky sex, polyamory, and tips on having the perfect menage-et-trois.
Free download: a full hour-long episode, "The BDSM Tea Party!" . In the BDSM Tea party, Monika has a cup of tea with a professional dominatrix, a male slave, a male dominant, and his female partner, a submissive and switch. Monika wants to know what it's like to humiliate men for a living, what's good about being flogged, and why on earth you'd seek literally painful relationships. The BDSM Tea party covers a range of topics in bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism and then Monika teaches them a trick... mmmmm, what can be done with cup of tea. Adult themes, civilized discussion, a cup of tea, The BDSM Tea Party on Sexploration with Monika.
I'm a pantheistic existentialist metamorphasexual femin-, no, HUMANist philosopher interested in love, fun, and exploring this crazybeautiful universe in which we find ourselves.
I was a morning radio personality in Alaska and Music Director in Alaska, then lived a year in Japan, then traveled all over Europe, Jamaica, Australia, and New Zealand. I was scuba diving the Great Barrier Reef for my most recent birthday.
I've "settled down" (ha ha ha!) in San Francisco and am pursuing my life's goal of becoming a sex-positive gender role revolutionary and host a radio talk show about sex, love, and relationships. Ready, set, go!
Thanks to Cal Reichenbach and the band Socket for letting me have my way with their song "Slam Funk" for the show's opener. Cal is also the guitarist of the Afrobeat band Albino!
Thanks to David at Media Posse for welcoming me into his studio. I recorded the BDSM Tea Party, Sex Robots, Japanese Bondage, and Consentual Whipping episodes at his studio in Haight-Ashbury.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Nice people, enlightened people, crazy people, cool people, sexy people, brilliant people, open-minded people, sweet people, kind people, fierce people, philosophical people, and oh, if you are all of these things at once...

My Blog

Can a vote stop marriage stop love?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTFNlYp3n20 No. And it won't stop love, and that's why in the long term prop 8 will fail anyway, and love will prevail.
Posted by on Thu, 28 May 2009 17:00:00 GMT

Mary Roach: 10 things you didn't know about orgasm

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jx0dTYUO5E Interesting, and quite right. I didn't know most of these things... particularly the thing about pigasms.
Posted by on Tue, 26 May 2009 21:37:00 GMT

Prop 8 decision on Tuesday!

The California Supreme Court just announced it will release its decision on Proposition 8 on Tuesday, May 26. The court will either uphold the Constitution, recognizing equal protection under the law,...
Posted by on Fri, 22 May 2009 15:21:00 GMT

The Masturbate-A-Thon

The Masturbate-A-Thon is an event where men and women masturbate in public and in private to raise money for the Center For Sex and Culture, a non-profit adult sexuality education center in San Fra...
Posted by on Wed, 29 Apr 2009 00:24:00 GMT

My boyfriend has to watch porn to have sex.

Q: My boyfriend says he has to watch porn to get turned on. Is that normal? A: No and yes. Lots of people enjoy porn. However, he should also be able to get turned on without porn. Anything that you h...
Posted by on Wed, 18 Mar 2009 01:43:00 GMT

Sparkle panties (photo) exhibitionism?

I just *love* these panties.Heidi Forsell "Bottom Line" 2008From an art exhibition at CCSF, San Francisco.
Posted by on Mon, 16 Mar 2009 15:05:00 GMT

A bigger Penis or World Peace?

If forced to decide between having a bigger penis or living in a world where there was no war, 90 percent of all men would pick world peace!!from Pronoia News Network, by Rob BrezsneyIsn't that *just*...
Posted by on Wed, 11 Mar 2009 20:43:00 GMT

Abstinence Pledges don't work, & condom use less likely!!

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/12 /28/AR2008122801588.html?referrer=myspace Teenagers who pledge to remain virgins until marriage are just as likely to have premarital sex as...
Posted by on Sun, 08 Mar 2009 23:52:00 GMT

Who you're NOT hearing on radio

Women and people of color control just one-eighth of the country's full-power radio stations despite comprising two-thirds of the population. The FCC deregulated media ownership limits, hastening the ...
Posted by on Thu, 05 Mar 2009 13:17:00 GMT

Beauty-ism?

http://www.tricitypsychology.com/blog/do-we-have-a...Our culture seems to include physical beauty in the hierarchy of oppressions... "attractive" people make 10% more $$, succeed in game shows, and ar...
Posted by on Thu, 05 Mar 2009 11:31:00 GMT