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Tolu

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About Me


I was born in London on 6th June 1978, i guess that makes me a Gemini...not two faced, but adaptable to any situation i find myself in.I went to a private primary school in Lagos called Chrisland, then I was shipped off to boarding house. I first went to an all boys school called Ijebu Ode Grammar School, then i finished off high school at Federal Government College Warri...then without much of a holiday, went to University of Ilorin to begin studying English, before I found that attempt futile and in need of a strategy change....I came back to London at the age of 18 in 1996 and attempted to study Law, a concept which ended in a decision to travel to several countries and I ended up working on a cruise ship...(best years of my life) I did study Law for a few years, but decided Lawyers were narrow minded and without a free spirited concept of the truth. I felt I perhaps had the brain for Law, but not the heart for it, so that was that... adieus to the prospect of being a lawyer...after my spirited sojourn round the world...(I didnt exactly travel round the world, but i visited a few countries and decided it was good enough to satisfy my quest for knowledge of other cultures for now) I decided to go back to school, where I got a degree in Commuications and Visual Culture.I've now gone on to complete a Masters Degree in Communications Management.meanwhile, I started writing a novel titled 'A Flame in an Ocean' and i hope to finish it erm...soon enough...and in the meantime, i dribble on paper, some, sometimes sensible shit that could be called poems...dabbled into spoken word (performance poetry)...but nowhere near as good as the amazing poets on the scene like Phenzwaan, Tuggstar, Shortman...and a certain youngster that i watched grow called Inua 'Phaze' Ellams... I guess i'm more of a writer that a performer...well, that's my excuse...so...i'll shut up now and in time add some more shit to this page...
Your Love Style is Agape
You are a caring, kind, and selfless partner.
Unsurprisingly, your love style is the most rare.
You are willing to sacrfice your world for your sweetie.
Except it doesn't really feel like sacrifice to you.
For you, nothing feels better than giving to the one you love. What's Your Love Style?

My Interests

Poetry, Sports, Music (

I'd like to meet:

Anyone with a big heart and soul. I love open minded people who arent afraid to explore the possibilities of humanity and are not afraid to be wrong.

Music:

Jazz, R&B, Soul

Movies:

Black - (The greatest movie ever made...it's an indian movie with Amitabh Bachan) The Matrix Hero - I love Kung Fu Movies...cant beat them

Books:

Jeffery Deaver, Dan Brown, Wole Soyinka, John Grisham...to name a few of my favourite authors

Heroes:

Spike Lee, Pedro Almodovar, Jean Luc Goddard, Michel Foucault, Willem Friedrich Hegel, and loads of philosophers and althernative thinkers, film makers and extra ordinary personalities

My Blog

Inspired Night

It was my friends birthday party at Paper Club but it was Ama's rendition of Paper Mood that got me in the mood for a night of inspired edutainment that aptly began with blessings and thanks to God; ...
Posted by Tolu on Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:39:00 PST

Severed Hands

  The hue that shapes tomorrow like yesterday in times of Jim Crow where Parks were divided by shades as tree trunks and barks fades with each ray of light that shines through a prism and colours...
Posted by Tolu on Fri, 06 Jul 2007 06:47:00 PST

Expedition

My feet grow numb as each step I take Drains life out of me   My legs are heavy and the sand beneath my feet Swallow each metatarsal and my ankles Struggle to break free from the shackles Of the...
Posted by Tolu on Mon, 02 Apr 2007 02:26:00 PST

Still

She lay still as the dead in a cold dark place still as the waters in the psalmists song still she lays, wrapped in cold swaddling clothes drips of cold flowing waters passing stilly through her veins...
Posted by Tolu on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 03:23:00 PST

Sirius Calling

Images swirl in my headOf men being one with the deadSouls of men snatched from their bedGrim seduction in a third world shedSlowly creeping into his head.Murdering souls of emaciated women on redOcto...
Posted by Tolu on Tue, 06 Feb 2007 10:45:00 PST

New Life

I was born of the stencil and the scalpelBoth prodding the thinly layered fleshBeneath my mother's womb6 red days of constant agony afterTwo hundred and sixty eight days of heavy lifting and laughter&...
Posted by Tolu on Sun, 04 Feb 2007 11:53:00 PST

Game of Death

Simplicity paves the way for pugilistic invincibility Dexterity softens the blows of adversity Each time the clock ticks My soul tucks Itself into the bed of necessity, My mind soars through mid air E...
Posted by Tolu on Sun, 04 Feb 2007 06:17:00 PST

My Life; Death's Life

My Life; Death's Life   I am born into this world and given MY LIFE!I get fed, I get weaned I get cleaned;Someone else is in control of me!I reach adolescence and told to take control of MY LIFE...
Posted by Tolu on Sun, 04 Feb 2007 06:23:00 PST