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Find the guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, "that's her."
Find the guy who pursues you, the kind of guy who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the guy who will be your best friend, the guy who makes you smile like no other guy and when he smiles you know he needs you. Wait for the guy who appreciates it when you get all dolled up for him, but thinks you're most beautiful without makeup on. Wait for the guy, when in a crowded room, looks straight at you and winks and you know he only wants to be with you. Wait for the guy whose head will never turn because he wants and loves only you. And most of all, wait for the guy who will put you at the center of his universe, because obviously he's at the center of yours.
I listen but never believe, because actions speak louder than words.
It's not about being what everyone wants you to be...it's about finding someone who will take a deeper look...past the make up and the flaws...someone that loves every bit of it and sees BEAUTY.
Find a guy who would move the hair away from your eyes and then kiss you, who would hold your hand in line at the supermarket and make all the girls jealous. Someone who would sing to you at random moments. Who would let you sleep on their chest. A guy who would get mad at someone if they called you ugly or were mean to you. Find someone who would call you three times a day if he went away. Someone who would let you gossip to him, and would just smile and agree with everything you said. He would throw stuffed animals at you when you acted dumb and then kiss you a million times. Someone who would make fun of you just to make you laugh. He would take you to the park and put his hands around your waist and give you big bear hugs all the time. He would tell all his friends about you and smile while he did it. And you’d make out in the pouring rain. He would never be afraid to say ‘I Love You’ in front of his friends, and you’d argue about silly things then makeup. Find a guy that would kiss you at midnight on New Year's Eve and count stars with you. Who would stay home with you on a Friday night just to help you make dinner and watch movies together under the same blanket. Someone who would tell you that you're beautiful, but not too often. Who would make you laugh like no one else could. But mostly, find someone who would be your best friend and would never break your heart.
When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers " I'm fine " after a few seconds ... she is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you ... she is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest ... she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says " I love you " ... she means it. When a GIRL says " I miss you " ... no one in this world can miss you more than that. Life only comes around once make sure you spend it with the right person ....
Any man who prefers an airbrushed woman to a real woman is kind of...boring. What that kind of man finds sexy doesn't make them very interesting or unusual or special. It just makes them common.
Honesty has never changed the truth.
People don't change, they just reveal their true colors.
To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
After awhile you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
and you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises,
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes open.
And you learn to build all your roads
on today because tomorrow's ground
is too uncertain for plans, and futures have
a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After awhile you learn that even sunshine
burns if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate
your own soul, instead of waiting
for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure...
that you really are strong
and you really do have worth.
And you learn and learn...
With every goodbye you learn.