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I am a true girly girl, love to get dressed up, shop, party and hang out with my bestest girlfriends and Click with my Chix!
I like to PARTY and love to be seen with the lovelies! If you're hot, let's meet and see what kind of fun we can stir up.
And Lastly, I AM A SWINGER! AND IM IN "THE LIFESTYLE"...
SWINGING & LIFESTYLE DEFINITIONS
The following is a (non-exhaustive) list of some of the typical terms that may be useful to singles or couples who are interested in, participate or are otherwise involved in swapping, swinging or the swinger lifestyle.
• AC/DC - a bisexual individual, someone who enjoys sex with individuals of both genders
• Adult - a reference to anything pornographic or meant for mature audiences
• Adult Ads - an ad used in some type of published media, typically an online profile or newspaper or magazine ad used by swingers to meet other swinging couples or lifestyle singles
• Adult Classifieds - a classifed ad used in some type of published media, typically an online profile or newspaper or magazine ad used by swingers to meet other swinging couples or lifestyle singles
• Adult Personals - an ad used in some type of published media, typically an online profile or newspaper or magazine ad used by swingers to meet other swinging couples or lifestyle singles
• Adultery - engaging in sexual activity with someone other than your sexual partner or spouse, without their consent or knowledge
• Alt - a word often used to describe the lifestyle or an alternative lifestyle such as bi-sexuality, swinging, swapping, bdsm, etc…
• American Culture - the missionary position, a reference to the sexual position of man on top, or in the case of homo-sexual or bi-sexual activity, sex with another person involving penetration and face to face positioning
• An Adult Friend Finder or Group - a club, group or organization dedicated to the lifestyle and helping couples of similar interests meet one another
• Anal sex - intercourse involving penetration of one’s anal cavity, also called Greek Culture at times.
• Analingus - sexual contact with the anal orifice of one individual by the mouth of another, may involve, kissing, licking or sucking the anus of another.
• Bareback - Sexual activity without the use of a condom.
• BDSM - a common term known to refer to Bondage - Discipline - Sado Masochism
• Bi curious - a person that is curious about same sex activity.
• Bi-Fem or Bifem - a term used to refer to a single bi-sexual female or a married bi-sexual femal
• Bi-Sexual - A heterosexual individuals that recreationally engages in sex with someone of the same sex.
• Bondage - Achieving sexual pleasure from restraint
• Bottom - A recipient of sexual activity. Typically a passive partner
• BYOB - “Bring Your Own Beer.”
• Can Entertain - Indicates where someone can host sexual activities in their home.
• Closed swinging - Swingers who party whether or not their partner is present
• Cuckhold - A man who gains sexual stimulation because his wife engages in sexual activity without him. Typically, the wife either brags about it, forces him to watch, or tells him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch.
• Couples Club - a night club that caters to couples involved in swinging, or the lifestyle
• Cunnilingus - “oral sex” performed on a female, where the female clitoral and vaginal area are stimulated by the mouth of another.
• D & D Free - “Drug and Disease Free”
• Dildo - A sex toy that resembles the male penis. It is usually made of soft plyable material and may or may not vibrate.
• Exhibitionism - Deriving sexual pleasure from showing one's body or conducting sexual activities in public or for display.
• Fellatio - stimulation of the, male penis by “oral sex”, contact with a man’s penis by the mouth of the other for the intention of sexual stimulation.
• Full swap - Partners in swinging who trade or swap sexual partners and have sexual intercourse, in the same or separate rooms. Sometimes referred to as “hard swinging”
• Hard Swinging - Parties where sex is expected, or the norm, can be often referred to as an “orgy”
• Hedonism - the state of living for the pursuit of pleasure.
• Off premise - A swingers or lifestyle club which does not permit sexual activity on location.
• A Lifestyle Lounge Club - a club, group or organization dedicated to the lifestyle and helping couples of similar interests meet one another
• On-Premise - A swingers or lifestyle club which is normally a “private, membership only organization” which permits or allows sexual activity on location.
• Open swinging - Swingers who party within view of their partner only
• Party - an event where swingers are present or sexual activities between swingers
• Playful swingers - a single or couple involved in the lifestyle who is fun and friendly seeking to meet others of like mind.
• Polyamory - The concept that it is normal and okay to “fall” or “be in love” with more than one individual at the same time.
• Sadist - A person who enjoys or is turned on by the act of inflicting pain, discomfort or humiliation on another.
• Soft Swinging - Parties where sexual activity is not expected, but might occur in a discreet environment.
• Swapper - a term used to refer to “swingers” who either full swap or soft swap their partners during recreational sexual activity
• Swingers - a loose term coined to define those in the “lifestyle” There are many different ways of defining a “swinger”. For example, some swinging individuals, enjoy the company of those that have an open sexual orientation, but choose not to participate in any sexual activity whatsoever.
• Swinger Ads - an ad used in some type of published media, typically an online profile or newspaper or magazine ad used by swingers to meet other swinging couples or lifestyle singles
• Swingers Chat - a chat room dedicated to lifestyle swingers or swapping couples or bisexual females or other singles involved in recreational sexual activity to discuss lifestyle topics
• Swinger Club - a night club which caters to the swinging lifestyle
• Swingers Forum - a chat room dedicated to lifestyle swingers or swapping couples or bisexual females or other singles involved in recreational sexual activity to discuss lifestyle topics
• Swinger Personals - an ad used in some type of published media, typically an online profile or newspaper or magazine ad used by swingers to meet other swinging couples or lifestyle singles.
• Swingers Matching Site - a website utilized primarily to post online photos, profiles etc in order to meet other like minded individuals interested in recreational sexual activity
• Swingers or Lifestyle Convention - A social gathering of individuals in the lifestyle, typically at a hotel, where seminars, parties and other social events take place.
• A Swingers Date Club (SDC) - a club, group or organization dedicated to the lifestyle and helping couples of similar interests meet one another
• The Lifestyle - Participating in some aspect of swinging or identifying oneself as a “swinger’.
• Travel - Swingers who have the ability to travel to other locations or cities in order to meet other swingers.
• Wife Swappers, Swappers, Swapping wives - a term used primarily to describe lifestyle couples who either full swap or soft swap sexual partners between other couples or singles involved in recreational sexual activity
WHAT DOES “SWINGING” ENTAIL?
Swinging may involve any of the following: recreational sex, s&m activities, bondage, fetishism, massage, masturbation, rub-downs, mutual masturbation, sexy dancing, erotic dancing, stripping, oral sex, oral-only play, 69 oral sex, watching, voyeurism, performing for watchers, playing with toys, feathers and leather, watching x-rated videos or using other forms of pornography, playing with your primary partner in the same room as other couples play, sex between females only, bi-sexualism, sexual intercourse, anal sex, etc. Etiquette requires you to determine what your playmates are interested in and establish livable boundaries that provide for the satisfaction and comfort of all involved. Above all, don’t, “take one for the team” – in other words, don’t do something you don’t want to do just to please someone else, Remember, you are in this for Fun!
MAKING CONTACT
Making first contact can be the most frustrating and exhilarating experience all at once. Human beings naturally fear rejection. However, if you don’t try, you never know what might have been. If you follow the number one rule, you’ll be fine - - - be considerate of others and respect their preferences.. Swinging activities can happen in a variety of locations, but for the most part, the can occur:
1. between already close friends
2. as a result of a personal ad you may have placed
3. at social gatherings or conventions held for swingers or those in the lifestyle
4. private house parties
5. night clubs or other social establishments specifically for lifestyle individuals
You already know that the people you meet at lifestyle events, are already there, because they want to party! Your challenge is to determine what their preferences are, and if there is any interest in partying together. Remember, it’s alright to ask! If for some reason, you don’t get the response you were looking for, don’t feel rejected or get offended. There are plenty of people out there to party with who will have the same preferences as you! By all means, don’t press the issue and don’t continue to ask why. Do not make any pre-conceived ideas about why they said no. NO means NO and nothing more.
SWINGING VERSUS SWAPPING
Swapping, is a term used to describe the activity of exchanging sexual partners, even if just for a temporary time, typically during a swinging event, convention or house party. Swappers engage in sex or foreplay of some kind, with either just one other individual or another couple.
Swinging on the other hand, covers such a wide range of sexual play, that it is hard to define or limit. Swinging can involve sexual activity like 2 somes, 3-somes, and/or group sexual activities referred to as orgies Some swingers, “swing” but do NOT swap. They may engage in sexual “play” or soft sexual activities, only when their partner is close by. They may not ever truly “swap” partners with others, or engage in sexual activity with anyone other than their partner, outside of the same room. Other terms you may be familiar with are, "soft swap", "soft- swing", "full swap" and "full swing” Soft-swinging, is usually meaning a couple that may engage in foreplay with other partners, but will only "finish up" only with their partner. Simply, this refers to no vaginal or anal penetration. For some it might permit oral sex, while for others it might not.
Swinging & the Lifestyle – Adult fun
Are you still undecided?
Why should I/we give “Swinging” & “Lifestyle” a try?
Have you found yourself thinking a lot lately about how to spice up, or rekindle the passion and “fun” in your relationship or marriage? Do you find yourself single and find that the single bars, pick up bars and the “vanilla” club scene provide too superficial and “tame” an atmosphere and environment?
Married, Single, Bi-curious or Bi-sexual Females, swinging, swing clubs, couples clubs and the Lifestyle may just be the outlet and atmosphere for finding the connection(s) and opportunities for a new openness to greater levels of bliss, fulfillment, sexual ecstasy and the erotic and exotic.
The Lifestyle is all-inclusive, and there is a place and person for everyone, and prejudice, judgment, and pride are not acceptable by most, although respect should and is in most cases always practiced. The only “rule” is to respect others and respect yourself.
You may find as you begin to browse Couples and Swingers websites like CouplesClick.net , that this is the Adult outlet that you have been looking for, that for the most part, you have always had to keep locked in your back closet, under the mattress, or buried away only in your mind and fantasies! Yes, this is a place to see your fantasies come true!