I finally realize that you cant change the way people are you have to let them do that on their own you can only change you and what you think about you listen you cant make some one be happy if they are not make your self happy first and then everything will fall in place life is a big surprise you never know what comes next live life to the fullest and do for you put god first and everything after have fun love your self and look at how much better you feel about life think about this they never was wrong when they say love is blind you will let the world pass you by love is not suppose to hurt all the time if thats the kinda love you have with someone let it go and if its meant to be it will be trust me