Gatsby

Fun loving kinda guy. Yes, that's me in the pic. I enjoy going to the beach, candle light dinners, walks and dinner by the ocean. I enjoy staying home with the woman I like and watching a good movie. I don't mind, in the least, making dinner or treating a woman to a nice foot massage or body massage when she gets home. It makes for a wonderful evening later on. Also, preparing her a nice bubble bath with candles and wine and maybe a few rose petals in the bath always makes for a special evening. I also like to surprise a woman with a little present every once in awhile. Bringing home flowers or candy even when it's not a special occassion. I've learned through the years that it's not the big things that a man does for his special lady but the little things. Although big things, like buying her a car or jewelry or expensive clothing are appreciated, I feel little things a guy does for his girl matters just as much. Women want men to listen to what they are saying. A guy doesn't necessarily have to come up with a solution each time but, the fact that he's listening is what matters most. Woman are constantly leaving subtle hints and it would behoove guys to pick up on that. Even if it's as innocuous as her mentioning she likes a particular shade of lipstick, pick up on that. Surprise her with a tube of it one day when you get home. This is a double edged sword and it does two things. First, it tells her you're listening to her and second, it lets her know that you appreciate her very much. And a small kiss and an I love you, as you walk out the door for work is always a great way to let her know how you feel, and a great way to start her day. All of these things cost so very little but, they carry a message that speaks volumns. I'm not a particularly big fan of drama. When I'm out with a few friends or a lady I don't cherish the idea of having to step in the middle of a confrontation and possibly coming home with various injuries or saying; "Yes officer, he threw the first punch." What I'm trying to say here is, I don't mind people having a few cocktails but, please don't turn the evening into a wild west, rock 'em, sock 'em evening or having me morph into Sigmund Freud saying, "Your mascara is running." Like I said, I don't mind people having a few cocktails but, for want of a better term, please don't turn into a sloppy drunk. So lets all go out, have fun and enjoy the evening. I'm addicted to crossword puzzles as well as the jumble(scramble, depending on which newspaper you buy) and the cryptoquip. They are all great mind exercises. It's funny how so many people exercise their entire body for hours on end yet forget about one of the most important parts of the body, the mind. An attractive body is always nice but, I strongly feel that the mind leaves a longer, more indelible impression. This in NO way means I feel that people shouldn't take care of their bodies. On the contrary, I like a woman who is physically fit as I keep myself in good shape and I like for a woman to do the same. Well, that's about it for me. Hope I haven't bored you with a lot of information about me. *WARNING* The views and opinions expressed here are not necessarily the views and opinions of Myspace. All content herein are the expressed thoughts of the author. "Hehehehe!" ...