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Charlie Mecca

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I am not your average 21 year old guy. I have a real job, nice car, money, class, respect, goals to achieve, etc. I am saving right now so hopefully by the end of the year if not early 2008 I will be purchasing my first house. I have been through a lot in my lifetime and have learned so much from it which makes me even stronger and pushes me to work harder every day. Life is too short to be filled with drama and bullshit, so live your life to the fullest because you never know when your time will come. I am currently a firefighter for the Scotch Plains Fire Department.

Support your local bands:
Suffer the Living
Float Face Down
At Rest
The Mongoloids
Slaughterhouse Five
Abacinate
Shattered Realm
Years Spent Cold
Skysetunfold

My Interests

Straightedge
Hardcore Music/Shows
Working Out
The Beach
Cuddling
Fishing
Holding Hands
Culinary Arts
Firefighting
Naps
European Sports Cars
Working
Music
UFC
Reading
Forensics

I'd like to meet:

Time after time I get screwed over because I actually treat a girl right and with respect and apparently you are supposed to be a jerkoff and and asshole. But that is not who I am, I will never be someone who I am not. I will not rest until I meet a girl who actually wants to get treated well. If it takes me a month, a year, 20 years, or 50 years, I will not settle for someone who doesn't want it.

I want to meet a girl that is her for her, and not trying to be someone shes not. Somebody that actually has goals in life and that wants to become more than a gold digging housewife. Somebody that I can take care of when they are sick and make them soup and tea. I want that girl who isn't afraid to wear sweatpants and a tank top with no makeup in front of me. Someone that I can treat like a princess and not take it for granted. I want that girl that understands that I am more real than any other dude out there and will be honest and loyal 100% of the time. Someone that actually wants more in a relationship then alcohol and sex.I pray all the time that someone like this exists... but my prayers have yet to been answered... maybe one day they will be fullfilled...

Music:

Current Playlist:

Despised Icon
First Blood
Out to Win
Earth Crisis
A Death For Every Sin
Hit the Lights
New Found Glory
No Warning
Saves the Day
Get Up Kids
Too Pure to Die
Jurassic 5
Afroman
The Acacia Strain
Young Jeezy

Movies:

A Walk to Remember
Poltergeist
Mystic River
The Mask
Ace Ventura
Blade Series
Great Expectations(1998)
Grumpy Old Men
Grumpier Old Men
American History X
Evil dead
Grindhouse
The Silence of the Lambs
Hannibal
Shrek
Interview With the Vampire
Hollywood Knights
Sleepless in Seattle
City of Angels
Cruel Intentions
Dawn of the Dead
Godzilla
Evil Dead I and II
The Notebook
Joe Dirt
Godzilla
Them
The Thing From Another World
The Beginning of the End

Television:

C.S.I.
Shark
Married With Children
Law and Order
Forensic Files
Cops
American Justice
UFC
The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air

Heroes:

My father, Brian Mecca, who has been a Lukemia survivor for over 3 years and yet still puts his life on the line everyday as a Captain of the fire department

My mother, Susan Mecca, who has shown me so much of the world from the good to the bad, it all has made me who I am today.

One of my close friends, Ian Schung, who sadly was taken away October 9th, 2005 at the age of 25. A very good friend of over 10 years who always had my back and helped me through thick and thin.

And last, but certainly not least, my dear friend, Kyle Washington, who was sadly taken away April 25th, 2007. Kyle was no doubt one of if not the nicest person I have evermet in my entire life. Even with his mother just passing in January of 07, Kyle still always maintained a positive attitude and pulled through everything, something I don't know if I could ever do.

My Blog

Kyle Washington- 1982- April 25th,2007

Kyle Washington, quite possibly one of is not the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life. I met Kyle about 2 years ago when he got transfered to our store. No matter what was going on, or how...
Posted by Charlie Mecca on Wed, 02 May 2007 10:16:00 PST

The Year 2006

So the year 2006 has finally come to a close. I could actually say that I am truly happy that it is over. There were some good times but there were also a lot of bad times a well. Wether it was relati...
Posted by Charlie Mecca on Tue, 02 Jan 2007 04:10:00 PST

So its offically been a year....

Since my longtime friend of 10+ years Ian Schung passed away... I can't believe its already been that long already... I still rememebr seeing him last summer at shows with a smile across his face enjo...
Posted by Charlie Mecca on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 11:37:00 PST

Aren't There Any Real Girls Out There?

This is my rant about girls and how they can really fuck with your mind and your heart. This is in now way directed towards any one person.This year has been the year that girls offically have screwed...
Posted by Charlie Mecca on Tue, 26 Sep 2006 02:37:00 PST