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Alida

“All of us are watchers--of television, of time clocks, of traffic on the freeway--but few are obs

About Me

~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*PLEASE SUPPORT ONE OR MORE OF THE FOLLOWING CAUSES:http://www.one.org http://www.joinred.com & http://www.worldvision.orgI AM A CHILD SPONSOR! For more info:http://connect.worldvision.org/person/Alida...or check their MySpace pages listed in my Top Friends below!THANK YOU!~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*It's 2007 and I felt my "about me" needed a rewrite.Firstly, I'll mention what hasn't changed. I was born in Santiago, Dominicn Republic but migrated to Brooklyn, New York with my parents when I was eight months old. I have two Brooklyn-born younger sisters, each of us a year AND month apart. They became the first generation Americans in my family. So it hasn't been easy growing up with clashing cultures and viewpoints with my parents as well as sharing one bedroom with my sisters untiI we were approaching our mid 20s. Of course, we all love and appreciate each other even more so now that we are living our own lives lol! Despite of it all, I fight to keep the family ties together and truly, truly appreciate my mother always:-).Speaking of mothers, I am proud of being one to a two year old boy and sharing the joy of raising him with my husband of eight years (this May). To come this far in my life with God leading the way is such an amazingly awesome feeling! It's so easy to take marriage and children for granted. I can understand that some people in this world can have one without the other, prefer one over the other or just don't ever see themselves living this life that I'm living. God has a plan for each of us that is so unique and specific that we are all just great autobiography books that are waiting to be picked out in this massive library we call earth. LOL call me eccentric for my metaphors! It's living out the PLAN that makes us wonder and anxious about what's to come.So that brings me to the "change" that I felt compelled to write about. I picked this background, I posted a great short film based on the belief of what a born-again Christian goes through (as well as every other human being) and also a daily bible verse for a good reason. I am born-again and I'm trying to express myself as that through this page on MySpace. It doesn't make me superhuman or "different" than any of you that are reading this. I didn't quite say so in my first bio so I am now. Simply, this is just an inkling of what it represents in my life. More like WHO represents my life. Jesus Christ is my Savior and rules my life. God sent Him, His Son, to die for our sins so we don't have to. He gave us a free will to be able to pray and repent for our sins. Therefore in Him, it's like having a loving Father who looks after us, protects us and never leaves our side. It's better than that! It's a relationship with God, that's all it is! It's taking in what He says in the Bible, applying it to your life with His help. It's about prayer and fellowship with those that have the same relationship. It's about knowing that no matter what happens, no matter how many times you fail, with faith and trust in Christ in your life, He will be there and know that you will get back up and try again. But truthfully speaking, I haven't been following everything I just wrote here. This is why I'm here and to let you all know that it's okay because He forgiving. I haven't been to church in a long time, my husband too and I haven't been around other born-again Christians. Not even our families agree with this belief if you will.I'm here to admit it and to say also, I am human too! Most of what I watch on TV, in a theater or DVD and have on my iPod may not be approved by God. That goes for practically everything else I enjoy but the thing about is that I don't let it rule me. As long as I'm aware and know what's right in God's eyes, I know that I too will pray to keep my eyes looking skyward. It's an everyday battle but having Christ as the Captain of my ship is a battle I'm willing to fight head on!In conclusion to my soapbox moment here lol, I have great news to start 2007 off with what I can only hope is what God has in store for me. I just signed up to take a 16 week business course starting in February with WIBO (www.wibo.org). I was so blessed with the dramatic "it hit me out of the blue" moment, courtesy of Christ of course, of the exact business idea that I want to see appear before my very eyes by this time next year! It will bring together all of things I feel are such a part of my heart right now. I can only pray and wonder and smile at the fluttering butterflies in me that makes me realize how real this is and that it's a must have for the fullfillment of the long-desired need to establish my own business!Okay! I thank you so much for reading! My days as a wannabe actor and model are still lingering, still playing sweet nothings every now and then but I can say that I know for sure that if God wants it to be, it will be :-)! Amen to that!!"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
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--Info--
Name:: Alida
Nicknames:: "Ali" like Muhammad (sometimes)
Birthplace:: Santiago, Dominican Republic
Current Location:: The BK baby (that's Brooklyn 2 y'all!)
Hair Color:: brown
Eye Color:: brown
Height:: 5'6
Weight:: 113
Tatoos?:: nope...if I did, it would be my son's name "Legend"
Piercings?:: was 4, now 2 (my ears only lol!)
Overused Phrase:: That's fresh!!
--Your--
Bedtime:: too dangin' late-by 2AM
Best Physical Feature:: ahem...waist up? my smile. waist down? exactly!
Most Embarassing Moment:: can't recall
Most Missed Memory:: so many....seeing Legend right after birth
First Thought When You Wake Up:: could use another hour or two!
Weakness:: shopping!
Best Friends:: my husband
Goal For The Year:: 2007- establish my own business
Greatest Fears:: not to realize my full potential
--This Or That--
Pepsi or Coke...: neither...proudly quit soda after I got pregnant
McDonalds or Burger King...: Mickey D's it is (lol it was my 1st job!)
Hot Tea or Ice Tea...: ice tea
Chocolate or Vanilla...: 75%/25%
Water or Milk...: water always
Coffee or Hot Chocolate...: java by day, hot cocoa w/the marsh by night
Hugs or Kisses...: can't have one without the other
Cats or Dogs...: allergic but like the first, love the other
Summer or Winter...: give me summer
Scary Movies or Romantic Comedies...: seen A Good Year? Perfect :-)
Love or Money...: the one that's not made of paper ;-)
Green Grapes or Purple Grapes...: green
--Lover--
Perferred Eye Color:: blue or green (my husband's green)
Perferred Hair Color:: dark...blondes are trouble lol :-D
Short Hair or Long Hair...: yes
Perferred Height:: my hubby's a 6 footer....no less!
Perferred Weight:: don't matter as long as...(see skinny...etc. below)
Looks or Personality...: yes
Hot or Cute...: yes
Skinny...Muscular...or Fat...: you're cut up where ya need 2 be lol!
--Favs--
Number:: 2 and its dividends
Food:: Italian, Dominican, American
Type of Music:: all except opera
Candy:: yes
Color:: blue
Animal:: the ones at the zoo
Drink:: rarely
Body Part on the Opposite Sex:: eyes & hands
Movie:: deep appreciation for it all
Past Time:: was an avid journal keeper
--Have You Ever--
Drank?: regrettably yes
Smoked?: tried the DEATH STICK once just 2 say this: call the suicide hotline!
Been Beaten Up?: yep...emotionally and mentally
Bullied Someone?: when the situation really called for it
Skinny Dipped?: umm no :-)
Played Spin The Bottle or 7 Minutes In Heaven?: yes, no
Toliet Papered Someones House?: c'mon!
Played Poker W/ Money?: don't play
Gone Swimming In A White T-Shirt?: nope
Been Tickled So Bad That You Cried?: no
Been Tickled So Bad That You Couldnt Talk?: n/a
Like Someone And Not Tell Them How You Felt?: ohhh yeeeaaahhh
Went Camping?: does a trailor in the woods count?
Used The Restroom On A Tree?: please!
Had A Crush On Your Brother/Sister's Friend?: yeah
Had A Crush On Your Friend's Brother/Sister?: yeah
Walked In The Rain W/out An Umbrella?: YES
Danced In The Rain?: yep!
Told A Joke And Nobody Thought It was Funny?: I AM MY BEST AUDIENCE!!!
Been On Stage?: (nods)
Worn Clothes Your Mom Didnt Approve Of?: duh!
Been To A Nude Beach?: South Beach in Miami, YEP!
Cursed In Church?: more like outside of it
Been Called A Whore/Slut For Kissing Someone?: yes (rolls eyes)
Burnt Yourself?: yes
Been Dumped?: ONCE!!! (and never again!)
Dumped Someone?: just call me the heartbreaker
Been In Love?: I've racked up FREQUENT FLYER MILES to travel the world!
Been Hit On Someone To Old?: yes
Wanted To Be A Model?: YES
Wanted To Be In The Olmpics?: well? it would cool!
Bought Lottery Tickets?: yes
Made Out In A Car?: yeeessss
Cried During A Movie?: YEEEESSSSSS
Wanted Something You Couldnt Have?: what human being doesn't?
Made Love On The Beach?: it's on my to do list :-)
Shoplifted?: unfortunately
Seen Someone Shoplift?: yeah
Hung Up On Someone?: yep
Yelled At Your Pet?: yep
Gotten Seasick?: UGH yes!
Tried To Strip When Drunk?: never
Bought A Thong Cuz The Casier Was Hot?: yes
Stalked Someone?: sort of...yes
Had A Stalker?: no, THANK GOD
Played A Prank On Someone And Scared Them?: yesiree!
Been Embarrassed By Someone In Your Family?: mmhmm!
Felt Bad About Eating Meat?: if it was raw I would
Protested?: yes
Been To An Island?: yes
Ate Cuz You Had Nothing Better To Do?: yes
Screamed In A Library?: no, that's just not right
Made Out W/ A Stranger?: YES
Made Out W/ Someone Who Wasnt Single?: (nods)
Wished A Part Of You Was Different?: of course
Talked To A Complete Stranger?: yes
Been Sunburned So Bad You Blistered?: never
Kicked A Guy In The Nuts?: I could never get a direct shot!
Threw Up In School?: nope
Recieved A Love Letter That Wasnt Signed?: would've been nice to
Wore Something You Hated?: yes
Wore Something To Match Someone?: heck yeah
Been To A Luau?: on my to do list!
Cursed Infront Of Your Parents?: yep
Been On TV?: YES *wink*
Been Outta The Country?: THANK GOD FOR AIRPLANES
Been Honked At While Walking Down The Sidewalk?: it's just an everyday occurrence for me
Won A Pool Game?: yeah baby
Went To A Party Where You Were The Only Sober One?: well one of a handful is still remarkable
Went To School/ Work Drunk?: does being BUZZED count? (I know, it's lame)
Dieted?: absolutely not
Had An Eating Disorder?: HELL NO
Cheated On Your Other?: nope
Been Cheated On?: I'll never know, will I?
Been Paid To Date Someone?: huh?
Dated Someone That Was Paid or Dared To Date You?: that would be a dangin' shame now, wouldn't it??!
Tanned Topless?: no
Been Strip Searched?: no
Been On A Plane?: wish I owned one!
Been On A Cruise?: unfortunately my first and last (see sea sickness)
Been Pantsed In Public?: nope
Thrown Your Shoe At Someone?: yeah
Broke Someone's Heart?: (nods)
Sung In The Shower?: YES
Bought Something Way To Expensive?: always
Done Something Stupid And Laughed At Yourself?: I AM MY BEST AUDIENCE!!!
Been Walked In On While You Were Dressing?: yes
Been Walked In On While Showering?: nope
Ran Out Of A Movie Theater Cuz You Got Scared?: $10 folks...spend it wisely!
Been Kicked Out Of A Mall/ Store?: nope
Been Kicked Out Of A GoCart Place Cuz You Wrecked The Go Cart?: huh?
Been In Detention?: yep
Feel Off A Roof?: no
Pretended You Were Scared So You Could Cuddle W/ Someone?: uhuh
Been In A Wreck?: unfortunately
Wrecked So You Wouldnt Hit An Animal?: no
Made Yourself Puck So You Wouldnt Have To Go To School?: hmm?
Threatened Someone W/ A Water Gun?: yes
Been Shot?: no
Had A Water Gun War?: YEAH!
Been Arrested?: no
--Randoms--
Regret Something You Did In The Past?: there's always something
Country You Wanna Visit:: done DR, ITALY, FRANCE is 1/07, hopefully BRAZIL will be next
Way You Wanna Die:: in my sleep if possible
Like Thunderstorms?: naaah
Get Along W/ Your Parents?: more with mom than dad
R U A Health Freak?: as much as I could possibly AFFORD to be
U Think Ur Attractive?: (nods and smiles)
Do You Believe In Yourself?: it's a roller coaster ride I'm hoping will stop VERY SOON
Wanna Get Married?: going on 7.5 years...can you say WOW??!!!
Wanna Go To College?: if I had the luxury...I'd like to go back
Shower Daily?: try to lol!
Want Kids?: One down, hopefully one more to go God willing :-)
When Do U Wanna Lose Your Virginity?: reread last question
Do U Hate Anyone?: nope
Can You Unwrap A Starburst W/ Your Tongue?: huh?
Do You Think You Can Sing?: Only if Simon Cowell says so!
Can You Open You Eyes Underwater?: umm sort of
Eat Whatever And Not Worry?: what's a whatever? (sounds worried)
Can You Whistle?: yes
Can You Walk In High Heels?: yes
Do You Sleep W/ The Light On?: by accident sometimes
Do You Like Super Spicy Foods?: NO
Can You Multitask?: YES
Touch Your Nose W/ Your Tongue?: trying it now... wait.....aaauuuhhh.......no
Can You Fit In Your Locker?: Hmm? I'll let you know next time I hit the gym!
Do You Spit?: yes, my gum
Can You Taste The Difference Between Pepsi And Coke?: when I was a soda drinker...yes
If You Could Wish 4 Anything...What Would You Wish?: for everyone to know God's love (yes, really)
What Kind Of Perfume Or Colone Do You Wear?: I like Beautiful by Estee Lauder
What Kind Of Soap Do You Use?: Oil Of Olay
What's Your Favorite Scent?: vanilla
Would You Choose To Live Forever If You Could?: yes, in the afterlife :-) SEE YOU THERE MAXIMUS!
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My Interests

hangin' with my son, bike riding, reading .. (lol), magazines, movies, art, acting, modeling, reality shows (lol), Pilates, travel (w/money lol)

I'd like to meet:

Entrepreneurs, artists, designers, creative peoplel, parents with toddlers, anyone that just wants to talk :-).

Music:

everything except for opera lol! It used to be country music but I do like it now. My favorites of all time: U2, George Michael, Madonna, Michael & Janet Jackson and Mariah Carey. My iPod Nano is so diverse it's not normal lol! I have from John Mayer to Annie Lennox to Body &Soul 1 & 2(house music album) to Sean Paul to Puddle of Mudd to 50 Cent, etc., etc.

Movies:

......all with Julia Roberts and Russell Crowe, action like MI:3, drama like Crash, comedy like 40 yr old Virgin, romantic like Walk The Line. And of course the best spy movie ever: The Good Shepherd! Robert De Niro is THE BEST!Basically, I love every movie that's listed in Netflix's Top 100! LOVE IT ALL!!

Television:

Ally McBeal (just got the DVD collection as a UK import!!), Sex and the City (waiting for the DVD collection price to go down lol)!!! American Idol-4 yrs and counting! Real World and Road Rules used to be my thing until about the 10th season 8-P. America's Next Top Model and Saturday Night Live too! HBO's Entourage-now those are the boys to hang with!!! Yes, I must mention the Noggin Channel for my son...especially Dora The Explorer, Go Diego Go, Lazytown and of course the undeniable The Upside Down Show! I just saw The Umbilical Brothers in their NYC show in Times Square 11/25 called SpeedMouse. Here's a pic below of me and them after the show! Go to http://www.umbilicalbrothers.com for more info. Check them out too on MySpace (see my Top Friends List!) Too many others to list......

Books:

Currently reading: When They Were 22: 100 Famous People at the Turning Point in Their LIves by Brad Dunn (really cool stories and NOOO, you don't have to be 22 to read it lol), If You Don't Have Big Breasts, Put Ribbons on Your Pigtails by Bruce Littlefield/ Barbara Corcoran (inspiring and funny for entrepreneurs), How to Start a Faux Painting or Mural Business: A Guide to Making Money in the Decorative Arts by Rebecca Pittman (getting a refresher with the latest book that's out!)

Heroes:

God ;-D

My Blog

ABOUT ME, revised edition :-)

When I'm up this late, it's gotta be for something that won't let me sleep til I let it it go.ABOUT ME has changed. No sites, no confusion, no beating around the bush, just as straightfoward as I can...
Posted by Alida on Mon, 15 Jan 2007 11:45:00 PST

The Paris Trip That Almost Didn't Happen Story!

You know I haven't written anything with meaning in a while, if at all. The more I think about it, the more it pains me to know that I miss it very much but typing is absolutely not my forte. I am o...
Posted by Alida on Mon, 08 Jan 2007 11:25:00 PST

From Top Friends to Top Favs

I've decided that I need to rearrange my top friends list to show what and who truly represents me...just thought it had to be written into a blog! This includes friends, family, iconic people and pl...
Posted by Alida on Sat, 09 Dec 2006 09:27:00 PST

there's no cure 4 my STARSTRUCKness...

This is a soapbox moment for me. I have my favorite famous peeps as my MySpace friends just because I love them!! Those who are privileged to be my top friends? They're the ones who I was privilege...
Posted by Alida on Sat, 28 Oct 2006 10:19:00 PST

FOR THOSE BORN 1930-1979!!! (well that's everyone!)

This is dedicated tothose Born 1930-1979! TO ALL THE KIDSWHO SURVIVED the 1930's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !! First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they were pregnan...
Posted by Alida on Sat, 28 Oct 2006 09:55:00 PST

My First MySpace Blog Ever

Wassup "myspacers"! What I'm about to write in my first blog will seem crazy to most of you. The reason I got on MySpace.com?? Because I met Constantine Maroulis at my job in Times Square NYC! I h...
Posted by Alida on Fri, 12 May 2006 09:09:00 PST