"In the end it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks about you. People are going to forget you about ten minutes after you die anyway. The point is, you have to be exactly who and what you want to be. Most everybody is coasting along on phony public relations. People who say being beautiful, rich or thin makes them happy. People who are trying to make their marriages or children seem better than they actually are, and for what? Appearances! Appearances don't count for diddley! When it's all said and done, all that counts is what was true and truly felt, and how we treated one another. And that's it."Julia Sugarbaker from Designing Women episode "They Shoot Fat Women, Don't They?"