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Soft and Lovely

Seeking New Knowledge and Enlightenment

About Me

woman, daughter, mother, student, teacher, intellectual, clown, dreamer, writer, talker, listener, thinker, feeler, sexual, sensuous, strange, fun, funny, loving and lovable... and that's just the tip of the iceberg :-)

My Interests

Reading, writing, travel, learning, Tantra, enjoying life, World of Warcraft (absolute beginner)

I'd like to meet:

Friends from all walks of life, single men 35-45 with whom I share common interests.

Television:

Daily Show, Adult Swim, Simpsons, Family Guy, Red Dwarf, Fame, Dark Shadows, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Strangers With Candy, Cosby Show, A Different World

Heroes:

My mother, Sojourner Truth, Zora Neale Hurston, Ida B Wells, Madame CJ Walker, Phillis Wheatley, Hattie McDaniel, Edmonia Lewis, Maya Angelou, Bessie Coleman, Carol Moseley Braun, Marian Anderson, Shirley Chisholm, Barbara Jordan, Toni Morrison, I'll run out of space if I continue

My Blog

Clearly Insane Triathlon Dreams

So now that I'm losing weight and gaining all this extra energy I've been thinking about what I want to do with myself.  I have been reading a message board full of posts from present and past fa...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Sat, 21 Jun 2008 01:39:00 PST

LOL How to tell when it's been a while...

I woke up this morning laughing at myself!  Last night I had this dream that I was driving a sleek gorgeous sports car with a stick shift.  The more I handled the stick the smoother and bett...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Sun, 21 Jan 2007 08:00:00 PST

The Reason For Silence

Well I have several books on Tantra none of which have been touched lately.  I think there are several reasons for this.  The first and most important is lack of time.  I'm enjoying a s...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Sun, 18 Jun 2006 11:17:00 PST

Started Reading

The book I have is mainly for couples.  I knew that when I bought it of course but I knew it would still have very useful information for me.  I was right.  There are wonderful breathin...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Sat, 06 May 2006 04:55:00 PST

Got My First Book

It's the one I was most looking forward to getting too.  I haven't dived into it yet but I have skimmed it.  It looks like a very thorough manual.  I admit some of the exercises in...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Thu, 04 May 2006 07:57:00 PST

What I'm Really After

I read a wonderful article today about traditional Tantrism.  It listed the most widely held tenets of the religion which stem from both Buddist and Hindu traditions.  Reading the article re...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Fri, 28 Apr 2006 08:35:00 PST

My Progress So Far

I ordered a couple of books on Tantra today.  One of them I think will be a completely useless pornographic photo shoot.  The other would probably be characterized as a watered down, new age...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Thu, 27 Apr 2006 05:41:00 PST

Tantra: My Latest Discovery

I was talking to a friend the other day.  He's having relationship issues and he mentioned Yoni (vagina) massage as one of the techniques he and his lady friend were trying.  I'd heard ...
Posted by Soft and Lovely on Wed, 26 Apr 2006 10:10:00 PST