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Arjay

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

The only thing I have in common with most people is that I desire their true happiness as much as they do.
Servus,
The greatest treasure is a good friend, friends treat each other better than lovers.
Yet I seek the company of lovers, those who love themselves and have love to share.
I cherish the company of women with high EQ. I enjoy their emotions and perspective on things.
I invoke art rather than logic, for the beauty of life and each other needs to be created.
I seek a passionate life, one of purpose, curiosity and connection to passionate others.
I seek the power of laughter and spontaneous outburst of life enjoying itself.
I seek women who had a good relationship with their father and can accept a compliment, they have less baggage.
I seek a cuddle buddy, a sensuous embrace, the caress of contemplative union.
I seek the immortals, those to whom age and time are illusions in the grand scheme (And so I place my age at 100;).
I seek the optimist to whom distance would not detour a connection of souls.
I serve and seek a power higher than myself, and by whatever name, you’d understand and not sweat the details.
In the end I seek a mutual commitment, to the couple rather than as person to person. It is in that 3rd, the couple, where love and spirit meet and find transcendence.
AND I am here to make a difference ... in my own unique way.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ***** Test results scored on 8 dimensions of intelligence: spatial, organizational, abstract reasoning, logical, mechanical, verbal, visual and numerical determine that your thinking style is that of a Visual Linguist. The 3 dimensions you scored highest on combine to make you a Visual Linguist. Only 6 out of 1,000 people have this rare combination of abilities.
This means you are highly intelligent and have many diverse talents. You have especially strong linguistic talents and are very good at interpreting visual information. You've got your feet on the ground, but your mind is capable of very complex, abstract thought. Compared to others, you are easily able to see situations from many different angles. You also understand how things work in a very practical way.*****
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View index & all of Arjay's spirituality and philosophy blogs here!
View index & all of Arjay's writing and poetry blogs here!
A note to the readers of my blogs ... When I was a child I was haunted by a recurring dream of my death and then the release from my body. It was quite some time to acknowledge that this was memory of a life past. As I grew more memories surfaced. More of feeling values than detailed events. The first “recollections” were those of martial and then "spirtual" studies; specifically of Zen and the outlawed Tantra of Tachikawa-ryu in recent Japan. Combined with the instruction of my first teacher at age 14, a Western Sadhu of Natha orientation and initiation in India, I began my lifelong Spiritual journey with the Goddess. I took formal initiation from well known gurus of eastern traditions yet soon felt I was avoiding something in this western birth. I began the study of western hermeticism and the religions of Abraham which over time prepared me for the meeting of my Second teacher, A mystic and ordained Catholic Priest of Cistercian heritage and also through his own youthful seeking, of the lineage of Yogananda. His guiding presence was the greatest impact on me in recovering the scattered parts of my soul and meeting the blissful “upaguru” within.
"The Supreme Lady is satisfied through the worship of the taste of bliss"
~Uttarakhanda 58.11
"She is rasa Herself - the source of bliss."
~Taittirya Upanishad 11.7
The prayer of Giordano Bruno:
The divine Sophia have I loved and sought from my youth, I have desired her to be my spouse. Ever have I loved her beauteous and radiant form. Ever have I prayed that she might be sent to abide with me, that she might work with me to the end that I might know what I lacked and what in me God would find acceptable. And since she had ever known and understood, had guided me in all my life's activity, I am persuaded that even after death she will ever keep me safe, wrapped securely in her watchful, constant love.
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Preferably, those who are willing to communicate (do send a note with your "Friends" request or subscribe to my blog - this is not a numbers game for me) ... and :

An intelligent and sensuous woman for good conversation ... or more:)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Chivalry lives in this confident, Irish poet. To feel so free and protected in his arms. He believes in me, teaches me his courtly ways, encouraging my own goals, my own fulfillment. His massaging me, bathing me, becomes almost a second language, a sensual vehicle for feelings to deep to express with words. I’ve never been so pampered. He is a Mystic, a Karezza/Tantra adept, practitioner of Energy Psychology and the martial art of the cane. His mind is philosophical and always active, his viewpoints not always conventional. Creativity and imagination and an open mind are important to him. What he seeks may be off the beaten path, but what he offers has no price. I am woman, his friend and companion. We dance the dance of life in myriad forms, pay homage to ancient ways and open our minds to the new. We watch movies cuddling on the couch, and walk hand in hand under clouds and rain, exploring little shops along the way, taking a picture or two and sharing secrets no other can know. I do know I will never have to compete with Monday night football.
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Finally, A special thank you to my current friends ...
I have a wonderful group of friends.
I have virtual family members here.
I have heartfelt exchanges with some.
I have intellectual banter with others.
I have those of open and curious minds.
I have those of full and giving hearts.
I have artists, writers and poets among them.
I have philosophers and counselors.
I have healers, and initiates of many paths.
I have those who are voracious students.
I have those who are tireless teachers.
I have some who are seeking their way.
I have some who are boldly recreating themselves.
And some who are simply the curious sort.
AND to all of you, my gratitude for being here.

My Blog

New Blog Site

I am nearing the end of this blog I think - at least as a primary avenue of expression. I have just started another blog at this address if you care to take a look.   http://rasacoach.blogspot.co...
Posted by on Mon, 22 Dec 2008 18:40:00 GMT

Epinoia Zoe Ekklesia

[post 177] Christmas Thoughts   One evening my spiritual guide took me to a bar and said in effect; I am not teaching you to be a monk, you were that before you joined the Order. I am not teachin...
Posted by on Tue, 16 Dec 2008 00:05:00 GMT

Heart Space Meditation

This is something I was inspired to write out today for a waitress at my coffee shop. It is a meditation and healing metaphor. I recommended reading this once a day and practice as often as desired.He...
Posted by on Mon, 24 Mar 2008 21:27:00 GMT

True Will

Judging from the decreasing number of comments from my readers, I seem to be walking the fring of acceptability these days. That is OK.NOTE to those long timers that have not yet responded to a call t...
Posted by on Fri, 07 Mar 2008 00:27:00 GMT

Attitude of Gratitude

There are subtle shifts of viewpoint expressed below, from self to Self, be aware.Attitude of GratitudeMy greater intention at all times is simply to open more and more to love and joy - my essential ...
Posted by on Sun, 02 Mar 2008 14:49:00 GMT

The Phoenix

Yet another blog. I seem truly possessed by this Goddess mine. It is an awe-some thing. As Jung suggests, possession by an archetype is a dangerous engagement of the Divine powers directly. There is n...
Posted by on Thu, 28 Feb 2008 00:22:00 GMT

Crossing the Ocean of Tears

There is a lot in the following blog that will not be grasped in a single read and certain terminology connects it to other blogs as well. Newcomers here please pay attention to the difference between...
Posted by on Sat, 23 Feb 2008 01:10:00 GMT

Light Working 101

[Third blog in 3 days]On my home page I have written that the only thing I have in common with most people is that I desire their true happiness as much as they do. It is a burden I carry knowing that...
Posted by on Sat, 16 Feb 2008 15:12:00 GMT

Desire (Quotes)

A student once asked a Zen master what was needed to become enlightened. The master grabbed the students head, submerged it in a nearby pool and forcibly held it there for some time. When the student ...
Posted by on Fri, 08 Feb 2008 18:20:00 GMT

Approaching Nirvikalpa

Article as seen in the  Winter Meta Journalhttp://www.blueskyranch.org/mj.pdfApproaching NirvikalpaI was trained as a healer of souls, a "cure of souls," a designation offered me while in religio...
Posted by on Fri, 01 Feb 2008 12:10:00 GMT