The beginning... I am a single mother of 2 children. I was diagnosed with SLE (Systemic Lupus Erythematosis) in 1994. I was in a long-term relationship off n on 4 9-years and am not lookin' 4 anything like that now... I am searching 4 sumthin' but... no in2 "hook" ups either. I enjoy PB&J still and luv lazagna. I luv hangin' out or in with the family or friends.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends, if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that something that you do in a instant, can give you heartache for life.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.
I've learned that my best friend and I, can do anything or nothing and still have a good time.
I've learned that somtimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.
I've learned that somtimes when I am angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you've lived.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to frogive yourself.
I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doen't mean they do love each other.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret, it may change your life forever.
I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in life, are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.
I've leaned that no matter how much you care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in live, but who you have that counts.
I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.
I've learned that their are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give, a friend cries out and you find the strength to help.
I've learnd that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives, but we are responsible for who we become.
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