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Tavia

ohh...I gotta grow up again????

About Me


Well I live out here in the Pacific Northwest and my entire family (what's left of it) is back in Montana. I refuse to go back to Montana because it is next to impossible to make any money there. The slowdown is nice, but often too slow. I miss and love my sisters something crazy and get to see them...not ENOUGH!! My mother is crazy and that must be why I love her so much. She just isn't ready to grow up. I'm not mad at her. It just forced me to do it for her. My dad, well--he's emotionally retarded so not much to say there. I have a beautiful son that I am so in love with and he is 4 years old. I can't believe where the time has gone. He has gone from baby to Not in the blink of an eye. Makes me sad and full of joy all at once. I work really hard and have decided that it is time to put some of that effort into playin hard. I have recently realized that I was living the life of an old person and decided I was gonna put some spunk back in my life. I am not out there tryin to make friends and please other people, gettin wrapped up in the crap (my own included), cuz I am passed all of that. I am just tryin to add fun to my life which, until this point, has been non-existent in my life. I'm not tryin to cause problems or out to get ya.... So if you see me out and are wonderin what's goin on, I am here to tell ya that I am just having fun. So talk to me if ya want, hang with me (cuz I think I'm okay) or just leave me alone, which is okay too. Cuz it's just me deciding that I'm not ready to lay down and die yet. Not Yet. Not for anyone.....Peace and love to ya....T
Oh, here's a little poem I wrote for whomever thinks I might give a shit what they are thinking.
I can’t Play tha Part
Why don’t you tell me what you thought upon my first approach. I’ll bet you felt threatened that my presence could encroach.
Let me inform you of how wrong first appearances may be. Cuz even though you see me, you may never know the real me.
Maybe I’ve been places your world will never allow you to see. And that’s why you see what you do…that’s why you judge me.
But I have sat in front of the judge, and he’s much scarier than you. You don’t even faze me…Shit, I barely notice you.
Believe me when I tell you that my entire surroundings are seen. To put me in a category is your ignorance, for I’m much too keen.
You don’t warrant my attention...please don’t think I’m concerned. Because to me you mean nothing unless your something is earned.
I see so many people and usually they act one in the same. So feeble the little minds, playing each other’s fucking game.
I’ve learned a long time ago that being myself is all I’ll ever be. Please people, be concerned with yourself…cuz I don’t care what you think of me.
I’m sure you’ve had your life lessons, and I’m not here to figure them out. Because what other people have done, or are doing, I care nothing about.
So remove me from your canvas of drama that you are so comfortable to create. Because I won’t be part of your high school endeavors…even then I wouldn’t partake
~Tavia Blume 12-something-2006

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My Interests


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Linked by TeamPartyDown.comThe White Party at Tabellas w/ TPDCelebrity Nights....I like dancing, camping, walking, working out, being a mother, going to concerts, social activities with friends and family, sitting in the sun, love the water and I love to take road trips.

I'd like to meet:

So...her name is Dion. Funny that's my middle name. We have actually become one another's aquaintance. She is still under my who I'd like to meet again, and I think I will leave her there. Cuz it's always a pleasure to see her again. Who would I like to meet??? Hmmm....my little brother and sister. That would make me very happy. And also, all of our loved ones in Heaven.

Music:

This is me and my DJ friend Risk One..catch the beat---IF U CAN!!!!Well, anything you can get your groove on wit, but I like a wide variety of music. R & B/Hip hop at the top. But I like it all from Rock to Country. Don't really enjoy that death metal, but it is artistry in some form and it can be tolerated if the environment is kickin

Movies:

Hmmmm..... Does anyone have time for movies anymore? If I have any free time, I will spend it at the clubs or outdoors, weather permitting. Movies...Hang over material. Besides, I always pass out during the movies. Sorry, can't help it and it never fails. I'm sure there are some really great movies I love though--Legends of the Fall, Armageddon, Spanglish. Anything with Brad "yummy" Pitt.

Television:

Okay, this sounds really weird, but about the only thing I Tivo is Days of Our Lives. Yes, a soap opera. I have watched it since I was 9 years old. I hate it, but it's like those certain family members, have to keep them around whether you like it or not. I also enjoy watching baseball. GO YANKEES!!!!

Books:

Oh, I had plenty of time to read lots of books in my past. That is a story for another time and only for the close and personal. And if you know that story, well you are already close and personal. I like John Grisham's books, read them all. Iris Johansen, and I loved the DaVinci code. Could go on and on, but I won't bore you.

Heroes:

Well other than my sister, Tessa, I am my own hero. Does that sound lame? Well, there you have it. I am a lame-o. But you can't rely on anyone to do anything for you, so if you are comfortable in your life and you are where you want to be, potentially, shouldn't we all be our own heros?

My Blog

Writing from 1996 about a recurring dream

Dreams Caught in Futures The dreaming&I kept a hold of the dreaming. Constantly in wonder I search for any meaning. The intensity level, no the reality&.at it's best. Only to find answers upon wha...
Posted by Tavia on Sat, 17 Feb 2007 10:48:00 PST

Walk your own Course

Walk Your Own Course So often we find ourselves saying that someone hurt us so much. But really that's a crippling statement lending us a crutch. Because people don't have the power to make you feel...
Posted by Tavia on Thu, 21 Dec 2006 10:44:00 PST

Just some thoughts...thought I'd share.

When I am alone&.I cry. Yeah. I am not as strong as everyone believes, or as much as I demand that they believe. In fact, it is just the way that I operate. I have all my life been alone in my real t...
Posted by Tavia on Wed, 13 Dec 2006 07:24:00 PST

When the one you love beats your ass!!!

So I am going to tell you now about a story that just completely sux!!  I am going to say something now that I haven't previously said before, but that I also am not going to elaborate on just ye...
Posted by Tavia on Wed, 18 Oct 2006 06:58:00 PST

A Tragic Loss (4 of them)

Now I am going to tell you about somethings that happened before my street life.  I guess I am going to start with the loss of a very important family member.  She was my Aunt Sandie and I l...
Posted by Tavia on Sat, 14 Oct 2006 02:35:00 PST

Gettin raided Part II

Usually I never left anything out in the open before I passed out and I had a super special little hiding spot in the wall that I kept all my shit in.  For just in case little mis-haps like this ...
Posted by Tavia on Thu, 12 Oct 2006 07:59:00 PST

Gettin Raided Part I

So I am gonna tell you a story about something that happened to me when I was a senior again, I think.  I lived in a house that was super secure.  Let me tell you how I secured it.  Fir...
Posted by Tavia on Wed, 11 Oct 2006 11:16:00 PST

Ever seen someone Die in front of you???

Let me tell you a story.  My sister Tiffani and I lived in Butte, MT together.  We were both attending High School and my sister Tiffani also worked night shift in the printing part of the l...
Posted by Tavia on Wed, 23 Aug 2006 01:51:00 PST

Street Soldier

I have decided to start sharing a little about my past life.  Well, not all the details, but some of them.  I was 14 years old and just left my moms house after tryin to move back in wi...
Posted by Tavia on Mon, 21 Aug 2006 03:02:00 PST