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Oksana

It could've been worse

About Me

I am thinking of getting a plant or a gold fish to see how long I can keep either one of those alive. I am currently researching a house plant that is resilient to neglect. Suggestions are welcomed. I prefer quality to quantity in many aspects of my life. I am a little dorky, … well, no, a lot, actually- please don’t ask me for directions, I will only get you lost successfully (I have difficulties with right and left, so, when people mention South, North, West and East, I am at a complete loss); spell check is my best friend- as a foreigner, spelling is just one of those mysteries I haven’t cracked… yet; I am incapable of having a relationship with any piece of technology- I don’t get it, it doesn’t get me, and that is how I like to keep it, since I have a brother who’s got all the brains in the family. My brother and I we try not to be seen together in public all that often- people always mistake him for my boyfriend or son. I am trying to figure out which thought is more disturbing. I believe that everything happens for a reason- life is a jigsaw puzzle, its pieces will come together … eventually. I think that everybody is beautiful in their own unique way. And while exterior perfection can be bought, actions, for me, determine true beauty of a human being. Brilliant simplicity amazes me. I am borderline introvert/extravert- I like to believe that I know when to talk and when to shut up. I am not in the habit of volunteering personal information about me, but if you take the time to ask me something about me, I will take the time to answer. I cant skate. I would love to learn how to handle a weapon properly- I have fired a rifle once before, and it was amazing. Remembering people's names takes a huge effort for me since I remember things visually. I never forget a face. I am very clumsy. I don’t like bell peppers [that is the only food that my mother forced me to eat as a kid], but I can marinated and stuff them like nobody’s business. Now, I don’t cook too often, since I would have to clean the kitchen top to bottom and scrub the pots, afterwards ... although, I do like to entertain. Go figure! I am a complicated little thing :o) Well, no, just human.

My Interests

I like going to the movies; I make a very cheap movie date and/or dinner date- I dont eat at the movies (I think of it as mindless eating) nor do I eat after seven pm. I studied graphic design, so, many things, not all of them, but many, that relate to arts, such as theater, art shows, concerts, etc. I do find interesting. Black and white photography is just beautiful. Simplicity is ingenious. Love comedy- there are many comedians I like, Margaret Cho and Kathleen Madigan are my favorite; Carlos Mencia is also on that list. What else? I am sure there are many things that I just cant remember on the spot, but this is a good start.

I'd like to meet:

Kind people, funny people, all sorts of people, really, who respect different points of view. Basically, if you don’t shove your opinion down my throat, we will get along just fine.

Music:

In my humble opinion, Chris Botti is a genius with his instrument (no pun intended); Michael Buble- there are no words, the man is amazing; Ive been listening to Mary J Bliges latest disk Enough Cryin, there are three or four songs I truly enjoy; I have very little appreciation for country music, even though Shanaia Twain has made some major contributions to that style of music. John Legend Rob Thomas Santana a little bit of Draco classical music on my way home from work- it relaxes me.

Movies:

Movies? Love them, especially the independent stuff. Just to name a few of my favorites, to show you a little bit of my twisted mind- But I am a cheerleader, Hitch- great first date movie; Inside Man- I found it to be very smart; Crash- amazing!; Imagine you and me- the last independent movie I saw; its sweet, I saw it twice, understanding the very heavy English accent and jokes much better the second time around. Transamerica, Monster, Passion of the Christ, Closer, Shopgirl, Match Point, both Shrecks, Chicken Little, Stranger than Fiction.

Television:

Dont get to watch too much television lately, maybe its part of growing up, maybe it's lack of cable at the apartment, who knows, but some of my favorites are Roseanne- gotta love her; House- I would allow that genius of a jerk to diagnose me any time, the character is very talented, after reading a couple of interviews with Hugh Laurie, the actor who plays the main character, I have respect for him as a father- I liked what he had to say on upbringing of his daughter, plus, I love his sense of humor, I think the man is funny; L Word- have watched every episode, religiously, not so happy with the last season, have to wait for the next one, but that is so far away; Monk- I am a little Monk-ish, I am obsessive compulsive germaphobe, but not to his extend (thank God!) Law and Order Last Comic Standing

Books:

Until relatively recent, was not a big fan of reading- still do not enjoy reading manuals, but for pleasure I like to read and reread Russian Classics, strictly in Russian- I tried reading Chekhovs Cherry Orchard in English, couldnt get past second page, my friends thought I was a sadist masochist for doing so, some things just get lost in traslation; Oscar Wild has some nice things to say- I like his aphorisms; Erick Maria Remarque is a great writer, I enjoyed reading his Arch of Triumph, and a couple others, names of which I cant seems to translate into English right now. Dale Carnegie has a very good understanding of human psyche. Sidney Sheldon is very captivating, easy to read, too.

Heroes:

Roseanne Conner

My Blog

Hello, civilization!

Moving is a bitch! It's been a month a half now that I have been moving into my new apartment, and I am so glad that it is almost over. I only need two more things- a stove, which is being delivered t...
Posted by Oksana on Fri, 07 Dec 2007 11:53:00 PST

Chritopher Alekseyevich Lanis

*proud daddy, tired mommy and Chris On November 5th at 12:13 in the morning my future sister-in-law gave birth to eight pounds of joy- my nephew, Christopher Alekseyevich Lanis. Stubbornness runs in ...
Posted by Oksana on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 08:48:00 PST

Honesty is the best policy.

As I was listening to an outgoing voice message, I realized that I miss-dialed my client's phone number. What caught my attention was what the voice on the message was saying. What I heard was the fol...
Posted by Oksana on Thu, 23 Aug 2007 06:29:00 PST

White light, black rain

The other night I went to see a documentary titled "White light, black rain", which coveres the aftermath of the two atomic bombs that were droped on Japan back in 1945. "Difficult to watch" doesnt ev...
Posted by Oksana on Mon, 23 Jul 2007 06:54:00 PST

Ratatouille

I love cartoons! They are for the kid in me. The old "Tom and Jerry" is my favorite- without saying a single word they have me laughing my head off, just like Charlie Chaplin. That is a talent. Ratato...
Posted by Oksana on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 09:32:00 PST

Evening

I expected more out of this movie, mind you this statement is coming from a person who had fallen asleep during "The Notebook", or maybe I had too high of expectations- whoever put together the t...
Posted by Oksana on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 09:22:00 PST

Starter wife

I am in love with that show! Yes, it is white people with their Hollywood problems, but wouldnt you want to meet the writer for the show who came up with "Australia" as a reference to vagina vs. calli...
Posted by Oksana on Sat, 02 Jun 2007 02:30:00 PST

5 years

Today is five years since my father passed away. I miss him.I wrote this a little while back, and I found it recently. Here are my thoughts on things."My father's death sneaked up on me very abruptly-...
Posted by Oksana on Thu, 15 Mar 2007 07:53:00 PST

just a thought

The other night as my brother was doing some work on the computer and I was reading one of my books, he suddenly proclaimed: "Piggy, this is a year of you!" My brother and I have nickna...
Posted by Oksana on Mon, 19 Feb 2007 08:23:00 PST

Y, E, A, S, T, Y

As a foreigner, I visit the dictionary.com site from time to time, as I come across a word that I can not figure out the meaning of. On Friday, as I was browsing through the site checking out&nbs...
Posted by Oksana on Sun, 21 Jan 2007 10:16:00 PST