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Mary

Fortitudine Vincimus (By Endurance We Conquer)

About Me

47 yr old female. Looking for friends. I realize that I am as likely to form new friendships as I am to be abducted by terrorists... But, Hey! It could happen... I love, in order of importance, (watch close!); My two beautiful daughters, I have not posted their current pics as they are precious to me and the internet is a dangerous place. My dad, my husband, my friends (those who have survived and those who have passed away), My cats, My beads, My guitars. I make jewelry, paint and draw, play guitar badly, sing better. I started running in February and, while I won't swear that I love it, I do love what it is doing for me. (and it feels so good when it stops!)There WILL Be a BLOG. I love silliness like playing charades, trivial pursuit, with or without the kids. I like to laugh. I love music, have to have it in my life. I have recently been introduced to Japanese rock or J-rock by my daughter... Pretty cool stuff. I am already a fan. (Is this a midlife crisis?) I live in fear of becoming one of those pathetic people who try too hard to appear young. But I want to have fun before I need a walker and a guide dog. So I am not going to overanalyze myself. Life is too short! You should create your own MySpace Layouts like me by using nUCLEArcENTURy .COM's MySpace Profile Editor !Create your own video at One True Media..

My Interests

I am interested in everything. I love to attend bead shows, ball games, concerts, plays. Music, canoeing, camping, running...drawing, painting... watch me at http://raven34994.deviantart.com/gallery/Mary’s Deviant Art Link

I'd like to meet:

Are we speaking in the realm of the possible or just a general WISH scenario? I would like to meet Ellen DeGeneres. Yeah, I know, how wierd is that? But I think she is a very cool person. Would like to add her to the list of people I call friends. Also on the wish list of folks I'd like to meet? Brett Butler. Have a feeling we have a lot in common... My Sister used to say that Brett Butler's character on Grace Under Fire reminded her of me... But seriously: I am looking for friends... my husband would like them all to be women... LOL I want to meet people with similar interests. for, chat, outings, friendship.... And I would really like to meet this guy... How can you not love such a sweetheart?Green Day + NRDC: Moving America Beyond Oil
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Music:

Ok maybe just a few... 3 doors down, Aretha Franklin, Indigo Girls, Melissa Etheridge, Smash Mouth, The Black Crowes, Train, Blues Traveler, Barenaked Ladies, Five For Fighting, James Taylor, Matchbox Twenty, Paula Cole, Sarah McLachlan, Jewel, Billy Idol, Sting, ... Dixie Chicks are the only country artists that made the cut But I do love them... And recently added to the list Miyavi, Yoshiki, Sugizo, Gackt, and although they seem to fly under the radar of most j-rock fans I really like Buck-Tick (must be the David Bowie influence) If you have not seen and heard Miyavi, it is an experience not to be missed. He is amazing. But still More amazing is X Japan... The more I hear of them the more I think they may be the best band I have ever heard. I was very sad to learn that the guitarist hide had died reportedly from suicide. This is old news to many But it still made me cry to think that one so young and talented could be so without hope.I was somehow relieved to learn later that his close friends believed his death to be an accident and not suicide. He seemed like such a happy soul that I am inclined to believe that. X Japan broke up about 10 years ago,a year or so before hide's death. According to Toshi the lead singer, there were issues that he needed to deal with and irreconcilable differences. Apparently Yoshiki and hide had been discussing reviving the band just days before hide was found dead.Well... they have finally done it! First the remaining band members including Toshi who seems to have exorcised his demons collaborated in recording the Song I.V. which was featured in the end credits of the movie Saw IV. Next they did a three day sold out concert at Tokyo Dome March 28th, 29th, and 30th...and now they have announced that they are going to be doing a tour which will include Madison Square Gardens on Sept 13th!!!! This is so cool... I have never wanted to see a Band perform live as much as I want to see this band. I really hope it works out that I can go. Alas... The concert did not happen. Apparently Yoshiki had a flare up of an old injury which caused the band to cancel plans for concerts for a while. *sobs quietly in corner* ... Well... where there is life there is hope, so I will continue to pray for Yoshiki's recovery and a Concert on the east coast of the US.

Movies:

Ok I will admit that I am a lightweight when it comes to movies. I cannot watch a horror movie. There has been enough REAL horror in my life. When I watch a movie I want to be entertained, perhaps swept away, you can even make me cry. Just leave out the psycho killer/boogie man.

Television:

Not much of a TV watcher... It is a brain sucking, time sucking device. I don't have enough time to waste on regular program viewing. I will watch once in a while or if something catches my eye as I walk through the room, but seldom will I sit and watch a whole show from start to finish.

Books:

All the Harry Potter Books, The Hobbitt, Lord of the Rings, When God Was a Woman, Outrageous Acts and Everyday Rebellions, Holy Blood, Holy Grail. Hot Zone, And, lately, Freakonomics.... many more...

Heroes:

My Grandmother Ezelle . My Aunt Mary. Both strong female role models for which I am eternally grateful. Barbara, my best friend. Carolyn, also a BEST. Both of whom know where the bodies are buried. They have been through more than their share of hell here on earth. I admire your strength and courage. (they will hate that I said that). Jane Goodall, Dr. Rachel Carson, Albert Einstein, Marie Curie, Gloria Steinem, Mother Teresa, Princess Di, Winston Churchill, Jewel. My Dad for being better than any man I know, and much better than he had to be. My Sister Debbie for nothing more than sheer tenacity and guts.

My Blog

Personal Responsibility

My dear friend just posted a blog about a man who, after nealy 2 decades of struggling with the disease of addiction, died in a ventilation shaft while trying to break into a restaurant.&nbs...
Posted by Mary on Tue, 07 Oct 2008 10:36:00 PST

Small talk not her strong suit...

Does she think at all before she speaks?I was just in the line to check out at Walgreens. The woman in front of me had a large box of Tampons an economy sized pack of sanitary napkins and a giant bag ...
Posted by Mary on Sat, 14 Jun 2008 07:32:00 PST

Happier

Well I am a little happier today. I went to the dentist and She was able to repair the damage the anesthesiologist did to my teeth...You can't even tell they were broken.  Physical therapy starte...
Posted by Mary on Thu, 12 Jun 2008 07:41:00 PST

Not over it... but healing

Hi... I'm not over my anger yet, but my wounds are healing pretty well. Physical therapy starts this week. I spent the weekend cataloging and arranging all my books alphabetically...
Posted by Mary on Mon, 09 Jun 2008 05:01:00 PST

More Venting (you should excuse the expression)

I am feeling kind of sorry for myself today. My husband assures me that this is completely normal for someone who has been living on painkillers and ensure for the past 5 days. I had a drug induced e...
Posted by Mary on Sun, 01 Jun 2008 03:13:00 PST

Medical Malpractice..

Did you know that when you go for surgery you sign a piece of paper that states that you have been informed of all the risks involved in the procedure... and that that includes the risk that the guy w...
Posted by Mary on Fri, 30 May 2008 09:17:00 PST

Surgery

I am going for surgery to repair last summer's canoeing injury. I have been trying to  talk myself out of it, but just about the time I have myself convinced that I can start running again withou...
Posted by Mary on Sun, 25 May 2008 09:03:00 PST

Sometimes Discretion is the better part of ... conversation.

 I just got home from work... and the fire alarms were all going off... so I'm like " what's burning?" and Savannah says "nothing... They've been doing this for a while now" Finally they stopped ...
Posted by Mary on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 08:34:00 PST

Gas Protest

Apparently there will be a "Gas Protest" on Friday May 2nd.... The people Staging the event are asking us not to buy gas this day... Well, No sweat...I hardly ever buy gas on Friday anyway...To all of...
Posted by Mary on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 09:42:00 PST

Debbie

Well, it's exactly 9 years 15 days and 22.5 hrs since my sister passed away. I only thought of calling her once this month. I only cried from missing her twice. Well.. now 3 times (damn it) ...
Posted by Mary on Thu, 17 Apr 2008 07:03:00 PST