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Ingrid McConnell.

The first key to greatness is to be in reality what we appear to be - Socrates

About Me


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Myspace Comments | Myspace Graphics | Myspace SurveysWell I was born and raised in N.Ireland, and lived there until I was just two months shy of my nineteenth birthday. I came to America on a one year work visa through a program called 'Au Pair In America', and was a nanny to two wee boys aged five and two, in Manassas VA. It was the first time I had ever been away for any length of time from my twin sister Tracey, and it was like a part of me had been taken away, to the point that some days it was just difficult to breath. That may sound like an exaggeration, but its the Gods honest truth, and best way I know how to even explain it. It was brutal! I still miss her terribly, as I do also my big sister Diane. But you gotta do what you gotta do to get by in this life, and unfortunately and sadly, it means leaving behind loved ones that we wish could be with us. We all have to make sacrifices in life to get to where we want to be, and where we are 'supposed' to be. (If you believe in all that stuff and what not?!) I'm not so sure sometimes what to believe anymore? There are no clear answers to so many things, which leaves me rather confused, and fumbling in the dark on many an occasion? But I still am compelled to keep on seeking, that which will one day hopefully bring some peace to our weary spirits, hearts and minds.I returned home to Ireland after that year and married an American fella I had met and dated during my time as a nanny. We were going to go to Bible Collage once we returned to the States, but I fell very ill after our wedding, and all plans went thfjshguwy6tbbfjg!!!!!!!! We did however return to America. To Greensboro NC, where I still reside. Our marriage however did not last but maybe three or four years. By that time I had made a wee life and home here for myself, and was not prepared to give it up after fighting so hard for it. So here I still be, having gone through many more ups and downs since then. Such is the way of life it seems. But its not over yet!

My Interests

Music. Metal shows. Reading. Writing. Animals. (Especially me two wee mini Dachshunds Tiny and Teeny, and my cat Tigger.) Friends. Family. Nature. Coffee. Movies. Making cards for people.

I'd like to meet:


<People who are open minded and real.

Music:

I love all different styles of music. My favorites used to be easy listening music. More laid back stuff, with some rock mixed in there. Bruce Springsteen was an obsession for a while in my late teens, before I moved to the States. Now I would have to consider myself a true Metal Head! After going through some major heartbreak and ache, I had to put that other soppy music away. It made me feel sadder and I could barely function. Metal made me want to get up and do something about it. This was about ten years ago, so Metal has been my savior since then. Heavy Metal. Death Metal. Thrash Metal. All things Metal! SHADOWS FALL. CHIMAIRA. ARCH ENEMY. CRADLE OF FILTH. THE HAUNTED. LAMB OF GOD. GOATWHORE. JOB FOR A COWBOY. OPETH. DEVIL DRIVER. MASTODON. DIMMU BORGIR. AMON AMARTH. KATAKLYSM. CANNIBAL CORPSE. THE BLACK DAHLIA MURDER. DISTURBED. To name but a few.I also like Hardcore bands. HATEBREED. WALLS OF JERICO. BLOODLINED CALLIGRAPHY. ALL THAT REMAINS. FULL BLOWN CHAOS. BURY YOUR DEAD. CONVERGE. To name but a few.

Movies:

Snatch. Braveheart. Seven. Silence of the lambs. Hannibal. Fargo. High Crimes. Murder By Numbers. Harry Potter. Lord Of The Rings. The Brave One.The ones I hate to admit are: Top Gun. Titanic. Sleeping Magnolia's. Fried Green Tomatoes. I call them my 'boo hoo' movies, because that what they typically make me do!

Television:

The Closer. UFC Unleashed. House. The Dog Whisperer. (Which I never get to see anymore, now that I've moved and don't have extended cable. Damn it!) Law and Order: Special Victims Unit. Grey's Anatomy. Hell's Kitchen. American Idol. (I know! You say," How can you listen to Metal music, and then watch American Idol"?! Well, the answer would have to be??? I have no earthly, or any other planet of a clue??!!) Medium. Lost. The Office. ER.

Books:

All books by Mauve Binchy, Val Mcdermid, J.K.Rowling, Patricia Cornwall. The Alienist, by Caleb Carr. A really good, interesting read. At least it was for me. Any good crime thriller really.

Heroes:

My Dad, wee Billy McConnell, who died whenever I was twelve years old, due to a massive heart attack at only forty-five years of age. But he was, is and always will be with me in my heart and in my soul. May he forever rest in peace.My Sisters, Diane and Tracey, who inspire me to keep on going, and who I know will always be there for me whenever I need them. Even though they are thousands of miles away in Ireland, they are still as close to me as the wind on my face, and the air that I breath. They have been my rock all throughout my life, regardless of where, or what we were doing at the time. They have come through, and continue to walk through such adversity in their lives, that would put a strong person to shame, should they have to do the same. And they have done it with true grace and style, which I find amazing! They are truly my heroes in life for a reason!Resa and Julie, my tag team of helpers, who love me unconditionally in spite of my more than silly self! I look up to these two wonderful inspirational woman on a daily basis, and am so very grateful and blessed to have them in my life.Todd, my com padre now, going on six or seven years. A faithful friend to the end is what he is, besides so many other wonderful endearing traits that make him one of my heroes! Notwithstanding the fact that he is taking a very strong Bull by the horns, and not letting go for nothing! No pun intended, but that really takes some balls!Molly, for getting out there week after week and doing her thing so very well. And for inspiring other struggling artists to get back up on the stage where they really belong, and do their thing, and feel good about it!Jeri, for hanging in there all these years no-matter how tough things got. And for being my friend in all types of weather.Mother Teresa.Jesus.All the Survivors out there. (You know who you are. If you don't, then you obviously didn't make it? Sorry dude!)

My Blog

Escape via chocolate!

Chocolate is so appealing when your hormones hit the ceiling! And there's nothing you can do; everyone is taken too? And what I have come to find; is that no good ones got left behind? It seems th...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Sun, 05 Oct 2008 03:28:00 PST

The healing power of a flower.

It's amazing and it's beautiful the essence of a flower! I'm grateful Dr. Edward Bach tapped into that healing power! I find it quite ironic though that what he came to find. Was 'Impatiens' help...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Thu, 02 Oct 2008 01:40:00 PST

Sick Days.

On days like this when I feel sick, I feel like giving in. But then I sit and think a while of what a horrid sin. To give up now at this point, I bear to even think?! It wouldn't be so pretty, I t...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Fri, 26 Sep 2008 08:56:00 PST

The big question? (After all the others!)

Why it is some cannot understand the weight of their demands? That they selfishly throw at others, and then wipe off their hands? They just don't seem to get it, no-matter how you lay it out? I s...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:03:00 PST

The thought of not having children.

The thought of not having children, rarely entered my mind at all? Growing up we just always knew it to be the role into which we would fall. I just figured at some point it'd happen; how exactly I...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Mon, 22 Sep 2008 03:58:00 PST

Waves of sadness, loss and pain.

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Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Fri, 12 Sep 2008 04:32:00 PST

Relating to anothers loss and pain.

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Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Wed, 10 Sep 2008 01:44:00 PST

When fear and faith collide together.

Who knew that fear and faith together. Would pull me through such stormy weather? I knew I needed faith to get through. So often I don't know what to do? I caught it happening the other day. When I ...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Sat, 23 Aug 2008 04:53:00 PST

A few wee things that would do us good to think on more often!

I find it always quite amazing, just how wrong that I can be? When I judge another's outside; forgetting the inside I can't see. I get mad when others do it; I see it happening all the time. But t...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Thu, 14 Aug 2008 11:13:00 PST

The light inside.

The light that is inside of me, It cannot be done away. By all the darkness that I see, Nor the things that people say.   It is something that surprises me. After all the things I've seen. ...
Posted by Ingrid McConnell. on Fri, 08 Aug 2008 11:55:00 PST