My interests include, among other things: guys (but not boys); teaching and learning; working out; guys; yoga; reading; my students; movies (documentaries, "foreign", "cult", classics); guys; music: trance, dance, 80s, punk; guys; books: fiction, (auto)biography, memoirs, French lit.; guys; the Pacific Northwest: Seattle, Vancouver, the San Juan and Gulf Islands; guys; airplanes, aviation and travel; French and francophone places; did I mention guys? bears and ravers; raver bears; bear/bare ravers...
...these two dudes to start with.... and then, all the folks in my Friends space here, especially you-all in the Pittsburgh posse! otherwise: I want to meet people with an open mind and a great sense of humor, folks who have a good sense of who they are, who have the courage to change themselves when they need to, guys with a fully functioning heart, soul and brain (in that order). I value kindness, "honesty, open-mindedness and willingness", generosity, understanding, compassion, fairness, attention to detail, curiosity, inspiration and courage. Aw, shucks, I wanna have a good time, too. I like bears and ravers. Go figure.
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And before you go, stop and meet my League of Lovelies (below). Each one of my friends is yummy, fruit-filled, all-beef, Grade A, non-fat, non-stick, stimulating, fabulous, oh-so-good for you, and hand-picked expressly for your own delectation. And miraculously, each one is lovelier than the other..... Don't just stop at one, try them all....
Viva Roxy Music!
This is an awesome album: Röyksopp's "The Understanding". Norwegian synth-pop! -- who knew? (Thanks, Tom!)
As far as my own musical "talents" go, I can't sing for shit, I play no instruments (ah-ah-ah! -- don't go there...), and I can't even read music, but I know what I like! I like trance / dance music, especially: Dave Seaman -- Renaissance Masters 7 & Audio Therapy -- Judge Jules, Sasha and Digweed, Oakenfold, Paul Van Dyk, Deep Dish, Phil B -- "Music for the Clubs" is a classic; buy it. Ministry of Sound, Gatecrasher, Renaissance, and Global Underground are some of my favorite labels. Underworld rocks: buy the DVD "Everything, Everything". Check out DJ Addison at www.djaddison.com and tranceportal.org. Generally I prefer positivity, more music and fewer words in dance/trance. During a rather colorful period of my life I went to a lot of clubs. The experiences left me with a lot of memories which will probably make it into a novel one day, but now I take better care of myself. Fun while it lasted; now I'm trying to age gracefully.... Meanwhile, I like "old school disco" (ABBA, Sylvester, Bronski Beat/Communards, yes, even Donna Summer), punk (Ramones, X, Sex Pistols, Iggy & the Stooges), 80s (Talking Heads, Psychedelic Furs, Bowie, Brian Eno, Roxy Music & Bryan Ferry, Siouxsie, Prince (esp. Black Album)), Fleetwood Mac, Everything But The Girl, Todd Rundgren, New Order, Pet Shop Boys, the Smiths... you know the drill. Oh, and the Fauré Requiem, of course. I have a weakness for French lounge music (Dimitri from Paris and the Hôtel Costes series), along with samba and especially bossa nova. Eclectic enough for ya? How about Patsy Cline with The Who and The Dandy Warhols with some Rossini?
too many to name, but....Brazil, Blood Simple, Miller's Crossing, Stop Making Sense, Adaptation, Wigstock, Priscilla, Spellbound (the documentary and the Hitchcock film), Jarhead (read the book too, it's excellent), Les Enfants du Paradis, La Belle et la Bête, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, All About My Mother, All About Eve, Mame (with Rosalind Russell), Bad Eduation, Eat Drink Man Woman, Brokeback Mountain, Friends with Money, Transamerica, Capote, Little Miss Sunshine, Decline of Western Civilization, Paris is Burning, The Filth and the Fury, Sid and Nancy, End of the Century, The Nomi Song, Eraserhead, Mulholland Drive, Last Exit to Brooklyn, Straitjacket, The Women, The Philadelphia Story, Mildred Pierce, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?, Valley of the Dolls, Female Trouble, Desperate Living, Pecker, 24 Hour Party People, Party Monster, Psycho Beach Party, Die Mommie Die!
Television makes you stoopid!! But sometimes, after a long hard day as a dangerous intellectual, you just have to be stooooopid for a while. That said ..... Pants-Off / Dance-Off is IT! Also: Sundance Channel, IFC, Sopranos, Six Feet Under, Deadwood, Rome, The Military Channel, Baghdad E.R. ... Guilty pleasures include: South Park, Drawn Together, Chapelle's Show, VH-1 Behind the Music, Weeds ... and of course Pants-Off/Dance-Off. Yes, I watch entirely too much TV.
Most of my reading is professional at the moment. My students this semester are reading Hugo's "Les Misérables", Zola's "Nana" and Foucault's "Surveiller et Punir" (Discipline and Punish) for a class I'm teaching called Crime and Punishment (Crime et Châtiment). I'm a fairly omnivorous reader generally. History, biography, religion/philosophy, Rumi's poetry (check it out), some humor (Sedaris, Wodehouse). The New Yorker's gotten quite good lately. "One of these days" I'm going to get around to reading Thomas Musil's "A Man Without Qualities". My favorite authors are Marcel Proust and Honoré Balzac, which may seem like a perverse choice, even to someone who knows French literature. But I'm just weird that way...
Be your own damn hero. But don't start selling action figures made in your own likeness. The people who inspire me whom I've never met include: the Dalai Lama, Martin Luther King, Jr., Harvey Milk, Gandhi, most of the folks in the military (although a pacifist, I still admire courage), artists & musicians like David Byrne, Brian Eno, David Bowie, Bryan Ferry, David Lynch, Tony Kushner, Julian Barnes.... People I know who inspire me include my brothers and my mom and dad, my students, my department chair Dick Tucker who walks on water, my friend and colleague Susan Polansky, all of my friends who slog through recovery with me, and my friend Craig Bernier, who will laugh very very hard if he ever sees this.