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Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin

5 days until I am a wife!!!

About Me


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So you wanna know about me? Well it's obvious that you do or you would wouldn't be reading this! I am a hard-working, God-fearing, 27 year old, born and bred in Alabama woman. Yeah, I guess the "w" word fits now, as much as I detest its use in my direction.
Like I was saying before I hopped off on that tangent (I have a habit of tangent hopping btw), I'm a hard-worker. I pull some major hours at work every week, which really helps with the cash flow. Even at home I find it hard to be still. I'm never "just" doing anything. While watching a movie or TV, I'll have laundry going, washing dishes, or blogging, or any combination of several things. I recently learned that the most things I can do successfully at one time is 4. LOL
To the God-fearing part, I am a Christian, but not a perfect one (who is?). I've not been as close to God in the last few years as I was in the past and mainly it's because I don't understand why He lets a lot of things happen. Maybe I'll get to ask Him someday. I'm thinking of getting back to church one of these days, but as of right now, I don't really know what denomination to go to.
I used to consider myself pretty normal, though most folks would say I'm inexperienced in life. I've never tried drugs and don't want to be anywhere near them ever, I don't smoke (tried it a couple of times and never understood the appeal), and I didn't drink alcohol until I was old enough to buy it for myself. As for the normal part, I think that's a term that has been long outdated. No one is "normal" and if you think you are, you for sure as hell aren't!!
I'm a clean freak, but I don't have OCD. OCD interferes with your normal life... cleaning IS my normal life. LOL Not really, but I do love to clean and organize things. I count things like stairs and gunshots off TV in my head all the time and I spell words out in my head sometimes before I say them. I've even been known to alphabetize my money! :-)
I like to listen to music, shop for shoes, write poems, make fractals, and spend time with good friends and my honey. I have a warped sense of humor, but I know when to control it... sometimes.
I have a website for my fractal art and poetry.
Learning Myself Again .
THIS WAS LAST UPDATED IN JANUARY 2007. CHECK IT OUT!!!!
Name: Melissa
Birthdate: 10/26/79
Current Location: Vernon, AL
Eye Color: Green
Hair Color: Brown-Red
Height: 5'4"
Weight: I'm a girl, so I won't answer this!
Piercings: Ears (had my navel done, but it's grown up for now.)
Tatoos: One; a kanji meaning wisdom
Boyfriend/Girlfriend: Have a man!!
FAVORITES
Food: Chicken Fingers
Candy: Reese's Peanut Butter Cups
Number: 43
Color: Green
Animal: Tigers and Dogs
Drink: Water
Alcohol Drink: Shots of Cabo Wabo Tequila
Bagel: Toasted with Cream Cheese
Letter: M
Body Part on Opposite sex: Back
This or That
Pepsi or Coke: Neither
McDonalds or BurgerKing: Neither
Strawberry or Watermelon: Watermelon
Hot tea or Ice tea: Iced with sugar please
Chocolate or Vanilla Vanilla
Hot Chocolate or Coffee: Hot Chocolate
Kiss or Hug: Both! :-)
Dog or Cat: Dog
Rap or Punk: Rap
Summer or Winter: Summer, I hate the cold!
Scary Movies or Funny Movies: Funny Movies
Love or Money: Love
YOUR...
Bedtime: Usually 11 or 12
Most Missed Memory: How can you know that you miss a memory?
Best phyiscal feature: Eyes
First Thought Waking Up: It CAN'T be 6 already!
Goal for this year: Pay off all my bills
Best Friends: Shelby
Weakness: Corvettes
Fears: Being alone
Heritage: Irish, Scot, and a whole lotta other stuff
Longest relationship: Just under 8 years
HAVE YOU...
Ever Smoked: Tried it once, burnt my tongue. Yuck!
Ever been Drunk: Oh yes
Ever been beaten up: No comment
Ever beaten someone up: Nope
Ever Shoplifted: When I was very young
Ever Skinny Dipped: HA! No. I don't know how to swim.
Ever Kissed Opposite sex: Yeah
Been Dumped Lately: Nope
IN A GUY/GIRL
Favorite Eye Color: Any
Favorite Hair Color: Dark
Short or Long: Short
Height: Taller than me
Style: Any as long as they look nice in them.
Looks or Personality: Personality
Hot or Cute Cute
Drugs and Alcohol: Alcohol is ok, no drugs though.
Muscular or Really Skinny: Not too skinny or too muscular.
RANDOMS
Number of Regrets in the Past: Quite a few
What country do you want to Visit: Ireland
How do you want to Die: Quickly and painlessly
Been to the Mall Lately: Nope
Do you like Thunderstorms: From a distance, yes
Get along with your Parents: No
Health Freak: Freak is such an ugly word. I'm more health conscious lately.
Do you think your Attractive: Yes
Believe in Yourself: Very much so
Want to go to College: I have my Associates, but would love to go back for my Bachelor's in Business one day.
Do you Smoke: No
Do you Drink: Yes
Shower Daily: Uh, yes
Been in Love: Yup
Do you Sing: Yes, in the car. LOL
Want to get Married: One day, yes.
Do you want Children: Yes
Have your future kids names planned out: Nope
Age you wanna lose your Virginity: LMAO, that's been gone for a while!
Hate anyone: No comment

My Interests

Art - I would love to go to a real art museum someday; you know, the kind in big cities where everyone walks around looking like they have corncobs stuck up their asses. I'd be the "weirdo" in the middle of the room staring at the art and making less pretentious conversation that the rest of the folks.
Music - It has always been a huge part of my life. I love hearing a song and being taken back to a part of my past. I used to sing too (Key phrase - "used to") and I would love to learn how to play the piano. It's one of the most beautiful sounding instruments. My favorite one though is the bagpipes. OMG. I get chills hearing them being played. Or maybe it's seeing a man in a kilt that does it for me. LOL Nah, not really.
I work at least 45+ hours a week at work, I clean my apartment every day, I go to the tanning bed a good bit, and I do an hour of yoga almost every night. I like hanging out with my girl & next door neighbor, Michele. And I love spending as much time as I can with my beau, Joel.
I am a total car chick! I absolutely love them. The lines, the engines, the feeling of your head being thrown back when you stomp on the gas... WOW! I especially like Corvettes! The C6 would have to be my favorite, but the C3 is a close second.
I also like logic problems, crossword puzzles, and figuring out how things work. I like educating people on women's health issues as well (for obvious reasons). There is so much that is not understood or even known by the general population about endometriosis and other women's issues. Just ask me for info if you're interested in learning. I swear, as much research as I do on the topic and as much as I know, I shoulda been a doctor! LOL
Gerber Daisies are so beautiful! They're my favorite flowers!

I'd like to meet:

First let me tell you who I am not looking for... I'm not looking for a romantic interest. I already have a wonderful man in my life who puts up with more than he should. We've been together a little over 9 months and are very happy with each other. So if you're just looking for someone to practice your bad pickup lines on or to get a little something-something, move it along! :-) Also, if you're always thinking of what you could get out of a friendship and not what you could give to the friendship, please keep on looking cause I'm not your type of friend.
Now, what I am looking for... local friends to hang out with; people I have things in common with that I can go out with alone and that Joel and I can go out with together. Artsy-fartsy type folks: bloggers, poets, painters, musicians, novelists, fractalists (I don't think that's really a word), and anyone creative. I love to network and talk to other artists!
Anyone that has ever been happy, been hurt, loved someone, lost someone, made a complete ass of themselves, or saved the day. Basically, YOU!
I'm a very friendly person and will talk with most anyone on most any subject, so add me or send me a freaking e-mail already! LOL :-)

I'm a Mandarin!



You're an intellectual, and you've worked hard to get where you are now. You're a strong believer in education, and you think many of the world's problems could be solved if people were more informed and more rational. You have no tolerance for sloppy or lazy thinking. It frustrates you when people who are ignorant or dishonest rise to positions of power. You believe that people can make a difference in the world, and you're determined to try.

Talent: 44%
Lifer: 41%
Mandarin: 62%

Take the Talent, Lifer, or Mandarin quiz.

Music:

I like all kinds of music. And I'm not the kind of person who says all kinds and means one kind. I like everything from Eminem to Sarah McLachlan to Mozart.
Who's in my CD case? 3 Doors Down, 30 Seconds to Mars, 50 Cent, Aerosmith, AFI, All American Rejects, Fiona Apple, Baha Men, Barenaked Ladies, Natasha Bedingfield, Between the Buried & Me, Clint Black, Blue October, James Blunt, Bush, Chris Cagle, Kenny Chesney, Citizen King, Coldplay, Counting Crows, Creed, Sheryl Crow, Dave Matthews Band, Deftones, Dixie Chicks, Eagles, Eminem, Evanescence, Ever Clear, Fall Out Boy, Fat Boy Slim, Finger Eleven, Five for Fighting, Fort Minor, The Fray, Nelly Furtado, Good Charlotte, Goo Goo Dolls, Gorillaz, Green Day, Andy Griggs, Hellogoodbye!, Faith Hill, Hinder, Hoobastank, Incubus, Alan Jackson, Jewel, Jack Johnson, Norah Jones, Mat Kearney, Toby Keith, The Killers, Tracy Lawrence, Lifehouse, Lil Jon & the Eastside Boyz, Linkin Park, Live, Ludacris, Madonna, Maroon 5, Matchbox 20, John Mayer, Edwin McCain, Tim McGraw, Mark McGuinn, Sarah McLachlan, Jo Dee Messina, Moby, Mozart, Jason Mraz, Muse, My Chemical Romance, Anna Nalick, Joe Nichols, Nickelback, No Doubt, The Normals, Oasis, Jamie O'Neal, Panic! At the Disco, Pink, Daniel Powter, Puddle of Mudd, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, Saliva, Savage Garden, Shaggy, Shakira, Simple Plan, Snatch, Snow Patrol, Staind, Switchfoot, Third Eye Blind, Three Days Grace, Tool, Trapt, KT Tunstall, Shania Twain, Uncle Kracker, Usher, and Mark Willis. I have over 185 CDs! See? I am very eclectic.

Movies:

No chick flicks for me please!! The "cotton candy" films like Lake House (saw the previews only) can just stay at the rental store for my part. Girly movies don't do anything but make you sad because the "perfect" people portrayed in those kinds of movies do not exist. We all (men and women alike) have our issues and our baggage. Real relationships take work and one thing I have to remind myself is that no relationship is perfect.
Dumb comedies like Dumb & Dumber and the American Pie series just seem to insult my intelligence. No thanks.
Give me a movie with war, fighting, and things blowing up and I'll show you a happy girl! I also like the drama and suspense genres. No horror movies for now either (but vampires are cool). Joel's trying to convert me on the horror movies, but Dawn of the Dead 2 really freaked me out and I still can't get Donnie Darko's rabbit outta my head!!
As of right now I have these movies: 8MM, Alfie, Along Came a Spider, Analyze This, Analyze That, Anchorman, Bad Boys, Be Cool, Blazing Saddles, The Breakup, A Bronx Tale, Cellular, City of Angels, Closer, Collateral, Con Air, Criminal, Dead Zone, Dirty Dancing, Dodge Ball, Dogs of War, Domestic Disturbance, Envy, Face/Off, The Fan, Frailty, Fried Green Tomatoes, The General's Daughter, Godsend, Gone in 60 Seconds, The Green Mile, Hitch, Jarhead, Kiss the Girls, Knock Around Guys, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Lord of War, A Man Apart, Man on Fire, Matchstick Men, The Medallion, Merlin, Monster-in-Law, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Ocean's 11, Ocean's 12, The Odd Couple, The Odd Couple 2, Paparazzi, Patriot, Pretty Woman, Pushing Tin, Red Dragon, Riddick trilogy, Rob Roy, Runaway Jury, Seven, Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow, Silence of the Lambs, Snake Eyes, Snatch, Spanglish, Stuck on You, Suicide Kings, Suspect Zero, Swordfish, The Talented Mr Ripley, Troy, Twisted, Unbreakable, V for Vendetta, The Village, The Wedding Crashers, and X-Men 1 & 2.
Very Cool Art by Alain Viesca.

Television:

Law & Order (all variations: CI, SVU, and the original). My new favorite is The Closer on TNT. You should watch it sometime! And I love Sex and the City. I have the whole series on DVD. House is pretty cool too. Though it's not my favorite and I don't make a HUGE effort to watch it.
I should watch the news more, but it's always a re-run. Somebody shot somebody else, some company bigwig got arrested for getting too rich the wrong way, and some sports jock is doing drugs. Oh, the monotony!

Books:

My own! Well, not yet. I hope to find a publisher that will publish a book of my fractal art. Any ideas on where I should look?
Right at this moment, I could be reading one of several books... the topics of choice lately are Borderline Personality Disorder and the Mars/Venus series. I'm all about some self-help!
One of my favorite books was written by one of my best friends, Chris Ringler. He's in my Top Friends list as Munsonville Power & Light. Check him out and buy a copy! He's an amazing writer!!!
I like to read fantasy books. I've read The Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind three times! I still need Chainfire and Phantom. I have the others in paperback, but would LOVE to have the hardbacks again someday. I also like crime scene investigation based novels.
Wizard's Rules from Terry Goodkind's Sword of Truth series
Wizard's First Rule
"People are stupid; given proper motivation, almost anyone will believe almost anything. Because people are stupid, they will believe a lie because they want to believe it’s true, or because they are afraid it might be true."
Wizard's Second Rule
"The Second Rule is that the greatest harm can result from the best intentions."
Wizard's Third Rule
"Passion rules reason."
Wizard's Fourth Rule
"The Wizard's Fourth Rule, he called it. He said that there was magic in sincere forgiveness, in the Fourth Rule. Magic to heal. In forgiveness you grant, and more so in the forgiveness you receive."
Wizard's Fifth Rule
"Mind what people do, not only what they say, for deeds will betray a lie."
Wizard's Sixth Rule
"The most important rule there is, the Wizard's Sixth Rule: the only sovereign you can allow to rule you is reason."
Wizard's Seventh Rule
"Life is the future, not the past."
Wizard's Eighth Rule
“Talga Vassternich. Deserve Victory.”
Wizard's Ninth Rule
“A contradiction can not exist in reality. Not in part, nor in whole.”

Heroes:

There's not any particular person who fits into this category for me. I look up to hardworking, strong, independent, intelligent people. I also admire people who can go through the worst things in life and still maintain a positive attitude.

My Blog

Five for Fighting helps Autism Speaks - Please repost (With working links this time!)

Autism Speaks created a music video of the Five for Fighting song, "World" which features images of children with autism and their families. The band is generously donating $0.49 to Autism Speaks for ...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Sat, 12 May 2007 07:24:00 PST

New Addition to the Family

Saturday when Joel was on his way down to see me and Rory, his mom called.  Guess what she had... A female red heeler!  She asked if we wanted her.  OF COURSE!!!  So when he got to...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 08:30:00 PST

Cleaned up...

Today I deleted the folks I have never talked to or haven't talked to in quite some time. Just so's ya know.  Oh and I have some blogs I need to post.  Just random thoughts and where they ta...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Fri, 20 Apr 2007 09:27:00 PST

Update with pics & a poll to follow...

Hey ya'll!!  I hope everyone is doing great!  I'm sorry I've been such a wretched friend and not posted and update lately.  A couple of folks have asked how the planning is coming. ...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Sun, 15 Apr 2007 07:50:00 PST

My Bling Bling

Isn't it beautiful?!?!?!  I love it so much, but not near as much as I love the wonderful man who gave it to me!  ...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Sun, 01 Apr 2007 08:12:00 PST

Progress...

Things are starting to come together somewhat.   Outfits  I've picked out the flower girl dress and have an idea as to what style bridesmaid dress to get.  Also, I looked online and found ...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Mon, 26 Mar 2007 12:15:00 PST

The Dress

So I went to Tuscaloosa tonight to look at wedding dresses. My Matron of Honor couldn't go with me, but I have been so excited about all this wedding stuff that I decided to go by myself.  I took...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Fri, 23 Mar 2007 10:03:00 PST

The first hurdle of the upcoming marriage

So I was hoping to be a "work from home" person in Florence.  Our company systems are set up so that salesmen (who work from home and on the road) can dial in to work if they need to.  When ...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Wed, 21 Mar 2007 08:07:00 PST

BIG BIG NEWS!!!!

Joel and I are getting married!!!  The wedding'll be in June of this year.  We have nothing planned right now, so I have a lot of stuff to do!  I'm so excited that I haven't stopped smi...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Tue, 20 Mar 2007 11:14:00 PST

Please remember... UPDATED

***Rory is fine. It wasn't parvo.  Thank God!  He's back to his normal biting, spoiled self.  LOL Thanks to everyone for the thoughts, prayers, and well wishes!  I'm sure they...
Posted by Soon-to-Be Mrs. McGurkin on Wed, 14 Mar 2007 08:26:00 PST