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There is no wealth like knowledge, and no poverty like ignorance

About Me


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Name : Barbara
Birthday : June 25th, 1972
Birthplace : In a hospital
Current Location : Long Island
Eye Color : Blue, green or sometimes gray
Hair Color : reddish brown
Height : 5'5"
Right Handed or Left Handed : right
Your Heritage : Norwegian, Danish, Swedish, Scottish, English, German, French, Greek
The Shoes You Wore Today : black pumps
Your Fears : Bugs
Your Perfect Pizza : Stuffed
Your Bedtime : Midnight to 2 AM depending
Pepsi or Coke : Coke
MacDonalds or Burger King : Crap food is crap food
Chocolate or Vanilla : Chocolate
Cappuccino or Coffee : Cappuccino
Do you Swear : sometimes
Do you Sing : off key so I try not to torture anyone
Do you get Motion Sickness : motion sickness is for sissy's
Do you get along with your Parents : Now I do
Do you like Thunderstorms : Yes!
Do you play an Instrument : Used to
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol : no
In the past month have you Smoked : yes
In the past month have you been on Drugs : NO!
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping : Not since I almost got caught in the convent pool lol
In the past month have you Stolen Anything : Never
Ever been Drunk : lol
Ever been called a Tease : Never
How do you want to Die : Quickly and painlessly
Favourite Eye Color : Blue
Favourite Hair Color : Brown
Height : Doesn't matter
Weight : Not obese
Best Clothing Style : Depends on where I'm going and with whom
Number of Piercings : My ears, no tattoos
What do you think of Bush? : I think he's an incompetant asshole, and a criminal
Do you believe in love at first sight? : Yes
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My Interests

Camping, fishing (with latex gloves of course), shopping, hair and make-up, Cut Crystal, English Fine Bone China, Quantum Physics and Mechanics, Parapsychology, Eastern Philosophy, meditation, brain research, social work, deviants, the homeless, law, cooking, gardening, reading, music, the ocean, the mountains, target shooting-I LOVE LOVE LOVE the FAL and AR15, but they're heavy and I need a tripod... :), performance bred WORKING LINE mastiff hybrids, dog training, kick boxing... It's easier to list what doesn't interest me ;) Varied interests.

I'd like to meet:

Real, genuinely nice, non backstabbing, funny, cool people :)

Music:

Most classic rock, some heavy metal, some R&B & rap, freestyle (80's disco), Reggae, Classical, anything but country!!

Movies:

What the Bleep?, The Secret, Braveheart, Gladiator, A Knights Tale, Tristan and Isold and just about any medieval movie, The Godfather, Goodfellas, The Last Mimzy, Buddy (the one about the ape), Lord of the Rings movies, The Harry Potter Movies, Hotel Rwanda, The Outsiders, Exorcism of Emily Rose, The Ring, White Chicks!! :) Love that movie, it was depicted exactly as it is!, Big Momma's House, Green Mile, War of the Worlds, Jack Ass, just about any Vin Diesel movies, and I'm probably leaving a bunch out. Too many to list. Put it on, if I don't like it I'll just whip out a trashy romance novel lol :)
To fully understand and empathize with poverty, you have to experience it~me
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything... What you think you become."
"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world." ~Buddha
"Thank goodness for feelings that create our emotions. Feeling and emotion are what will ignite your desire to know the love that is within you." ~Alana, The Seven Sacred Steps
"Our destiny changes with our thought; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do,when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire." ~Orison S. Marder
"Everything we think, feel, and do has an effect on our ancestors and all future generations and reverberates throughout the universe." ~Thich Nhat Hanh
"Remember to be cautious with your thoughts and your words; they are the tools of creation. Remember cause and effect. Remember there is nothing more important than love." ~Mary Sparrowdancer - "The Love Song of The Universe"
"People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have and it may just never be enough; Give the world the best you have anyway.You see, in the final analysis, it's all between you and God; It was never between you and them anyway." ~Mother Teresa
"I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken. And the one that could always brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own." ~anonymous
"I expect to pass through this world but once; any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again." ~Ettiene De Grellet
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." ~Leo Buscaglia
"No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted." ~Aesop (620 BC - 560 BC), The Lion and the Mouse
"There is no duty more obligatory than the repayment of kindness." ~Cicero (106 BC - 43 BC)
"Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable ways it can change someone else's life forever." ~Margaret Cho
"To be able under all circumstances to practice five things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things are gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness and kindness." ~Confucius
"The most wasted day of all is that on which we have not laughed." ~Sebastien Roch Nicolas Chamfort
"Life is not measured by how many breaths we take, but by how many moments take our breath away." ~unknown
“Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind And therefore is a winged Cupid painted blind.” ~William Shakespeare
"Don't pray for an easy life. Pray to be a strong person." ~JFK
"I'd rather be disliked for who I am, than to be liked for who I am not." ~unknown
"Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over." -Octavia Butler
"Eccentricity is not, as dull people would have us believe, a form of madness. It is often a kind of innocent pride, and the man of genius and the aristocrat are frequently regarded as eccentrics because genius and aristocrat are entirely unafraid of and uninfluenced by the opinions and vagaries of the crowd." ~Edith Sitwell
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." ~Mahatma Gandhi
"That which does not kill me, makes me stronger." ~Friedrich Nietzche
"Strength is born in the deep silence of long-suffering hearts; not amidst joy." ~Mrs. Felicia D. Hemans
"You cannot be mad at somebody who makes you laugh - it's as simple as that." ~Jay Leno
"If you put your hand on a hot stove for a minute, it feels like an hour. If you talk with a beautiful man for an hour, it feels like a minute. That's relativity." ~Albert Einstein
Even the most intelligent of men rarely knows as much as he thinks he does ~Julie Alexander

A man is always less charming than he thinks he is, never as irresistable as we lead him to believe, and completely captivating in his ignorance ~Julie Alexander
There's nothing more charming than those moments when a man who is supremely confident of his own nature falters and a woman knows it's to her credit ~Julie Alexander
The only thing more lacking in intelligence than a man in love is regrettably any man at all ~Julie Alexander
On occasion men and what they provide, are a necessary evil that can be born as long as a woman expects nothing beyond what is offered ~Julie Alexander
Even if a man is chosen for the right reasons; fortune, title, power, we'll always love him for the wrong ~Julie Alexander
No matter how clever or sophisticated a man may appear, he is merely clay waiting to be shaped by the hand of a superior woman, it is however best not to let him know this ~Julie Alexander
A man never knows more than a woman wishes him to ~Julie Alexander

Television:

I really don't watch tv. The news, Days of Our Lives...

Books:

Gone With the Wind, Wuthering Heights, Dante's Inferno, The North and the South, The Kent Family Chronicles, DaVinci Code, Celestine Prophecy, all the Harry Potter books, Charles Dickens, Shakespeare, Danielle Steel, James Patterson, Dean Koontz, Sidney Sheldon, Mario Puzo, William Bernhhardt, Nelson Demille, John Grisham, Stephen King, Patricia Cornwell, Tammy Hoag, Sandra Brown, Lisa Kleypas, Stephanie Laurens, Virginia Henley, Catherine Coulter, Jude Devereaux, Julie Anne Long, Deepak Chopra, Gary Zukav, Jeffrey Mishlove, Raymond Moody MD, Brian Weiss MD, Dannion Brinkley, Melvin Morse, Elisabeth Kuebler Ross MD, Dr. Ian Stevenson, George Ritchie... (I can keep going with JUST favorites lol)

Heroes:

My grandmother, who loved me and was there for me more than anyone in this world and still is :)

My Blog

Articles in Newsday about the town we reside in, "Welcome to Shirley: A Memoir from an Atomic

BY DENISE FLAIM | [email protected] Kelly McMasters knows two Shirleys. The first is an Eden of transplanted borough-breds who ached for a piece of the "country" and found it on Suffolk County...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Mon, 12 May 2008 07:29:00 PST

Krystle, Stephanie, and Brittany... yoo hoo :)

Hi girls   I'm bored.  I ran, I trained Savannah at the beach, I target toned, I cleaned, I called Nanny, I tried to read a book but couldn't get into it, and everyone's sleeping, so here I ...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Wed, 07 May 2008 10:38:00 PST

In Memory of Babs, please keep her family in your prayers

Some of you may know Babs, but even if you don't, please keep her family in your prayers.  On April 22nd her duranged husband unloaded rounds from 2 glock 45's into her, killing her   She le...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 08:24:00 PST

More Before and After Pics of the House Upstate

Dining Room Before You can't really see it good here, but there were really deep scratches all over the front of this.  It looked like a dog used to jump up on it.  This is a neat cabinet...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Tue, 29 Apr 2008 08:07:00 PST

Happy 18th Birthday Krystle!!!!!

    Krystle, honor student of yesteryears ;), citizen and student of the month many times, multiple sport player once upon a time, accomplished concert violinist, comedian, bitch, beauty, d...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Tue, 25 Mar 2008 12:30:00 PST

Congrats Steph for making Varsity Lacrosse, and Britty for making high honor roll AGAIN!! :)

  Steph, I’ll forgive you for not making honor roll yet again, but I could do without the 7:15 am practices during vacation, lol ;) Britty, good luck with Lacrosse tryouts, ...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Sat, 22 Mar 2008 09:24:00 PST

Our House Upstate; the Money Pit, Some Before and After Pics

Location, the Enchanted Mountains on the border of Allegany and Cattaraugus Counties: View coming into town. The lake. Front of the house.  Almost the entire house needs to be chipped and paint...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Wed, 19 Mar 2008 10:34:00 PST

Thought

"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make our world." Buddha Thought is a great dynamic force with tremendous power. An simple atom radiates an el...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Sun, 06 Jan 2008 11:29:00 PST

Congrats to Britty for making Principals High Honor Roll in all Accelerated Classes!!

MySpace Graphics at GlitterGeek.comWe're SOOO proud of you!!!  Love you :*...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Sun, 06 Jan 2008 11:26:00 PST

Brittany made ALL Honor’s Classes!!!

Congratulations!!!!!!!  We are so proud of you !  Beauty, brains, bod., sense of humor, kindness, (to name a few!) we are very lucky to have you, and you are very fortunate :)I can't wait un...
Posted by eæBarbaraæe on Wed, 12 Sep 2007 08:44:00 PST