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TOKI TALI

Kindness is a Language the Blind Can See, the Dumb Can Speak, the Deaf Can Hear & Understand

About Me


I get so many messages these days so a lot of time, I don't get to read them all. For any Business and Networking Inquiry, please contact [email protected]
Before you read any further, please note that I only have 2 Myspace profiles: this page and another at http://myspace.com/mystikgeisha, which I use to keep in touch with close friends. I am not one of those people who have accounts all over the internet. As of right now, I AM ONLY ON MYSPACE! I don’t have a Facebook or any other profiles elsewhere. Needless to say, I always hear about some fake profiles of me and how other people steal and use my pictures to spam, send hate messages around or whatever. I'm annoyed by this so please beware of fakos and report all abuse as you see them. Thank You!
to My Page, Please Fasten your seat belt, Hold Tight and Prepare to Be Tempted! If you Like what you See and Love what you Read then Don't forget to Send Me a Friend Request so you can view My Photo Album. I'm always updating so Come Back Soon!
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I don't really consider myself a high maintenance person even though a lot of people think that I am. What can I say? I do enjoy the finer things in life and living it to the fullest. I can never understand why people would always criticize those who take extremely good care of themselves anyway. There's nothing wrong about loving yourself, being nice to yourself and treating yourself well. I might not be the wealthiest person in the world but if I really like something, I'm definitely going to get it. Life is too short to worry about that kind of stuff. When it comes to the goals I'd like to achieve, I will pursue them relentlessly. There are no obstacles that I wouldn't try to overcome, no risks that I wouldn't be willing to take. I am very grateful for having such a great family, who is always there to support my dreams.
Although I enjoy going out with my friends to the movies, museums, beaches, parties, clubs and etc... making new friends and meeting gorgeous guys, occasionally, I'd prefer to stay in on the weekends, writing journal or poetry on my Hello Kitty bed. I also love to read and have the biggest obsession with books. It is my curiosity that drives me to READ A LOT. I simply have to know. I constantly seek new ways to become better in every way.
Whenever I feel down or bored, I'd like to surround myself with soft music and lavender aromatherapy candles. I might also call one of my close friends and bug them until their phone battery die out. When I need to de-tress myself, I would take a drive at night, feeling the fresh cool breeze and releasing my tension out on the road. Then I'd come home to indulge myself with a hot bubble bath while having some Krispy Kreme donuts, or Haagen Daz coffee ice cream. I wouldn't worry about all those calories until the next day.
As a Sagittarius, I have two sides: one SERIOUS and one EXTREMELY PLAYFUL. I can't tell you ahead of time, which side (nice or naughty) of mine you would encounter. That will have to depend on my mood and your luck. One of my best traits would have to be my optimism. I'm a very sweet person (to those who deserve it) and can usually maintain a positive outlook on life (except for when PMS strikes). Being a Sagittarius had also caused me to be very honest, independent and extremely picky. Sometimes, I feel like I'm too honest, too independent, too picky and in general too good for my own good, hehehe.
I'm currently SINGLE and LOVING IT! Yes, it does get lonely sometimes but I don't need a guy to be happy or for companionship, I already have a dog for that. I would much rather have to deal with occasional loneliness than settle for an unfulfilling relationship with Mr. Wrong, or someone who cannot see me for my worth. At times, I've wondered, why does it have to be so hard to find someone who's GORGEOUS, HONEST, and MONOGAMOUS? One thing for sure, love isn't as always beautiful and romantic as it has usually been portrayed in movies and written about in fairy tales. Wouldn't it be so much better if everyone could just marry their first-love and live happily ever after? Perhaps not, since heartbreaks and disappointment can add spices and valuable lessons to life. After all, we may have to kiss a lot of frogs before we can actually find our princes or princesses...
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"No matter who you are and what you do, there will always be critics so just say what you want, do what you love and screw the rest."
"Forgiveness is a priceless gift---given to you....by you!"
"Relationships and Friendships can Both Come and Go. Always put Family, Yourself and even Your Pets FIRST."
"Don’t be quick to jump to conclusions. Try to think of all sides of a question or situation. Intelligence without understanding is a jade without the caving – just a rock."
"In 3 Areas of Your Life: Love, Friendship and Career: Never Settle For Less Than You Deserve Because the Minute You do That, You Get Even Less Than You Settled For."
"Be Proud of Who You Are. There's at least one person out there who's secretly admiring or caring about you! You just don't know it."
"Don't be hesistant to do a good deed every once in a while because just like a candle, you will not lose anything by lighting another."
"There are already too A**holes in this World so try to be Kind & Gracious to Everyone. And if people aren't nice to you, They're Just JEALOUS!"
"An eye for an eye only makes the world go blind. Just let Karma take care of all Bullshit in Life."
"Everyone Pities the Weak but Jealousy Needs to Be Earned! It's Always Better to Be Hated on For being Fabulous than to be Well-Liked for being Ridiculous."
"Treat Everyone, Rich or Poor, Fat or Skinny, Pretty or Ugly The Same. Also be nice to people on your way up because you will meet them later on your way down."
"Keep in mind that love entails obligation, that respect and trust must be earned, and that “please” and “thank you” are not simply words to be mumbled at birthday parties."
"In a Society Full of Fakes and Morons: Love All but Trust Few and Rely on No One..."
"Most Importantly, Love Yourself. There's no Greater Love!"
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My Interests


- Animals, Anthropology (Both Biological & Cultural) Apples, Arts, Astrology, Autumn
- Bananas, Baking, Beach, Beautiful Clothes, Beautiful People, Beautiful Places, Beautiful Things, Beef, Bikinis, Biology, Books, Boy Toys, Bravery, Bubble Baths, Business
- Camping, Candles, Cashmere, Charity, Christmas, College, Compassion, Confidence, Cookies, Cooking, Courage, Costumes, Creativity, Cultural Studies, Cuddling
- Desserts, Diary, Dim Sums, Dining, Diversity, Dreams, Dresses
- Education, Electronic Gadgets, Elegance, Europe, Exhibitions
- Faith, Family, Fast Food, Fashion, Farms, Flirting, Flowers, Flute, Fireworks, Foot Soaking, Foreign Films, French (language), French Bakery, Frozen Yogurt, Fun
- Geishas, Generosity, Glamour, Good People, Grace, Greece
- Halloween, Happiness, Handbags, Having High Standards!, Hello Kitty, Hockey, Honesty, Hopes, Humor
- Ice cream, Inspirations, Instrumental Music, Intelligence
- Japan, Jewelry, Jokes, Justice
- Kids (They Love Me Too!), Kids’ Books, Kindness, Kissing
- Laughing, Lavender, Learning, Libraries, Life, Literature, Loyalty
- Magazines, Makeup, Massages, Meditation, Meteor shower, Miracles, Moonlight, Movies, Myspace, Museums, Music
- Nature, New York, Nice Guys, Nintendo DS, Nintendo Wii
- Optimism, Organic Food
- Paintings, Paris (city), Parties, Passion, Patience, Peace, Photography, Philanthropy, Piano, Pink (color), Plants, Poise, Politeness, Positive Thinking, Pretty Boys, Privacy, Psychology, Puppies
- Rain, Real Estate, Respect, Reading, Relaxing, Romance
- Sea, Seafood, Seashells, Secrets, Seductions, Shopping, Sincerity, Smoothies, Soccer, Sociology, Sophistication, Spa, Spirituality, Stars, Steak, Strawberries, Success, Sunsets, Surprises, Sushi, Swarovski crystals, Sweetness, Swimming, Swings
- Talents, Television, Temptations, Tranquility, Traveling
- University of California Berkeley
- Variety, Violin, Visual Arts
- Walking, Well Educated Individuals, White (color), Winter
- Yellow, Yoga
- Zither, Zoo

I'd like to meet:

Sorry to disappoint anyone but at this point in my life: I AM VERY HAPPILY SINGLE! I WILL ONLY GET TO KNOW EVERYONE AS FRIENDS, or at least at first. My family, education, and career goals are my top priority right now so I definitely don’t have time for any type of romantic involvement. First of all, my Myspace motive has always been networking and making friends. It was never my intention to use this convenient internet resource to meet the man of my dream, or to date and casually hook up with anyone. Secondly, being an old fashioned person, I am not fond of internet dating because it seems like everyone on Myspace, particularly from California, chats and meets up with each other. It’s actually kind of incestuous!
Even if I had time for a boyfriend or even boy toys, I would rather be looking for them in school or at the Sanrio Hello Kitty stores. I also DO NOT appreciate messages or comments with any type of sexual remarks. I WILL NEVER send provocative pictures to anyone so don’t even think to ask. I’m a good girl who comes from a family with class so I get seriously offended and annoyed by such sick requests. Give me your respect and I’ll give you mine. I didn’t ask for your nudes so don’t ask for mine. I’m not an adult film star, I’m not an exotic dancer, I’m not an import model and I’m not a soup kitchen either. THANK YOU!
I'm not one of those hot girls who think that their crap don't stink and that they are better than everyone else but I do know for a fact that I'm out of most guys' league AND JUST SO YOU KNOW: I'M NOT INTERESTED IN 99.69% OF THE MALES ON HERE.
Do you watch reality TV shows such as The Hills, The Bachelor or America’s Next Top Model? Have you ever seen girls having catfights or arguing with each other over the pettiest things, like an outfit or because of a guy? Even in Hollywood, doesn't it seem like a lot of female stars usually trash one another and eventually go from being BFF’s to enemies overnight? In our own experience, we all have female friends who say and do nasty things behind each other's backs. I don’t even need to go in details for anyone to get the hint, the truth is: girls are probably the most venomous and vindictive living species on earth, which is why the movie Mean Girls was made for good reasons.
My point really is: I’m not on Myspace to be any girl’s best friend and on the contrary, I’m also not here to make enemies or create and get involve in childish girls’ drama. I have no time for that. Further more, I’m a mature, intelligent and confident woman, therefore, I don’t need to compete, harass, gossip, make up lies, or put other females down in order to feel good about myself. MY RULES ARE SIMPLE: If you like me, I’ll like you. If you don’t like me, I won’t like you and if you hate me, I’m not going to give a crap. It’s no secret we live in a sick, competitive world, where a lot of people are evil and jealous towards others so when a girl (whether on Myspace or in real life) is nice to me, I’ll definitely be appreciative and sweet to her in return. However, if they are one of those immature and jealous girls who don’t like hanging out with someone prettier, then they shouldn't try to be my friend in the first place. It’s their choice and that's perfectly fine since I understand everyone has insecurities. Just don’t be one of those shady and conniving girls who befriend me because they think I’m cool and nice but end up stabbing my back out of resentment, after getting tired of me always stealing the spotlight and them just being the little shadow.
This is not to say that men aren’t at all deceitful and manipulative but it’s a fact that males are natural born competitors so they are definitely more likely to compete or fight fairly. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to resort to pranks and using dirty tricks with someone they cannot beat fair and square. It is evidently true that women would much rather harm than help each other. Perhaps this is why in almost every profession today women are still getting paid quite a bit less than men. In the end, I’ve learned that when you’re a beautiful, fashionable, classy female with a good personality, like myself, you’d need to be careful around other girls since many of them will interpret kindness as a weakness, and eventually will either try to use, betray, or even sabotage you. Let us be fair, however, and not conclude that all women are mean and spiteful, hence the probability that Mother Teresa was not. Despite the virtually low number of nice women out there, I remain optimistic, that maybe one day the female’s world would no longer be as this complicated. For the two special females in my life who are also my best friends: MY MOMMY & MY SISTER: Thank you for always being so sweet and kind. You two give me the unconditional love, support, and inspirations to become this beautiful person inside out. I LOVE YOU!

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Music:

MUSIC can move us in ways we never thought possible. I listen to EVERYTHING.... I'm especially fond of Instrumental music, which in my opinion, is both very relaxing and romantic ;)

Heroes:

MY MOM & DAD. Seriously, they are the BEST PARENTS in the world! Not only have they always been there, taking care of me, supporting me and giving me their unconditional love but they've also been spoiling me rotten as well as giving me my GREAT LOOKS. Thanks Mum. Thanks Dad. I LOVE YOU BOTH! *

My Blog

A SECRET CRUSH

A SECRET CRUSH (A poem for all of my friends who ever had a crush on someone. Secret crushes are just so cute and fun to have and since I'm fantasizing about a not-so-innocen...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Sun, 25 May 2008 11:45:00 PST

STALKER LISTED MY PROFILE 4 SALE ON EBAY!

Hi Guys,   First of all, I'd like to wish everyone a Happy Easter. I've been having a very busy week, I'm out of town for an important meeting but anyway, I need to put up this blog ...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Fri, 21 Mar 2008 09:11:00 PST

MAN, HORSE AND DOG

Hey Guys,   If you’re a frequent visitor of my profile, you would have probably noticed that I have not written or posted any new blogs in forever. Time goes by so fast but I can still rem...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Wed, 16 Jan 2008 11:11:00 PST

IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, SET THEM FREE?

IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE, SET THEM FREE? Letting go of something or someone we love can never be easy. Although the old saying "If you love something, set it free" may be true, when it comes time to set t...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME?

WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME?     1/ What do you normally do when you log into Myspace?   - I'm a very busy person so I only have about thirty to sixty minutes to spend on Myspace each ...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

ONE BEAUTIFUL SUMMER (and a note to everyone)

Dear Friends and Fans, I've been getting a lot of sweet messages and cute comments from you guys ever since I started this Myspace account (on April 9, 2007) and today is July 9, 2007,&nbs...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

MY FAVORITES!!! (Revised 10/4/07)

MY FAVORITES!!!   1/ FAVORITE COLOR: I Love all Colors except for Black, it's just too dark, plain, boring and serious. Not to brag or anything but I'm one of those few that can look amazing in ...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

SEXY OR SKANKY?

So I always read these Cosmopolitan magazines, etc& and they usually have a mini section on what's currently sexy and what's currently skanky. For example: Low rise jeans are considered hot ...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

A Star in Your World

This is for all those people out there who are too scared to say how they feel because they think the other person doesn't feel the same way. In life you should be content that you feel something for ...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST

IF, IF and IF...

IF, IF, and IF...   1/ If you could change only one thing about yourself, what would it be and why?  - Sometimes, I wish I wasn't too good for my good. Guys are often too intimidated to ap...
Posted by TOKI TALI on Mon, 31 Dec 2007 12:39:00 PST