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About Me

This space blinged by Pagebling.com layoutI'm a Scorpio which makes me a fiesty kind of girl. But I can be pretty tame till provoked. Spent 8 years in the Bay Area: Richmond, SF, East O', Tenderloin, El Cerrito, all over basically.
I've changed a lot since a lot of people spoke to me last. Even my pictures aren't accurate anymore and I don't have new ones. I went from a size 24 to a 16. The weight loss started off real fast then slowed down but hasn't stopped. As long as I'm in shape and healthy I'm happy but it hasn't been all plummy losing weight. I look different it's not comfortable looking at myself.I have a boyfriend, we've been seeing each other since end of april. He asked me to marry him, I said yes I'd do it in a heartbeat. We are not rushing though, we will wait till we know each other longer. He's way better than any man I've ever dated/met. Even though I was already on the self-improvement track before I met him he inspires me a lot to keep on that track.My son is growing so tall. His dad is 6'6, what the future holds who knows. He's a good kid, and super smart so no matter what I believe he will be ok. I'm working as well. I've got a great job in the healthcare field.
Life is changing a lot for me right now. I've learned a lot of life lessons in a short amount of time and learned a lot about who my friends are and aren't. It makes me a lil hard but I try not to lose my true character because of it. You gotta take the bad with the good right. Scorpio
You are very dominant in bed, and you like to control your relationship in general. You are so intense in the sack that none of your partners will ever forget you. You are an amazing lover, because you like to have an equal amount of give and take. Sex matches: Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces
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These are 2 songs I do at Karaoke and people were telling me I sound like Linda Ronstadt and so I found this and now I see they were right and it actually amazed me. I love these songs.

My Interests

Bay Area Music, photography, design, art, singing, dancing, karaoke, fashion, drag queens, transexuals, dating, friends, black men, asian men, voyeurism, overcoming fears, making videos, modeling, writing, puzzles, mystery, and figuring things out.

I'd like to meet:

I'm not very interested in meeting anyone at the moment. Would be nice to have some inspirational people in my life though. Keeping good company has a dramatic effect on how people live their own lives.

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Funny Videos
And you think fat people are ugly!

Music:

Click here for a beautiful song!
Trey Songz, Brian Mcknight, Chris Brown, Pussy Cat Dolls, Toni Braxton, R. Kelly, Usher, Isley Brothers, Marvin Gaye, 50 Cent, Lil Kim, Kanye West, Jersey Ave, Tupac, Gorilla Black, BIG E, P. Diddy, G-Unit, Raphael Saadiq, LL Cool J, Earth Wind & Fire, Whitney Houston, Green Day, Limp Bizkit, Tool, Korn, Temptations, En Vogue, Boys II Men, John Legend, Destiny's Child, Stuff like that so etc....

Movies:

The Fighting Temptations Collateral Dreamcatchers Crimson Tide Shark Tales Madagascar The Craft

Television:

I don't watch tv unless I'm at someone elses house. I like all of the CSI's, What Not To Wear, Forensic shows, BET, MTV, VH1.

Books:

I spend too much time reading kids books to my son to have the patience to read for myself. Magazines I like though cause you get the info you want in a short amount of time and great visuals.

Heroes:

People who have the motivation and heart to reach out and help other's and make a difference in their community

My Blog

Go away, go away, just go away

Guys been fricken irritating me. They just keep proving just how fucked up they are towards women. The older I get the more fucked up they seem to act. No wonder there's so many...
Posted by Melissa on Thu, 26 Apr 2007 05:53:00 PST

this is my day

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Posted by Melissa on Thu, 05 Oct 2006 11:35:00 PST

I run away from hot boys!

And I feel so bad about this. 4 real. There's a fella who is always trying to holla at me at the muckleshoot. He's fine as hell, and he seems nice. I just have this thing where...
Posted by Melissa on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 10:43:00 PST

GAY

Dang everywhere I went last night I kept hearing the word gay. And loud. Skinny white chick is yelling gay in my ear talking shit about some boys that were at the club. She was so gr...
Posted by Melissa on Sun, 17 Sep 2006 11:37:00 PST

OMG I so can't cook!

This is horrible. I'll start off thinking I know what I'm doing and knowing that I've cooked this whatever before and it was good. But for some reason this time it totally sucks or was bur...
Posted by Melissa on Wed, 13 Sep 2006 03:01:00 PST

Away

I go away for a week and come home to over 200 mostly uninteresting messages. I don't understand how people think they're going to get a response. I am not trying to meet any men or women ...
Posted by Melissa on Tue, 22 Aug 2006 02:54:00 PST

What would you want?

I just want to know what it is that you want from me. What would you do to get it? What would you do to get it for free? lol. Be creative, go beyond obvious answers like sex or...
Posted by Melissa on Mon, 17 Jul 2006 04:54:00 PST

When one decides that he/she can make a difference?

After going thru some time feeling very blank when it comes to feelings and purposes, I found it in me what I was looking for. Now I am trying to discover the how! What do I want to do.......
Posted by Melissa on Mon, 17 Jul 2006 01:54:00 PST

Holy Cow.....

Did I mention that I really like drag queens and transexuals. My brother and best friend is a gay drag queen. And I used to be with a transexual. Talk about gender bending. Mos...
Posted by Melissa on Wed, 07 Jun 2006 01:28:00 PST

Check Ya Bitch

You aint slick so you betta learn how to keep ya tricks in check. Thanks for reminding me why I stay single though. Momz don't do drama, and she don't do "sprung". For the bitches, ...
Posted by Melissa on Sun, 04 Jun 2006 03:11:00 PST