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Esinem

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

MyGen Profile GeneratorWhere to start? So many people like to define themselves by what they do for a living. Whether that's valid depends, I suppose, on how important that is to them. To me, working is a neccessary evil, so I guess it might as well be fun. Back to that later as the things that put a smile on my face and a spring in my step and generally make life worth living are more important than cash and career.Things that qualify? SCUBA diving in crystal clear water over coral; sunsets on deserted beaches; BDSM, rope bondage (http://www.esinem.com), ...sub-space from either perspective; laughing at toe-curlingly awful puns and black humour; good friends and lovers; paragliding from Baba Dag; the rush from performing; stupidly powerful motorcycles...umm, and most things expensive and dangerous; charred speed cameras; lively minds; excellent food...As far as making a living is concerned, after about 12 years, I got bored with the grown-up and serious business of running an IT company. I decided that I should grow old disgracefully whilst doing what I wanted. Life's too short to waste it working. These days, I take as much time off as possible and do a lot of different things: I have a wood flooring company (http://www.artisanwodfloors.com), make videos...erh, for grown-ups ;-), teach people how to tie each other up (Why didn't my Careers Officer mention this?) and am involved in the Unholy companies. The latter comprise The Unholy Trinity, an extreme cabaret troupe providing 'Manson Family' entertainment http://www.theunholytrinity.info), plus the newly formed UnholyShit.com, producers of cinematic delights for the discerning perv, and UnholySpiritManagement, an agency for adult models and unusual performers.As a person? Well, obviously, I'm biased :-) Practical and independent. Easy going but not inclined to suffer fools gladly. Emotionally very level...until I get involved with somebody prone to roller-coaster emotions. Ex-girlfriends still talk to me - even the roller-coaster ones. Inspired, but too easily distracted. Not very material, so long as I can have a few frivolous toys. A loyal friend who will do anything for those I value. Provocative but prepared to have my opinions changed with a well-reasoned argument. Fairly typical of the Aquarian stereotype but unconvinced about astrology. Slow to anger and usually remain irritatingly calm in the face of the anger of others. Moderate case of adrenalin addiction. Hedonistic.

My Interests

Shibari/Kinbaku (Japanese bondage), SCUBA diving, motorcycles (CBR1100XX & XR650R supermoto), travel, video production, backgammon, arguing the hind legs off donkeys, bureaucrat-baiting.

I'd like to meet:

PLEASE DO NOT SEND FRIEND REQUESTS IF YOU DO NOT SHARE MY INTERESTS AND MERELY WISH TO PROMOTE YOUR BAND/BOOK/WHATEVER!People with opinions and the wherewithall to justify them, those who find the idea of 'normality' uncomfortably dull, performers, libertarians, harmless perverts (especially bondage fans), nawashi, antiloquent quodlibertairians, alternative people, those making their own movies, bikers, beautiful women (especially those that like getting tied up), free-spirits, crusaders against bureaucratic oppression.

Music:

Frank Zappa, Tiger Lillies, Eminem, Dr Dre, Gregorian chant, Fatboy Slim, Era, Shakta and many other ecclectic tastes

Movies:

Anything by Peter Greenaway or Almodovar, Pulp Fiction, Withnail & I, Dangerous Liaisons, Repo Man, Blue Velvet, Lock Stock & Two Smoking Barrells, Rocky Horror

Books:

Books by PJ O'Rouke and Hunter S Thompson esp Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, The Magus, Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, The Dice Man by Luke Reinhart, Electric Cool Aid Acid Tests by Tom Wolfe.

Heroes:

Groucho Marx, Howard Marks, Hunter S Thompson, Frank Zappa

My Blog

I am not worthy!!

Bloody hell! Just had a call from SM Sniper, one of Japanese top bondage mags, and they want to do a shoot and interview with me with a view to running a feature. It`s not often a gaijin rigger gets t...
Posted by Esinem on Thu, 24 May 2007 11:40:00 PST

Going home time rapidly approaches

Back home next weekend :-(  I`m going to miss Japan. However, as the line goes: I`ll be back! Hasta la vista, baby! I will be going to a book launch, a treatise on mind control by Dr Tomabechi,&n...
Posted by Esinem on Tue, 22 May 2007 07:13:00 PST

Japan

Bewildering and wonderful country. Ultra-modern contrasted with tradition, hectic cities/neon lights/pachinko arcades with temples/shrines/geishas/zen gardens. Wandering wide-eyed and awe-struck.Lesso...
Posted by Esinem on Sun, 13 May 2007 04:17:00 PST

Google shibari videos

Hmmm, going to try to use the 'post to blog' facility in Google Video to try to post some shibari videos here.Nah, can't get it to work. Anyhow, try this link to a performance by Go Arisue while I go ...
Posted by Esinem on Sat, 17 Mar 2007 06:06:00 PST