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OK due to some rather inapporiate people who has attempted to contact me off this site I have to update this sadly. No I am not looking for group sex, one night stands nor am I looking for sexual experience off this site. No I do not need my life micromanaged, or do I want to micromanager yours.If you want to chat, please recognize I'm not a prospect.. but definitely a good friend to anyone who'll be one back. Consider me a friend, not a dating potenial. I do not harbour any set standards either.I try to accept people as a whole, and base my preceptions on their actions. I don't like the do as I say not as a do. Action's speak volume's of who you are as a person.
Also, they say that you can't judge a book by its cover. I hand my book to people already open. I will respect someone who does the same.
Respect for me is earned on both ends..not freely taken or freely given. I have faith there are people out there who has manners and do know how to approach another human being with a bit of decency. Now back to the orginal profile . Thank You. and Be Well.
I am a greater sum then my parts.
I get dozens of ims or email's daily by men who all say "you're hot" Now, one would think I would be greatly flattered that so many are over whelmed to state this to me and in such great number's, but I find it hard to take one man's masturbatory visualizing (or a women's) of myself at all flattering. Yes, I do like to be considered "attractive" pyschially. Just for once I'd rather be seen for my beauty within then someone saying my outer appearance is "doable" OK now I decided I want to get to know you.
This a common compliant I have had, in various form's. The "Playing house" Syndrome I have. I am good enough to f**k but, never good enough to take final steps to commit to me and the realationship. Which is why, I choose to be alone. Not because it is easier..for it is not. Not because I am jaded (ok maybe a bit), but because I am tired of settling. I want more for myself
Chemistry is indispensable
“Sparks†are indispensible.
How many of us have tried to make a potential relationship into something it really isn't?
Has anyone ever succeeded?
“Sparks†and chemistry are a result of the right two people mixing together and creating something that is more than the sum of its parts.
It is mysterious. It can't be manufactured. It can't be demanded. It is like a force of nature.
To settle for less only ensures you will never reach your full potential within a relationship.
To me, chemistry comes before any sort of relationship structure
The structure only enhances what should already be there.
For years I have had all sorts of responses to my looks. I have had brutes who want to keep me for themselves. I have had weak minded people who need to find my most unattractive feature to empower themselves. But never once, have had anyone in my life to been able to take the most alive part of me and hold it in their hands.
My mind.
It is amazing how much we are able to achieve when we have found a mate who can reach our souls, the very essence of our being. The sum of two can be much, much more than the sum of the individual parts
Beauty survives....
Very seldom am I impressed with the pictures I see here on the Internet. A fleeting glance at what we perceive as beauty is often veiled in the fantasy of what we think is desire. In truth it is not vanity, I believe in the intellect and yet as a dreamer I still believe in reality, but a reality that is made of logic and reason and perhaps the dreams we have at night. It may be a haunting thought or a vision of someone remembered.
Beauty is all in eye's of the beholder. Love is blind..thus, is what leads my heart.
About Me:
I am a mother, friend, fiend, DD Free (drink and drugs), a non-smoker, a P.I.TA, confident, real, honest, respectful, a Sadist, a Masochist, a geek , a dreamer, an artist, serious, smart, a smart a**, spoiled , a performer,. a hopeless romantic, an ultimate cuddle wh*re,(it's term people -don't take it seriously) a over grown child at heart, socially inept, the queen of typo's, I'm spontaneous, like human combustion... overtly affectionate & empathetic, passionate & sensual,a closet freak except to those who I don't wish to know anything else, restless for movement & change,odd, prone to inspired (often silly) tangents and bouts of silent observance, resilient, flexible, and strong.( though , I may not always feel like it or believe it)
What I'm doing with my life: Jotting down notes on life... singing in the shower.. experimenting in the kitchen... observing people.. observing myself... laughing & living.. forever learning.. taking photos whenever I can
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