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Absolut Vixen

She looks like innocence, but tastes like violence

About Me


Im an MtF full-time Pre op Transsexual
Website My Journal
AIMTheDarkRedQueen
Yahoo! TheDarkRedQueen
Oh...and I fucking rock :)
I'm not your sex object and I'm not your whore. Please don't bother sending me some lame, poorly thought out, crude, sexual message. But if you do, don't be mad at my response, or considerable lack there of.
I'm in love with urban life, industrial music, and my academics. I'm quite a book hound and anything covering Fin-de-Siecle Europe, European History (Germany especially), gender/sexuality, sociology, philosophy, art and the avant-garde totally interests me. I suck at photography, but I'm dying to learn digital photo techniques.
If you're a professional photographer, and not some leech, and you're local to me and interested in participating in a fetish website, please, please message me.
I'm totally in love with BDSM, D/s, and various things associated with it. My two partners (yes, I'm polamorous) and I enjoy going to fetish parties quite a bit. If you're looking for informational things on the subject, feel free to message me. Don't message me to 'hook up' or whatever. I have two, very happy, committed partners in my life and I'm not looking for others. I BDSM . I'm a sexual switch and quite open about it. Mmm... sado-masochism !
I'm a hell of a shop-a-holic, and I live for sales. I have more clothes than I know what to do with, but I nonetheless need to have an overstuffed closet to feel happy.
Being sex-positive is something I am rather vocal about and I fancy myself something of an activist for LGBTQ affairs. I tend to focus on sexuality, health care, and sociology of LGBTQ people, but I am very supportive of my fetish community as well. If you are a person looking for political action and are reasonably looking, I'm often more than willing to help.
If you're transgendered (MtF or FtM) and are looking for someone to talk to, you're more than welcome to message me anytime. I'm generally a pretty personable kinda girl, but I can be a bitch. Don't take it personal. Here are some reasources if you are looking. If you know of other sources, please message me and I'll add them :)
I adore my consumerism and materialism. I consider myself a feminist, but I'm crazy about guys. I love tea and good crackers. Lavender candles make me smile. I think some people would rate me as a tomboy but I think I'm pretty feminine. I love good single malt whiskey. Electro makes me dance. I heart photography and I'm generally a sweet person. I love indirect lighting, moody settings, cramped French bistros, being a wallflower at parties, and talking to people all night. I'm soft spoken, I'm kinda selfish, and I like to kiss girls.
I listen to a wide variety of music, check my list on the left.
...And yes, I'm quite, quite taken by the most awesome guy, and girl...ever.
Links on Transsexual Resources
Transsexuals on Wikipedia
URNotAlone
The International Journal of Transgenderism
QueerTheory.com
Anne Lawrence
Transsexuality.org
Genderpeace
Camp Trans
Sunny Camp Trans Comic
Transgender Respect FAQ
TS Road Map
If any of my links are broken and you find the right link, please provide it:) Thanks!

My Interests

Culinary arts, politics, making out, European History, couture, culture, art, interesting and creative music, botany/gardening, dogs/cats, jewlery, Tea, astronomy, candles, Video Games, Weimar Berlin, fetishes, reading, lesbians, gays, BDSM, latex, vintage hotness, shopping for great clothes, hot sales, corsets, current events, computers, passionate and violent sex, learning, skimpy pajamas, glitter, chocolate, the mall, Gourmet Magazine, French Bistros, Anglophiles, good lotions, earthy scents, quality olive oil, a fabulous glass of wine, over priced martinis, looking upper class while living middle class, Francophiles, androgyny, gender queers, gender fuckers, good porn, Playboy, back-seamed stockings, fuck-me heels, a nice pair of sandles, sexy but trashy rooms, anything avant-garde, pissing off Christians, laying in bed all day and staying up all night, the colour pink, acoustic guitars and boys who can sing along to them, breakfast in bed, romantic men, sexy girls, dreamers, pretty flowers, little black dresses, small houses, big cities, looking at stars, nostalgia, retro junk, black rimmed glasses, nerds, home decor, artists, life, my own aspirations, true love, sunny and clear spring days, being young and stupid, snuggling, the smell of fresh herbs, high thread count sheets, a good mug, photography, pin up girls, exploring my self identity, amythest, tear drop and chandelier earrings, noisy restaurants, dark wood furniture, ...and my own life.

I'd like to meet:

Gender fuckers, hot transsexuals , unique and interesting people, vibrant and creative dreamers, cute nymphomaniacs , tramps, people of vivid colour, makeup junkies, fabulous dressers, courtesans, lifestyle obsessors, educated centerfolds, gothy bi boys, feminists, bisexual women, fashionista emo boys , caberet dwellers, burlesque performers , speak easy drinkers, fetishists, people who assault gender and sexuality norms, decadent hedonists, slutty girls, cam whores , glitter fiends, Chuck Palahniuk users, gender queers, young and cute as a button crossdressers, and anyone who loves a good glass of pinot noir.

People I Don't Want to Meet:
Sleazy people, drug users (other than alcohol and pot): I have absolutely no tolerance for drug use or a abuse. I refuse to destroy my body and mind, and I will not hang around for someone else to do the same. Drug culture is immature and lame to me , so don't message me to hang out if you are. Classless and trashy people need not apply. Same with whiny Tgirls and bad (read: ugly) crossdressers.

Music:

A rather bizarre mix of synthpop, EBM, Industrial, indie, pop punk, emo, new wave, aggrotech, trance, dance, pop, black metal, techno, electronica, rave, synth, dark wave, electroclash, including, but not limited to The Faint, Ladytron, Daft Punk, Cruxshadows, New Order, Rammstein, Panic! At the Diso, Hocico, Imperative Reaction Aslan Faction, Madonna, Tricky, Depeche Mode, Tactical Sekt, Kylie Minogue, Atreyu, Gravity Kills, Die Sektor, Chevelle, Wumpscut, Goldfrapp, Nine Inch Nails, She Wants Revenge, Suicide Commando, Icon of Coil, LCD Sound System, Interpol, Franz Ferdinand, Duran Duran, Bloc Party, The Automatons, Blutengel, Hot Hot Heat, Death From Above 1979, Death Cab for Cutie, Dashboard Confessional, Bad Religion, Princess Superstar, The Bravery, Android Lust, Ayria, DJ Tiesto, Shadows Fall, Switchblade Symphony, Prodigy, KMDFDM, Mindless Self Indulgence, Aslan Faction, Psychlon Nine, Virtual Embrace, Front 242, Taking Back Sunday, New Order, Aiden, Velvet Acid Christ, The Birthday Massacre, Fischerspooner, Panzer AG, Fiona Apple, Gravity Kills, VNV Nation, Loius XIV, Avenged Sevenfold, The Fever, Gwen Stefani, Head Automatica, Combichrist, Massive Attack, David Waxman, Miss Kittin, Lords of Acid, Mount Sims, Apoptygma Berzerk, Freeze Pop, Mae, Cat Power, Autechre, VHS or Beta, Underworld, The Crystal Method, Portishead, Kasabian, Paul Oakenfold, Assemblage 23, and lots lots more....

Movies:

Fight Club, The Secretary, Akira, Alice in Wonderland, Princess Mononoke, Spirted Away, Legends of the Fall, Ghost in the Shell, Pi, The Game, Silent Hill, Appleseed, 28 Days Later, Reisdent Evil, Pirates of the Carribean, Finding Neverland, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Matrix, Underworld, Robotech, 24 Hour Party People, Party Monster, Dune, Priscilla Queen of the Desert, Soldier's Girl, Normal, Mulholland Drive, Me Vie en Rose, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, To Wong Fu, Aliens, Alien, Alien 3, Interview with the Vampire, Donnie Darko, Supersize Me, Hamlet, Henry V, Much Ado About Nothing, 13th Warrior, Steel Magnolias, Braveheart, Napoleon Dynamite, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Belle De Jour, Sin City, The Story of O, The Dreamers, Moulin Rouge, Amelie, Fallen, Ring of Fire, Lost Highway, Snatch, Lock Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Shakespeare in Love, Elizabeth, Pulp Fiction, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Crash, Bound, City of Lost Children, Dawn of the Dead, Howl's Moving Castle, House of 1000 Corpses

Books:

Choke, Lullaby, Fight Club, Invisible Monsters, etc. If Chuck Palahniuk wrote it, I probably own it. History books, especially on the Byzantines or Fin de Siecle Europe (1850-1933), Philosophy books, Art, Art History, Photography (Nude, Art, pornographic, skylines, gender bending), Cookbooks, Harry Potter. I 3 Harry Potter!

Heroes:

Anais Nin, Mae West, Jan Morris, Calpernia Adams, Robert Green Ingersoll, Jean-Paul Sartre, Jack Rinella, Friederich Nietzsche, Veronica Franco, Lucrezia Marinella, Bettie Page, Dr Marcie Bowers, Elton John, Dr Susan Block, my grandmother and my mother