MischievousMinx

***Preface***
It has occurred to me that I am atrocious when it comes to talking about myself in paragraph form. I guess partially because it seems, just so utterly narcissistic. Then again, I do love having my photos taken, and I love attention of all kinds. So perhaps I should bathe in all my narcissistic glory :) In any case, I think the best way to cover at least a fraction of who I am as a person would be in the form of a questionnaire. Only the pertinent questions will be covered for the sake of brevity. I know… A questionnaire is a bit trite, but like I give a shit what you think anyway ;)
***Q and A***
Why does your profile say male? (I have received this question a few times)
For the simple fact that (at least genetically) I am. Stopping there alone would totally miss who I am as a person entirely.
I am what is commonly referred to as a Transsexual. But that is just a label, and I despise labels. Labels are severely limiting in what they are meant to well… err... Label. I think of myself less as a gender, and just a
person, more specifically… ME. I am constantly evolving and a conundrum to many. For those that are curious... I started my transition in the late 90s and have been living as a woman since 2000.
Does this mean you are gay?
Invariably, that question gets asked right after the first question. Gender and sexuality are two entirely separate things. But for so many they are married in such the same way as life and death.
This is not the simplest question for me to answer. I usually just say Gay, but then people get confused as to just what that means, in reference to who I am. As stated earlier, I hate labels. Male and female, are labels... I really do not see gender; I see people and who they are as a whole.
To answer what I am looking for in a mate, you will just have to scroll down to that “Who I'd like to meet” section…
Why did you suddenly change your profile? Initially it said female and you mentioned nothing about being Transsexual?
I guess for a few reasons. Mainly I am just tired if getting to know someone, only to scare them off after I disclose that information. So in a way this filters out those types of people. And besides that, it seems like all the kids are doing it these days, so why can’t I? ;)
What do you do for a living?
Something with computers...
You seem to move a lot, why?
I have lived in Michigan, Illinois, Ohio for 3 weeks, California, New Mexico, and now I have moved to Austin, Texas.
This will by my third major move in less than a year. I really do hope this will be it for a while.
***Caveats***
I did not include the type of music I like, or what movies I watch, or what books I read as they are fairly obviously listed in the sidebar. I guess this profile is not brief, and my answers are in the forms of paragraphs… Ah well…
For those that persevered and read on through all this garbage, I can only offer my thanks, and a cookie!