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~Elita

You cannot forgive or forget what you have never recalled; you cannot leave a place you have never b

About Me


I am an outgoing, compassionate woman with a great sense of humor. I am spontaneous and hard working. I am enthusiastic, inspiring and DREAM BIG. I have lots of energy and a positive outlook on people and life. My friends say I'm easy-going, affectionate, sweet, confident, giving, feisty, witty, playful, adventurous and laugh easily. My eyes have a sparkle and sometimes even a mischievous glint. I can go from brilliant to as "dumb as a box of rocks" in a nano-second. I'm independent and have opinions of my own. I have strong family ties and values and would like to meet someone with the same. My relationship with God and my relationship with my friends and pets are important to me as well.
I would like very much to make new friendships with all types of people. From all walks of life.
As for a boyfriend... I'm not actively looking for one nor am I in a position to be. I'm not quite ready to open myself to the risk of yet another heart-shaddering, heart- wrenching, heartbreak. (even though I did the "breaking up", it was still devastating just the same).
There is a proverb that says: "Happy is the man that finds wisdom and the man who gains understanding." Prov 3:13. I believe it's time that my quest be one for wisdom and understanding... not a quest for a boyfriend.
It's time that I "understand" myself, and be "wise" about the man I fall for! My focus needs to be on developing into the woman that God has "CHOSEN" me to be and allow him to do the work in my life that he has started.
So with all that being said it's obvious that I am not actively in pursuit of "finding someone" but...
WHEN I do meet my 'match' I would like to meet someone that is as talented as Ross Walters (very gifted musician)
, ALDO (awesome classical guitarist), Mike Martin and Carl Culpepper(amazing guitarist). Someone as sexy as Carlos Ponce,Mario Lopez, the latin singer Saer and Jim Caviezel all rolled into one!
Seriously, I am very selective with who I will go out with. I would look for someone that has a strong spirtitual walk. A gentleman who has character, integrity, and strong values. Who has a POSITIVE outlook on life, is ambitious and going in forward motion. Someone who takes care of himself physically, mentally, and spiritually. He would be family oriented, sincere, and have a sense of where he is going in life. Someone who will respect and appreciate my desire to take things s-l-o-w and understand my need to be cautious about matters of the heart. Who will respect my roll as a mother, woman and friend. He would also be okay with the fact that I'm a little on the geeky side.
He would have to realize that while neither one of us is perfect, I'm worth the time and effort it takes to build a relationship while we are both going through the process of growth necessary to build our character and our love for one another!
(The test of a man's true colors become transparent not during the good times, but when his partner needs him to stand by her side when life comes at her sideways.)
I would be willing to go through HELL and HIGH water for him because I would consider him worth the time and committment involved in building a lasting relationship!
I know "mr. right" is out there and I am confident that at the right time God will lead us to each other.
God promised me "Issac" not "Ishmael"... I'm waiting patiently for my "Issac"

BUT in the meantime.....
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I like hiking, swimming, watching sunsets on the water, fishing,riding HARLEYS (and other types of motorcycles), waterfalls and campfires, riding a seadoo, fine wine, good conversation, giving kisses, movies-action/suspense, dancing, dining, traveling to name a few.

I'd like to meet:


I'd Like to Meet: Intelligent, Talented, Humorous, Silly, Normal, Not so Normal, Quirky, Serious,Obsessive Compulsive, Witty, Dry, Mellow, Jovial, Shy... you name it. I like ALL kinds of personalities and would like to meet you all! !

Music:

I enjoy (good) music and love to dance. I like everything from BLUES, R&B, classical guitar, piano, LATIN, JAZZ, christian, classical, classic rock, rock, and a little country

Movies:



Create your own Movie List @ HotFreeLayouts! a My favorite movie is ANGEL EYES
(it's a little slow but well worth watching. The story line is incredible, especially for someone that's been in a relationship that needs understanding and unconditional love.)


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Television:

The Weather Channel, The History/Discover Channel and Body of Evidence.

Books:

I enjoy reading non fiction (informational books), mysteries, adventure/thrillers, romance, biographies and autobiographies. My favorite authors are: Greg Laurie, Chuck Swindoll, James Dobson, Anne Ortlund, Mary Higgins Clark, Kathleen Woodiwiss,Johanna Michelson, Tom Clancy, John Grisham, Frank Peretti,Ridley Pearson and a true life friend,Haywood Smith.
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You Are Likely an Only Child
At your darkest moments, you feel frustrated.
At work and school, you do best when you're organizing.
When you love someone, you love deeply. You tend to lavish the one you love with gifts from the heart. You are loyal, tend to dote and give unselfishly, never asking for anything in return.
In friendship, you are emotional and sympathetic.
Your ideal careers are: radio announcer, finance, teaching, ministry, and management.
You will leave your mark on the world with organizational leadership, maybe as the author of self-help books. The Birth Order Predictor
How to make an ELITA
Ingredients:
5 parts sweetness
5 parts intelligence
4 parts high energy
Method:
Stir together in a glass tumbler. Add lovability to taste! Sprinkle with passion and a dash of overindulgence! YUMMY!
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Your kiss is... mysterious
Your hugs are... gentle
Your eyes... light up a day
Your touch is... heart warming
Your smell is... beautiful
Your smile is... entrancing
Your love is... eternal
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Heroes:

Sir Issac Newton, My grandparents; Daddy Henry and Mama Delsie, my best friends; Mike and Joan Hatrak, my high school Algebra/Trig teacher; Ms. Henry, John Hagee, The piano playing cat,NORA, Louie Giglio, Greg Laurie, Two AWESOME Police officers; Chris Breen & Philip Ritchey and a man that is not afraid to "speak the truth"; Ivan Tait.Oh! and Carl Culpepper as a very talented musican.

My Blog

What is Character?

In the most recent months, I have given a lot of thought to many things. But one thing that has been on my heart lately is "Character"... Here are some thoughts and observations I've made. Maybe it wi...
Posted by ~Elita on Fri, 28 Sep 2007 10:08:00 PST

HILLARYCARE REVEALED

  HILLARYCARE REVEALEDHillary Rodham, almost certain to be the nominee of the Democrat MoveOn Party, finally unveiled her government-run healthcare plan yesterday. For comic relief Ms. Rodham tol...
Posted by ~Elita on Wed, 19 Sep 2007 11:56:00 PST

Why Women Cry

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?""Because I'm a woman," she told him."I don't understand," he said.His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."Later the little boy asked ...
Posted by ~Elita on Thu, 30 Aug 2007 06:17:00 PST

Let it GO!!!!

  Let it Go! Body: Let it go for 2007.. don't make someone a priority when they only make you an option... By T. D. Jakes There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you...
Posted by ~Elita on Mon, 27 Aug 2007 08:31:00 PST

Confessions of a Sex-Starved Single (but God I So Want to have sex!!)

Confessions of a Sex-Starved Single What should I do with raging hormones? My friend Diane got married recently. Walking down the aisle, smiling big, she winked as she passed me. She was stepping in...
Posted by ~Elita on Mon, 27 Aug 2007 08:10:00 PST

LOVES RISK

Love's Risk  Even though it hurts to become involved  with someone, it would be a tragedy to never allow yourself to care deeply for a special person.   There is a risk involved in...
Posted by ~Elita on Tue, 21 Aug 2007 07:30:00 PST

LETS ALL REFER TO GOD AS ALLAH

LET'S ALL REFER TO GOD AS ALLAHI know this is going to be hard for you to believe; but then again, maybe not. After all, we're installing foot baths at airports for Muslim cab drivers and in some Eura...
Posted by ~Elita on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 08:21:00 PST

DARE TO DREAM

CARE OF DREAMS Without a dream, the heart is a desert. Without a dream, the mind has no goal. To live with a dream, is to relish the present, and promise the Future as a gift for the soul.Dreaming alo...
Posted by ~Elita on Sat, 12 May 2007 07:54:00 PST

Everyone can't be in your front row...

EVERYONE CAN'T BE IN YOUR FRONT ROWwriter unknownLife is a theater, so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is valuable enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives. There are some peopl...
Posted by ~Elita on Wed, 24 Jan 2007 12:12:00 PST

Don't LUNGE at the gerbil!

Book ExcerptThe Language of Letting Go, By Melody BeattieDetachmentOne day, my son brought a gerbil home to live with us. We put it in a cage. Some time later, the gerbil escaped. For the next six mon...
Posted by ~Elita on Mon, 08 Jan 2007 09:58:00 PST