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you're basically retarted

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About Me

"you see, even when you're washed up, you're still on the shore...waiting there for a soul searching for the shell of a natural beauty, one to be safely and carefully brought home and admired for all it's imperfections and the reflections of years of hitting the bottom, rising up to the surface, and eventually finding it's way to where it belongs...."me :) :)

My Interests

Friends, lots of them, meeting awesome grounded people who love life and don't take a single day for granted! My babies...and my sisters, my very best friends.

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I'd like to meet:

someone honest, down to earth, grounded, driven, hilarious, compassionate, ridiculously good looking and humble, oh wait, that's you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.......So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're the sweetest and most amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.Men are like grapes..if you're still reading this, i'll give you the punch line.

Music:

meditate to bamboo flutes, rock out to dmb, 80's, classic rock, the blues, electronica, madonna, genesis, michael j, jack johnson, moody blues, carly simon, ice t, vanilla ice, haha, duran duran, the fray, etta james, country & bluegrass, metallica and vixen, the cure the outfield, elvis and greenday, go to sleep to some smoooooth jazz or sounds of nature, maybe some r n b, some artsy fartzy new age stuff, or tibetan mantras...good good stuff.

Movies:

THE SECRET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! amazing, rent it, steal it, buy it, just watch it!!!!Pretty much anything funny but heres a few... Shawshank Redemption, Dead Man Walking, So I Married an Axe Murderer, Top Gun, Gone with the Wind, Old Yeller, What About Bob, Casablanca, Goonies, The Princess Bride, Swingers, Dumb & Dumber, the X-Men, Matrix, Lord of The Rings, Meet the Parents, THe Shining (ya right, as long as there is a blanket wrapped around my face), The Usual Suspects, Something About Mary, Happy Gilmore, Office Space, Swingers, Tommy Boy, 40 yr old virgin, talladega nights, THE SECRET!!!!! watch it, just awesome@@@@@@ Rattatoie, E.T. 16 candles, the breakfast club, bourne identity, wicker park, crash,

Television:

Extreme Home Make Over, Grey's Anatomy, Who's line is it Anyway, Monster Garage, Rescue Me, History and Discovery Channel, i m iss seinfeld and ally mcbeal,

Books:

The Bible, anything Faulkner, East of Eden, 1984, Old Man and the Sea, Captivating, Being a Great Mom & Raising Great Kids, Catcher in the Rye, Brave New World, The Great Gatsby, A Separate Peace, Hemingway, C.S. Lewis "My Utmost for his Highest", Real Boys. Being a great mom and raising great kids....

Heroes:

Jesse....www.liferollson.org.......... Did you ever know that you're my hero? Heroes..everyday people, the one's that open the door for old people, smile at others just because, those who fight for freedom we all take for granted, the guys who let me out of the parking lot for free yesterday, my mother for sticking it out, my dad for finally being a man, my sister who is the love of my life, my children, who will someday be taking care of this shell of a woman who might not beable to herself.............and of course,

My Blog

**new column....need your feedback

you know I have been praying for the day when my heart wouldn't want what it wants...when my mind would take over and i could see myself as so many others do, yes,  i can do anything.  i ass...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Wed, 08 Aug 2007 06:13:00 PST

if you write it, they will read......

ok, so, i only post a few of the comments i get on my blogs, mostly because people write to me personally, "thanking me for sharing", or as they say, for my "braveness, weakness, patheticnes...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Mon, 23 Jul 2007 04:40:00 PST

oh to be washed up and beautiful too...

continued ..>..>..>..> ..> yes...Starbucks.. oh yes....oh yes...oh yes..... so, in the midst of my totally broken hearted , bottom of the barrell sadness and overall feeling of wanting to t...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Wed, 27 Jun 2007 04:48:00 PST

thank God for Starbucks!

ohhhhhh how i love starbucks.... 36, successful, republican, smart, good family, surfs,  g-o-r-g-e-o-u-s..... isn't that a venti???? update....hes a friend, the best kind of friend. one i'm total...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Sat, 09 Jun 2007 05:34:00 PST

part Deux, breaking up...the perfect day...

Ahhh, the perfect day   &..I love the smell of rain in the summertime,  inside is a new tune someone turned me onto&lying in bed on a lazy Saturday, crisp sheets and the ...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Sun, 11 Dec 2005 12:51:00 PST

Carole King.....wrote a little song about it...wanna hear it??? here it goes...

Ok, so I'm aging myself a bit but who the heck cares?  If you don't have the album, it's Carol King Tapestry As a little girl, I remember watching in awe as my mother cleaned the house, in her o...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Mon, 24 Jul 2006 10:37:00 PST

To me from my daughter...Mad-Dog...

I love you mom. you are the best mom ever.you are nice.you are funny.you have lots of friends.you are thoughful.you are spcial.you are helpful.you are fun to play with.you think of funny things like y...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Wed, 11 Jan 2006 12:41:00 PST

Loose Lipped ladies at christmas parties and On or off the market????

 I know that I've uttered these words myself hundreds of times....(shame on me) "Ya, I think he's back on the market!" WHAT THE HECK IS THAT?????? Are we on display??? Is he a peice of ...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Sat, 31 Dec 2005 04:01:00 PST

Thomas Merton, My Faith, My kids, My pics, MY MY MY

Thanks Matt! Merton is a fave of mine.. I have to premise this quote by saying first..yes, I have a lot of pics on my space that reveal the fun side of my life. The dressed up (or lack of dr...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Wed, 07 Dec 2005 10:28:00 PST

The awakening......

A time comes in your life when you finally get it... When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Eno...
Posted by you're basically retarted on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST