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Lady J*

Be the change you want to see in the world. Mahatma Gandhi

About Me


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Get Your Own! | View SlideshowI'm not too short, not too tall. I'm far from skinny, but not really fat. I'm grounded and well-rounded. I'm introspective and intuitive. I'm open and accepting of much, but not all. I tend not to initiate judgement or insult. I can have a decent conversation with anyone. I love laughing, creating, learning and thinking, but I like sleeping far more. I have lots of goals and I'm not too far from reaching them. I get along with just about everybody. I don't think I'm deep, but others think I am. I'm not really a people person, but people always like me. I'm just me.....and I'm cool with that. Take the quiz:
Which Egyptian God or Goddess do you represent? (Pictures!)

Ma'at, Goddess of Order, Harmony, and Truth
Ma'at was the goddess of physical and moral law in Egypt, of order and truth. She was not much of a goddess, but more of a concept. She was what was right; she was the way things should be.
You lead a very well-ordered life. You are just and keep things in balance. You know just how to react to things, and people like you for that.

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THE BASICS
name: J*
zodiac sign: Aries
location: PGC
hometown: New Carrollton, MD
siblings: 1 big sis
both parents alive: Yes, thankfully!
WHAT WORD COMES TO MIND
the president: Crazy!
money: Saving
sex: When?
nextel: Chirping :(
new york: Clothes!!!
ex: Hurt
WHICH ONE DO YOU RATHER
paris or greece: Paris
new york or florida: NYC
nextel or tmobile: T-Mobile
love or sex: LOVE!
wealth or health: Both, but if I MUST choose....HEALTH
music or tv: Music
FRIENDS
loudest: Jane
most daring: Medina
funniest: Larry/Andrea
hot tempered: Derek/Jane
sweetest: Dana/Aba/Jenara
talkative: Jymece
MUSIC
nas or jay z: Jigga
chris brown or omarion: Neither
loud or soft: Soft
reggae or hip pop: Hip-Hop
dipset or dblock: Neither
juelz or cam: Neither
LOVE
do you hate your ex: Hate is such a harsh word.....No.
do you wish your ex well: Yes
are you in love: I'm getting there
marriage: No thanks!
best quote on love: Wear your loved ones like a loose garment.
perfect couple: Adam and Eve
DO YOU..
own a nextel: Never!
pick fights: No
have an obsession: Food, clothes, shelter and handbags!
have enemies: I hope not!
like school: The social aspect
believe in karma: Absolutely!
ARE YOU..
scared to fight: For what?
honest: Yes, when appropriate.
hated: By whom?
reliable: Yes.
hot tempered: I can be.
dedicated: To what?
YOUR
role model: My mommy and Oprah
best friend: God!
biggest pet peeve: People who lie!
biggest drive: Being a good example to others.
ride or die friend: Andrea
favorite musician: India Arie, Beyonce and Maxwell...I can't choose!
FINISHING UP, do you..
have pride: Yep!
hang up on people: Only when necessary.
sing: I love to!
believe in yourself: If don't, who will?
have a motto: "Be the change you want to see in the world." Mahatma Gandhi
like myspace: Yeah
LASTLY
who do you want to see take this survey: Whoever wants to.
who are you talking to: No one right now.
how much my space friends do you have: I don't count them. See for yourself.
was this survey good: It was cute.
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Bzoink - The Original Survey SiteLady J* loves: Singing, writing, learning, sunny days, cheesecake, reading, cute, funny, considerate and intelligent men with great smiles (Do they still make those?), Lancome Defincils in Noir, pink (the singer and the color-LOL!), my gurls 4 life, Andrea and Cocoa Caramel, shopping, honesty, Oprah, my best friend, TiVo (who thought of that!? It's great!!!), realists, my baby (I can't wait to meet you!), optimists, Ms. Pac-Man, being head over heels in love, apple pie (OMG! Have you had the apple pie at the Silver Diner!? AHHHHH!!!), MySpace, being barefoot, my sister's 7-up cake (OMG!), romantic comedies (How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is one of the BEST!), Shemar Moore, Chipotle, good conversation, my eyebrows (Thanks, Rukiye! You're the bizzomb!), designer handbags and shoes, shopping for designer handbags and shoes, Scrabble (I'm the champ!), Juicy Couture, Boris Kodjoe, Carol's Daughter, my family, puppies, Kevin Aucoin (R.I.P.), smart people, feeling happy (who knew that was a luxury?), video games, Dannon fat-free vanilla yogurt (60 calories of heaven---I could climb into the cup!), Make-up Art Cosmetics, making people happy, the kids in my storytelling group (they're the cutest EVER!), The Cheesecake Factory, living, Wheel of Fortune and Lingo (I know...I'm a nerd.), Whitehouse Natural Apple Juice (YUM! I could swim in it!), playing, the results of exercising, feeling pretty, and LAUGHING!!!!Lady J* hates: LIARS, people who lack ambition and motivation, complainers, sci-fi, inequality, cloudy days, humidity, bad hair days, sleazy men, awkward silences, heartbreak, selfishness, hood rats, school, work, raisins, cranberry juice, clubs/bars/lounges---the whole dating scene is all too ridiculous, bad news, people, taking medicine, feeling lonely, BAMMAS, arachnids, insects, reptiles---anything that creeps, crawls or slithers (would men fit into that category as well??? Hmmmm....), washing dishes, when people over-tweeze their brows (I used to be one of those people before I knew better, but it was cool when I did it. LOL!), public speaking, nasty and irresponsible people, when people cough or sneeze in public without covering their mouths, getting sick (probably because someone coughed or sneezed in public without covering their mouth), bad dental predicaments (excessives spaces, crowding, plaque, tartar, fillings, discoloration, decay---you catch what I'm throwin'), crying, seeing other people cry, people without empathy, people with inappropriate cell phone etiquette, NEXTEL and those stupid chirping phones that allow everyone to hear your whole conversation---RIDICULOUS!, internet dating (what the hell? c'mon now...), exercising, arguing, 9 to 5s.

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My Interests

Music, cooking, reading, fitness, laughing, learning, eating, meditating, smiling, praying, living.

I'd like to meet:

Oprah, Robin Smith, Ph.D., En Vogue, Beyonce, my grandparents, Michael Jackson, Clive Davis, Russell Simmons, Suze Orman, Sylvia Rhone, Matthew McConaughey (Will you marry me? PLEASE!?), Mr. or Dr. Right (LOL!), My Mattie Cake (I'll see you soon, Loopah!), and other fabulous folk!!!

Music:

I can appreciate a little bit of everything! But I love R&B and Alternative the most. I have many, but my most favoritest artists are: Her Majesty, Diana Ross, the first lady of R&B, Faith Evans, Queen Whitney Houston (she gon' be aiight!), India.Arie, the Prophetic (the new CD is so HOT), the self-proclaimed god of hip-hop, J-Hova and his boo, The Bootylicious One, Miss Beyonce Knowles (the new CD is OOC! It's the BOMB work-out soundtrack!!!), the original funky divas, En Vogue, Sir Maxwell The Alluring (Muah), I'm not going to play with these ladies' names: Regina Belle. Chaka Khan. Oleta Adams. Anita Baker. Aretha Franklin. Lisa Fischer. Lisa Stansfield. (The periods are intentional. The ladies are so sick with it!) The Queen Bee, Li'l Kim, Mz. Undastood at times, but definitely not a stupid girl, P!nk, Miss Keys, and last but DEFINITELY NOT LEAST, My Ladies of the opera---Denyce Graves, Leontyne Price, Audra McDonald, and Kathleen Battle--they are RIDICULOUS!!! Oh, and y'all might not know about them, but all of my homegirls got talent, Andrea, Cocoa Caramel, Miss Jymece, E. Darley, Big D., and L.C. I've learned a lot from all of y'all!

Movies:

My all time favorite movies are: Waiting to Exhale, Annie, The Sound of Music, The Skeleton Key, Seven, Final Destination (the first one), Coming to America, The Wedding Planner, and How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days.

Television:

My favorite TV Shows are: Sex and the City, Trading Spaces, Law and Order SVU, Judge Mathis, Charm School (I hate to admit that one, but I love it!), Will and Grace, Girlfriends, The Oprah Winfrey Show, Run's House, Celebrity Fit Club, anything on the National Geographic channel, The Tyra Banks Show, American Idol (I actually auditioned...it was SOOOO crazy!), and Dateline.

Books:

My all-time faves are: The Dollhouse Murders (I don't know the author. It's a kiddie book, but it was GOOD!), The Coldest Winter Ever by Sistah Souljah, The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, The Color Purple by Alice Walker, Color Complex by Kathy E. Russell, et. al, and Jemima J. by Jane Green.Right now, I'm reading three books. (I know....I'm a nerd.) They are: The Truth About Great Marriages by Robin Smith, What I Know Now: Letters to My Younger Self (a compilation by various authors), and American Apartheid: Segregation and the Making of the Underclass by Doug Massey and Nancy Denton. They are ALL GREAT READS! I highly recommend them all.

Heroes:

My heroes are: my mother (She's the best ever! Who else's shoulder can I cry on without having to worry that they'd tell everybody and their momma the next day? When I have my baby, I hope I can offer him half as much. She loves me the most!), Oprah, Diana Ross (she's the ultimate diva), and DON'T LAUGH--Beyonce is my girl!

My Blog

I Wasn’t Tagged At All

YOU'VE BEEN TAGGED! Once you've been tagged, you have to create a blog with at least seven weird or interesting facts or habits about yourself. After the last fact or habit, choose seven people to ta...
Posted by Lady J* on Fri, 26 Oct 2007 11:34:00 PST

He Chose Me!!!

For years, I spent countless hours trying to figure out the concept of love and why things weren't moving in the direction that I had desired.  Having the expectation that others will reciprocate...
Posted by Lady J* on Wed, 24 Oct 2007 02:13:00 PST

Can't Nobody....

There's a song they sing at my church called "Can't Nobody Steal My Joy."  I love that song so much because as you go through life, people will try you time and time again---challenging your pati...
Posted by Lady J* on Fri, 20 Oct 2006 10:11:00 PST

What I Know 4 Sure

This year, I've had tons of revelations---more than ever, I believe, or perhaps, I simply paid more attention to what was happening to me and around me this go 'round.  At any rate, I h...
Posted by Lady J* on Mon, 28 Aug 2006 07:19:00 PST

We've All Seen Them.....

Scantly clad, hair weaved down to there, eyes colored any color but what God gave them, and absolutely nothing about them natural, but yet and still it seems they are considered most desirable of all....
Posted by Lady J* on Thu, 17 Aug 2006 08:55:00 PST

Me Time

There are so many things to balance in life that at times it's difficult to find time to really focus on oneself.  A few months back, I found that I had been quite consumed wi...
Posted by Lady J* on Thu, 10 Aug 2006 09:03:00 PST

I'm 28 Now, Ya'll!!!

Today is my 28th birthday, and I just have one question......WHY AM I STILL GETTING CARDED!?  I went to the liquor store today to get some wine, and the clerk asked for my ID.  A thousand c...
Posted by Lady J* on Wed, 12 Apr 2006 05:52:00 PST