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CandidPurple

I'm no model lady. ........A model's just an imitation of the real thing.......

About Me

"The biggest danger for most of us in life is not that our aim is too high and we miss it; it's our aim is too low and we achieve it."- Michelangelo
Just Another Girlz Night Out 8-19-06
I am a 40 year old Italian woman with a hell of a personality. I have my Masters Degree in Marriage and family therapy and I am currently working as a Hairdresser in Santa Monica. I love being able to to both, when I can, It DOESNT get dull. I LOVE dancing, partying, painting, anything creative really, and being with a man that is respectful to women. I am originally from Brooklyn New York, but I am now for 20 years in California, couldn't take the winters back there, but I love it and would be there if I could. Now Im addicted to the weather here but that was before global warming lol!!! Oh yeah I forgot according to our government there is no such thing as global warming.. Being from NY I have quite a sense of humor and everyone thinks Im a big smartass... Why not it makes life more fun that way. I am loyal and devoted to those I love, but if your on my bad side please stay clear I dont like or need the negative energy... lol...I like to have fun, and I HATE DRAMA/STRESS.. Especially drama your pulled into that you had nothing to do with. I dont play games and I only have people in my life that do the same. Game playing and lying are two of the worst traits anyone could have!! So if your a player please keep going Im not interested!!! I love to spoil my man and make him feel like hes the only one in the world because to me he is. I am affectionate and when I love I love with my whole heart, but I am very independent and sometimes that it is a problem for men. I am very blunt and I LOVE purple, hence the name candidpurple.. I know very clever!! Needless to say I am not shy so please feel free to leave a message! I really enjoy music and art. Artists encouraged to send messages especially if you dont fit the stereotype of an artist. I love to be around people that love life to the fullest and try to make any situation the best it can be. I try to surround myself with things and people that are positive. I am very honest so if you dont want an honest answer dont ask me any questions... I will disappoint you with my honesty... I dont believe anyone should be told what they want to hear. I am open minded and love to learn new things whenever I can. I love to have meaningful conversations about anything and everything. So if you think you can stimulate my mind please send a message!!!"You have 24 hours to feel sorry for yourself then pick yourself up and move on" ~ Liz Pallone
"I Think that somehow we learn who we really are and then live with that decision"~Eleanor Roosevelt

My Interests

I love dancing, dancing ,dancing. I used to go clubbing every night so that is getting old, but I still love to go out occasionally. But when I do I Party my ass of so try to keep up with me... not many can, but those who do never forget it.. lol..I cherish my time with my friends, they have gotten me thru some really difficult times that I might not otherwise have gotten thru. I love to go outdoors and explore so hiking is one of my favorite things to do. I love to have fun and try to do things I have never done before that are exciting. One of my favorite things is music. I love all different kinds, but it is a big part of my life. Music helps me relate to life..hehe.. I love to oil paint and draw when I can. I havent been doing much lately, but when I have time it I dive into it. Creativity is a huge part of me and without it I feel dead!! I really like anything artistic and creative. I am a sex therapist so I love to learn about different aspects of Sexuality. I also really like to do research . I know its strange but I love to dig deep into my interests. I love hiking, riding bikes, and I absolutely LOVE the Ocean. I am at peace when I am there and I am not at peace often. I would love to move closer to the water and thats my plan for this year!! There is something about the water that is just plain soothing and oh so beautiful. I love romantic dates on the beach I happen to think thats the best place for dates. I love the sun and yes I know how bad it is for you, but nonetheless I love it. Doing things outdoors is usually my preference, but I can be just as happy staying home watching a movie or making sweet love!! I am very comfortable with my sexuality so its important that those around me are too!! I enjoy being around those that add to my life and learning how and why people think the way they do.
"The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly." - Buddha

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined." - Henry David Thoreau

I'd like to meet:

"Dream as if you'll live forever... Live as if you'll die today." ~~James DeanSomeone who is for real, no bullshit, no lies, just be honest no matter how it might work. Someone who can love me and to live life to the fullest. All I ask is that you can be honest and respectful. Someone who can spend time with me, but he has to have his own life too..... I really want someone thats there for me, as I would be for him. Unconditional love and mutual respect a must for any relationship to work! I would love to meet someone who has principles, intergrity, and dignity. Someone who stands by what they believe in and dont try to impress me by agreeing with me all the time. I really value men that are upfront and willing to really listening while having a conversation. There is nothing worse than someone who doesnt pay attention and isnt actively participating in a conversation. I dont have a type per say I like all different kinds of men. A serious weakness I have is for men that have a brain and good looks..lol. So if you are him..Please feel free to get ahold of me!! I absolutely love men that stand for something.. I dont care what it might be but have some thoughts and feelings of your own. Intrigue me and you will peak my interest..BTW if your just trying to get in my pants...keep going Im not interested!! OH and if you want me to add you as a friend please be so kind as to send me a message first so I know who Im adding..I actually talk to the people on my friends list :) I know amazing LOL..
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Music:


CREED, Journey, Led Zeppelin, Stone Temple Pilots, Evanescence, RUSH, Ozzy, Melissa Etheridge, Kelly Clarkson, The Stones, Areosmith, Bon Jovi, PINK, Mr. Big, Def Leppard, Lita Ford, Sade', Green Day, Hinder, Rob Thomas, Dave Matthews, NICKELBACK of course, Cold Play, Skid Row, Pink Floyd, James Blunt, Ratt, Queensryche, Metallica, BOC, Boston, Quiet Riot, Pearl Jam, Lenny Kravitz, Motley Crue, Tommy Lee, Supernova, Blue October, Soundgarden, Disco yes I said Disco, Divinyls, Pat Benetar, Queen, Blink182, Allman Brothers, Pink, Shania Twain, KISS, Lifehouse, Goo Goo Dolls, Bad Company, Jimmy Paige, Tesla, Robert Plant, Black Crowes, Whitesnake, Patsy Cline, Cher, Alanis Morisette, Van Halen, and Of course.. White Squall.. theres so many I could be forever!!

Heroes:

11-15-05 My Mother Liz...Mom I miss you more and more everyday.. there isnt one moment that goes by that I dont think of you!! You were the best mom for me and I thank you for everything.. I love you Mom... your loving daughter Melissa Ann....

My Blog

I can only hope to be half the woman you were...

Mama.. On the 15th of November it will be a year since my mom passed away.. it seems like just yesterday.  If anyone knows what it feels like for a daughter to lose her mother before th...
Posted by CandidPurple on Fri, 10 Nov 2006 07:07:00 PST

Why Older Chicks Rule!!!

  By Andy Rooney....I love this!!!! hahahahhahahha!! So True!!   A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?"  She doesn't care w...
Posted by CandidPurple on Thu, 28 Sep 2006 07:09:00 PST

You should read this before emailing me....or you might just be posted

If you send an email saying anyone of the following moronic lines you will not get a response.....(keep checking I will add them as I get them...) 1. "You are sooooo HOT" 2. "OMG your such a MILF"~~M...
Posted by CandidPurple on Wed, 16 Aug 2006 05:54:00 PST

There seems to be a trend.......

There seems to be a trend with the voices in this space... They live in fear inside of here making themselves whoever they want to be.... They don't think we hold back ti...
Posted by CandidPurple on Sat, 04 Mar 2006 08:16:00 PST

Can anyone explain to me why???

Explain to me why....you cannot trust anything anyone says no matter how convincing they are....... Explain to me why....People always tell you what you want to hear instead of the truth............ E...
Posted by CandidPurple on Wed, 22 Feb 2006 06:14:00 PST