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Hard69Rock

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About Me

Just your average hard working, struggling rock musician, former strip club DJ. I am unhappily divorced. I miss my wife and still love her because of some unresolved issues between us, which causes me more problems with her now than I had when I was married to her. I deal every day with the fact my wife left me and the person she left me for. Some days are easier than others. I have never stalked or threatened her despite claims to the contrary. I do not live in any fantasy world where she realizes her mistake and comes back to me. But it does make new relationships interesting, so at least I'm not bored.
I have two kids that live with their mother in Indiana and I never get to see anymore. I regret never having been given the chance to be in their lives and that they grew up with no father figure in their lives.
I have two other kids I inherited when I got married. I did get to see them grow up and they are an important part of my life. I have a beautiful granddaughter that I went from seeing daily and taking care of to not seeing her at all, which sucks big time. I have a goddaughter I stay with and she has four girls that are truly a source of joy.
I sing and play bass, I've been looking for a band to join or form but no one seems to want to do the same kind of music I do. I also guess I have a problem with the rampant lack of professionalism in bands I have seen around here. There are exceptions but by and large I am tired of seeing bands play thirty year old songs badly. Playing the same songs they played twenty years ago and still screwing them up. And the compulsion some people have to see how much they can drink or how much drugs they can do and still be able to find the stage. Can't tell you how many bands I've seen that sound great the first set and suck after that because one or more in the band are fucked up on something. Are you there to play or party? Having played over 500 shows in at least three different countries, I know what I am talking about when it comes to knowing the difference between being a garage band and a working band.
I have worked as a DJ, a cable guy, a satellite installer, a bouncer, a bartender, a dishwasher, a professional clown, a professional wrestler, a stay at home dad. I am a Gulf War veteran and served for 14 years in the United States Air Force. So being lazy isn't in my nature. I am highly skilled with most anything electronic and/or mechanical. I love to work with my hands and have won awards for some of the model space ships I have built.
I drink sometimes but don't smoke cigarettes or do drugs. I have no problems with people who do, unless it affects me.
I collect tattoos ( I have 13 so far ) and again, have no problems with people who don't.
I've been in a music video for the American Plague. I've been on Jerry Springer.
I like Science fiction especially Start Trek and have two Klingon tattoos to prove it.
I am too forgiving many times and too trusting all the time. I'd rather get screwed over once and again than to never trust anyone. I am and always will be me. The product of a good upbringing and a PhD from Sidewalk University.


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My Interests

Good live bands, motorcycles, internet porn, playing music, hanging out in strip clubs, being with friends, singing karaoke, spending time with my family. But not necessarily in that order.

I'd like to meet:

The person I used to be, but I am a dynamic so I am always adapting to the events that help shape who I am.
Someone to share my life with would be nice. As long as they understand I have no intentions of abandoning my friends and family, again, for someone that isn't in it for the long haul.
Friends and other musicians.
New members for a band project.

Music:

Rock and Roll is like sex, if the neighbors can't hear it- why bother?

A good song touches you in some manner. It elicits an emotional response that brings out the raw feelings. It reminds us of our situation, or how we used to be or want to be again. It evokes strong feelings in everyone that hears it. And by the way. A hand grenade is loud, but that doesn't mean I want to hear it.Which Battlestar Galactica Character Are You?

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Movies:

All the X-Men movies. SciFi in general. V For Vendetta was great. I am Legend was an interesting remake of The Omega Man

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Television:

HEROES is AWESOME!! Star Trek, Enterprise RULED. That 70's Show. Star Gate SG1. Battlestar Galactica (the new one). The new Bionic Woman.

Books:

The Bible. The Chronicles of Thomas Covenant. Dean Koontz. Batman the Dark Knight Series.

Heroes:

Jesus Christ. The brave men and women of our military, who put everyone else ahead of themselves so we can do stupid shit like surf the web.

My Blog

Bike Week Part II

Well it was an interesting week to say the least.Found out that the club I was going to work at replaced their manager a day or two before we went down. Tried to get on there anyway as I had made the ...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Tue, 20 May 2008 01:42:00 PST

Myrtle Beach and Mini Madonna

Well, if everything goes well I will be headed to Myrtle Beach early Friday morning for Bike Week. I have to call to confirm where I will be working while I am there and then I have to do a security t...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Wed, 07 May 2008 10:38:00 PST

The Coolest Thing

You know, not a lot lately has made me happy. I've had more than my share of shit and today the coolest thing happened.Tabby filled out one of those annoying surveys. In it it asks one word answers li...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Thu, 01 May 2008 10:45:00 PST

What Purpose

I used to know what purpose I served. I used to know why I woke up every day and I what I needed to be doing with myself and my life. Now I don't. The reason for living, the reason for getting out of ...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Wed, 30 Apr 2008 11:26:00 PST

A funny thing happened on the way to my life...

Look, I can appreciate that you have decided to stand with a longtime friend, I applaud that and would expect nothing less. I cannot, however, understand why you have chosen to invest in the lies and ...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Mon, 28 Apr 2008 03:27:00 PST

Life is Beautiful

You can't quit until you try You can't live until you die You can't learn to tell the truth Until you learn to lie You can't breathe until you choke You gotta laugh when you're the joke There's nothi...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Sun, 27 Apr 2008 11:53:00 PST

I DARE YOU

Seems that my life is so easy and simple that I get all kinds of advice on how to live it. I get told what to think, how to act, how to react. I get told who to have in it and who not.So here's the de...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:32:00 PST

RE: Worst Present Ever

So maybe I did think it was about me, Hell she has lied to me about most everything since she walked out on our marriage. I removed my blog. Not because Maria got mad or because it was about Danny Lee...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 02:33:00 PST

Sorry

I'm sorry you think my friends and family are scum and whores. I'm sorry you feel like you are lowering yourself just to be with me. I'm sorry you go out of your way to start shit with my friends and ...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 11:56:00 PST

So how was YOUR day?

Well, I went out last night cause Chelle wanted to go check out a place an old friend of hers had opened. It was a cool little place and they had karaoke there and the KJ recognized me from Prince's D...
Posted by Hard69Rock on Sun, 20 Apr 2008 12:38:00 PST