"Another way that you love your enemy is this:
When the opportunity presents itself for you to defeat your enemy, that is the time which you must not do it.
There will come a time, in many instances, when the person who hates you most, the person who has misused you most, the person who has gossiped about you most, the person who has spread false rumors about you most, there will come a time when you will have an opportunity to defeat that person.
It might be in terms of a recommendation for a job; it might be in terms of helping that person
to make some move in life. That's the time you must do it. That is the meaning of love. In the final analysis,
love is not this sentimental something that we talk about. It's not merely an emotional something.
Love is creative, understanding goodwill for all men. It is the refusal to defeat any individual. When you rise to the level of love, of its great beauty and power, you seek only to defeat evil systems. Individuals who happen to be caught up in that system, you love, but you seek to defeat the system." - Martin Luther King Jr."Not until we are crushed do we show what we are made of." ~Bohumi HrabalThe deep parts of my life pour onward
As if the river shores were opening out.
It seems that things are more like me now
That I can see farther into paintings.
I feel closer to what language can’t reach.
With my senses, as with the birds I climb
Into the windy heaven, out of the oak
And in the ponds broken off from the sky
My feeling sinks, as if standing on fishes.Moving Forward, Ranier Maria Rilke (1902)
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**If you want to request my friendship, please write a quick note stating why.** I don't want a free iPod, and I don't need your self-help, make-money-at-home crap. Please don't try to sell me ANTHING. Thank you :)I don't want to meet anyone who's not a benefit to society in some way. I don't wanna meet anyone that claims empathy, but knows nothing of it in day to day life.I don't wanna meet the irresponsible, the unhumble, or Litter Bugs. I don't wanna meet anyone who tries to be like everyone else....Or who tries too hard NOT to be.I DO wanna meet: Artists. People with true humility. People with open minds and hearts, with their own thoughts, and something to say worth saying. Ventriloquists, writers, photographers. People who don't judge me. People who treat each other with respect. People who help to change the world for the better. Mothers in Las Vegas who feel like they don't quite fit in (!). Natural childbirth enthusiasts. People who try to make the world a little more interesting by leaving their mark on it. People who make me question what I believe, or don't, but not by shoving their beliefs down my throat :)
Silversun Pickups, Devendra Banhart, Ani Difranco, Andrew Bird, Ben Lee, The Black Keys, BRMC, Cat Power, Regina Spektor, The Be Good Tanyas, Lucinda Williams, Wilco, Magnolia Electric Co., White Stripes, Foo Fighters, Flaming Lips, The Earlies, The Raconteurs, Tegan and Sara, Cowboy Junkies, PJ Harvey, Death Cab For Cutie, Distillers, Talib Kweli, Mos Def, Sage Francis, Los Super 7, Rjd2, Beck, Bjork, Bob Dylan, The Beatles, We the People (my Dad's 60's band - they have a couple CDs on Sundazed Records), John Coltrane, Miles Davis, Ella Fitzgerald, Louis Armstrong, Billie Holiday, Ruth Brown, Liz Phair, Phoenix, Elliot Smith, Ray LaMontagne, Aimee Mann, Old 97s, Willie Nelson, Sinead O'Connor, Jesse Sykes and the Sweet Hereafter, X Ray Spex, Sigur Ros, Radiohead, Bonnie Raitt, John Lee Hooker, Muddy Waters, Junior Brown, Nick Drake, Buckethead, Billie Bragg, Fat Boy Slim, The Veils, The Shins, Sorta, Calhoun, etc., etc., etc....
Marie Antoinette, Stranger Than Fiction, The Science of Sleep, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Jacket, You, Me and Everyone We Know, Like Water for Chocolate, Adaptation, 3-Iron, House of Flying Daggers, Shopgirl, Grizzly Man, Life Is Beautiful, Broken Flowers, Elizabethtown, Amelie, Before Sunrise AND Before Sunset, Do the Right Thing, The Good Girl, Buffalo '66, Edward Scissorhands, Chocolat, Girl Fight, Brokeback Mountain, Kill Bill Vol. 1 &2, Click,The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Braveheart, Peter Pan, The Good Girl, Punch Drunk Love, Buena Vista Social Club, Walk the Line, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, The Bridges of Madison County, Henry and June, Supersize Me, The Professional, Zathura, The Goonies, Garden State....
"TV is like taking black spray paint to your third eye." ~Bill HicksUnknown Artist
Timequake and Slaughterhouse Five by Kurt Vonnegut, The Missing Piece and The Missing Piece Meets the Big O by Shel Silverstein, The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery, A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway, The Heart Is a Lonely Hunter and Reflections In a Golden Eye by Carson McCullers, Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson, The Hottest State by Ethan Hawke, The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver, A Natural History of the Senses by Diane Ackerman, and yes, a few more...
Unknown photographerEthan, my mom, Jo Jo, and our snake, Diablo (we don't have Diablo any more...) Photo by Aaron RaederMy sister, Mycha, about 8 or 9 years ago...My Beautiful Mom, Jo Jo (Unknown photographer)(Unknown photographer)My Dad, Wayne Proctor, of the 60s bands We the People, The Trademarks, and The Kolor Korporation (second guy from the left)