Viktor

all relationship are put to the fire. there is no such thing as a constantly happy couple. there is no such thing as a constantly Happy relationship all of us, at one point in our affairs will have to go through a cleansing process which,hopefully,will make us better persons. let us always remember that our relationship are put to the test to make stronger and better persons out of us. second to love, the next most important ingredient of a successful relationship is communication. many would agree that there are certain things in a relationship that are better kept unsaid.but i don't believe in that. the moment we lie about our feelings or the wrong that we have done, we begin to build a wall of bricks around ourselves. everytime we hide something out of fear, we add a brick to that wall. soon we will be total strangers to the very people we vowed to be with the rest of our lives. we will start to hurt inside until we can no longer bear the pain. until we regretfully give up the very relationship that we wanted to keep communication is the lifeblood of any relationship.if we cannot bravely express our innermost fears,doubts,and insecurities to the people we love then our ties are doomed to fail sooner or later. i would rather be hurt by a person who is honest than be hurt in by someone who betrayed my trust. many couple suffer in silence because they are afraid that opening up would just make things worst. they keep their feelings to themselves until their affection towards each other diminishes to the point when separation becomes inevitable. so,what really matter most?think it over...