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this ain't a scene, it's a goddamn arms race...

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okay so a little about me...my name is eric (pronounced: air-ik for all you lads who were suckled on the teet of "hooked on phonics" as children) i'm 27 years old and gay, and that's about as concrete as it gets, everything else is pretty much like an episode of this old house gone gay and wild. i'm constantly looking over my shoulder to make sure that bob villa isn't offering a narrative of my life..."as you can see here, eric's woken up next to someone who's name he can't quite remember. this is a sticky situation for anyone to be in, but luckily we have just the tool to get this job finished in no time flat...") it would be a cop out for me to say that my sexuality and my struggle with it is what lead to the complexity, almost craziness of my life, but that's not the reality of things. the reality is this, life is crazy on it's own accord, just look at how it all began. if you believe in the big bang theory then the universe was in a state of chaos; gases, funky matter, nancy pelosi's head and frozen particles of mass spinning until, well, they collided and BANG! the creation of what would later evolve into life. hell, even if you are religious, that's a pretty big one to take, even if you have all the lube in the world. to think that there is someone up in the sky that created life with the snap of his fingers, the blink of an eye, or maybe even a twitching of his nose is a bit freaky (and not the good kind of freaky) so it's no wonder that my life is hectic, that's the nature of all life. people who seem to have it easy or seem in control of their existence honestly spook the fuck out of me because it's not possible unless you strip your life down to the bare essentials, eat, sleep, drink, shit...yeah that would be easy to control, unless you get constipated or something, but even then you could just eat more fiber or take a laxative.... okay so now i'm staying from the point, which is me and my life. i went to college and majored in political science with an emphasis on communication studies, which is a dangerous combo. i wanted to be one of those people that you see on the sunday morning talk-shows spinning shit into gold, turning disasters into triumphs being the brains for any given politico who could afford me. it boils down to manipulation...i got my b.a. in manipulation...awwwwwwwwwwwe...does wonders for your karma let me tell you. that's a bit cynical i guess, after all the main reason i wanted to get into politics was to get people involved in government, to get them to give a shit about who we put in office, to fucking vote!!! if there is one thing that gets my goat (other than the little mexican lady who lives up the street who wants to use it to mass produce goat cheese and varrious other goat by products in order to feed her sick addiction of buying john tesh cd's hand over fist) is people who are indifferent about the state of the world around them. 25 MILLION citizens of iraq RISKED BEING BLOWN UP AND SHOT AT SO THEY COULD VOTE and here in the u.s. there are those who sit their fat, kfc loving asses home on election day only to bitch about how they hate everything the government does. that's bullshit!!! i don't harbor much anger in my life, but that's the one thing that i just can't tolerate... staying again...damn i need to get my perscription of adheral filled. things rarely work out how they are planned, and for me that was the most unassuming blessing i had ever recieved. i often get caught up in the logistics of how things work...why we make the decisions we do...how we deal with those consequences...what we make of the surprises life hands us. and while it's important (at least for me) to understand these things, it's not all there is. i got tangled up in varring notions of what other people expected of me and no matter how noble those expections where, they weren't my own. i got to be 22 years old and hadn't done a single thing for myself. i tried to be the best at whatever i did for other people...because i wanted to make them proud...because i got off on the fact that i was doing things people admired...because i was weak. that's the beauty of existance though...realization. i couldn't see that i was weak until i got stronger. i couldn't see that i was living for others until i started living for myself. i couldn't see all my fuck ups until i made them right. so maybe i'm not rubbing elbows with tim russert and chris matthews...that's okay. i know that there's a purpose for me...one that involves more than just living to get by. i have so much passion for the things i love that i know if i'm true to myself, everything else will just fall into place...
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My Interests

writing, film, college football and basketball, soccer, tennis, hockey, shopping, bar hopping, clubbing, camping, fishing, hiking, theatre, extreemly open minded and willing to try anything once...

I'd like to meet:

edward albee - the most significant playwright in all of american history and one of the few people that i admire, his body of work is nothing less than stunning. he's a force of nature that ravages the human experience, exposing bare brick, frayed wires, cracked foundations, and never has destruction and devastation been more beautiful in my minds eye.

fiona apple - what can i say about someone who single handedly saved my emotional state of mind? she's bloody brilliant for starters...a fearless poet with an intense and vivid passion that transcends music. there was a point in my life when i honestly didn't know how i was going to get through another minute of existence, when i felt so betrayed by everything that i didn't care if i lived or died. my spirit is not easily broken, but when that final straw was flung on my back all the fundamental truths that i so meticulously molded my life on became meaningless. it was at that point, while listening to tidal and when the pawn over and over and over again i had the most profound moment of clarity. i was always taught to keep my hurt and anger and fear and insecurities locked away so no one would think i was weak, but when those things were all i was left with i was in danger of being consumed by them. in her music i saw a tragically flawed, terrified, insecure person who had been burned by the world but wasn't going to take it without fighting like hell to make sense of it all and somehow find a place to be fucking happy. and that's the best fucking gift anyone's given me...she made me want to rage against those things that took me down and just find a measure of happiness and peace that wasn't a false security but the real thing. when she sings about fucking up and being a fuck up i'm right there with her...and when she's singing about being happy, about realizing that she's not perfect but secure in her own skin, i know that one day, thanx to her, i'll be singing the same song...

paul thomas anderson - he's the reason i want to be a filmmaker. hard eight, boogie nights, magnolia and punch-drunk love are phenomenal, PHENOMENAL films. there are two types of people in this world...those who understood and loved magnolia and everyone else. 9 times out of 10, if you fall in the latter category we probably won't have much in common.

everyone else: andy roddick, mary matlin, james carville, julianne moore, tim burton, chris caraba, david letterman, quentin tarantino, dj tiesto, david sadris, tara reed, chris martin, nancy pelosi (so i can bitch slap her)

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My Blog

six degrees of contemplation (you have been tagged)

well thanks to mark, eh, i mean mason, no...that's not right....matt.  yes that's it...thanks to matt i have been tagged.  now i have to list sixrandom/strange facts about myself. here goes ...
Posted by eric on Thu, 18 May 2006 12:00:00 PST

the cheese eating surrender monkey's edifice complex vol.1: the end of the world as we know it

 in a world where nice guys finish last, where kindness is often mistaken for weakness, where well nuanced and thoughtful logic is overshadowed by screaming erratisisms, ideals like justice, huma...
Posted by eric on Fri, 13 Jan 2006 07:32:00 PST

things that freak me out (in the key of A minor)

*the fda allows up to three rodent hairs and six insect parts (i.e. legs, antenna, etc...) per jar of peanut butter. that's why i prefer crunchy  because if i'm chewing on a roach leg, i'd just l...
Posted by eric on Thu, 05 Jan 2006 01:35:00 PST

ho ho *BANG* HO!!!

     when i was 9 years old my grandmother took me and my little brother on vacation to every pre-pubescent child's holiest of holy lands, a place where it's founder's head can be ...
Posted by eric on Thu, 22 Dec 2005 04:04:00 PST

smoke and mirrors vol. 1 part one: the good (old) days

i've got this friend, lisa, who's probably the most perfect girl ive ever met in my entire life. so much so that i often find my self sexually, mentally, and spiritually attracted to her. Ive never ...
Posted by eric on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

"what's new pussycat? whoa-ooohoooh..."

i don't have anything against cats. i think they are great, i mean, catwoman was the best batman villian in all of the batman movies, jossie was a whore, but the pussycats were okay, and cat litter.....
Posted by eric on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

one fish, two fish; freud fish, blue fish

the thing that really throws me for a loop when it comes to understanding life is this: at any one given point, an idea, belief, value, conclusion, even an entire school of thought that wasn't applica...
Posted by eric on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

deconstruction junction, what's your function?

a friend of mine used to say, 'choose your battles, before they choose you.' she's a ragging alcoholic so i never really gave what she said much thought. however, the fact that something so profou...
Posted by eric on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST