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Suzy

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About Me


It's a sign of a good friendship if you can be in a room with someone and not HAVE to talk all the time, not because you have nothing to say, but because you don't have to say anything. I like comfortable silences.
I think too much...
Music, music, music. Listening, buying, watching, playing, you name it. It's my heart and soul. It's the one thing I couldn't survive without (apart from the Mr).
I'm very proud to be a part of:
with (musical genius and gorgeous hubby) Mark.
I made this music playlist at MyFlashFetish .com.
50 reasons - Summer Jets
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I used to play bass in a couple of bands 'Crashing Dream' and 'Melt', a veeeery long time ago (early 90's). It was lots of fun and we did the whole gigging thing around Beds, Cambs, Herts, London, offered a crappy record deal (turned it down), bar fights etc etc. Been there, done that. It was a great experience, but I don't miss playing live. Too much like hard work.
I still play bass sometimes, but I'm more into singing and playing guitar nowadays.
I am besoted with the DADGAD tuning. It's just so easy to write tunes with it, even for a numpty like me.
I'm totally addicted to chillies. Can't go more than 2 or 3 days without a decent hit of something spicy.
I am a vegetarian. NO - I don't eat fish - OK? It's what I am, not who I am. I'm really not interested in lengthy discussions about what I do and don't eat. I have no need or intention of justifying myself to anyone. I don't judge anyone for their own choices and I'm not on a mission to convert the world. I leave everyone alone, I just wish they'd do the same for me.
And yes - I do like monkeys.
I take a lot of photos of bands and other stuff. If I'm going to a gig I'll usually have my camera with me, unless it's a big venue and I can't get advance permission. I do this because I enjoy it, not for money, and the bands I photograph are free to use my images. All I ask is a credit on the pictures that are used.
I used to be a graphic designer, but when I got made redundant it made me take a look at things differently and now I do graphics for fun instead of money. I love doing stuff for friends, it's much more fun.
I sometimes make videos:
Lasermonkey - three
Kizilok - thy power has no might
Check out some of the stuff I made...

My Interests

Music is my first love, curry is my second. Oh yeah and my husband is alright too.
Apart from that I like wasting time, doing as little as humanly possible, listening to music, gigs, drunk scrabble and night time swingball.
I have no time for racists, bigots, arseholes, users and abusers. I have a VERY low tolerance for stupid people and intelligent people who act stupid in order to have an easy life.
I get annoyed at people who don't learn from their mistakes and go on making them over and over again.
I also get annoyed at people who run and hide from life and the shit that it throws at you. How you cope with the down side of life is what defines you as a person.

I'd like to meet:

People who:

    can't imagine life without music, who REALLY listen to music, go to lots of gigs and play instruments.
    understand what I'm on about when I say 'That needs to be further up in the mix.'
    assign flavours to sounds and see colours in music.
    get annoyed when rude bastards talk at gigs and bloody well tell them to shut the fuck up.
    aren't music snobs and will give anything a fair go before deciding, and are honest about their likes and dislikes.
    are honest, tell it like it is and don't bullshit you.
    aren't afraid to do something spontaneous if it looks like fun and don't take themselves too seriously.
    are friendly and funny with an evil, twisted and sick sense of humour.
    stay up late or live in different time-zones, she says typing this at 2.43am.
    understand that girls and boys can be friends without weirdness or complications. A friend is a friend is a friend, regardless.
    enjoy dropping perfectly innocent words that sound rude, like knob, into serious conversations, just to see if anyone notices.
    want to know me all the time, not just when they want something.

I am NOT impressed by 'celebrity'. I don't care who you are or what you do for a living, none of that makes you a better or more worthy person than anyone else. The real question is, are you a decent human being, who can function in the real world? If not, then you're in trouble really aren't you? Respect is something you earn, no-one is entitled to it. If you surround yourself with adoring fans and people who only ever agree with you, you're going to lose your grip pretty fast and turn into a knob. Stop taking yourself so bloody seriously.

Music:



I'm not a one genre kind of gal. I like anything from indie, powerpop, postpunk, alternative, experimental, acoustic, folk, ambient and classical, through to reggae (proper reggae mind, none of this shakey booty r'n'b shite), classic disco and some serious electronica and techno.
I like to think that I am pretty open-minded and I enjoy the cream of each genre instead of limiting myself to one. I like music that stands out from the crowd.
I'm so sick of the NME 'scene' and all the half-arsed band-wagon shite they champion. It's the MacDonalds of music. I hate the way that people blindly follow that 'scene' and like what they're told to like. Fuck man, make your own scene, get a life.
Favourite gigs of all time:
Mark Burgess, Andy Whitaker, Andy Clegg (The Sun and The Moon) live in my living room at Club Monkey 3. March 2008. A totally amazing weekend and a fantastic gig.

Iain Archer and Jacob Golden live in my living room at Club Monkey 2. A really special night. April 2007.

Jon Auer (The Posies / Big Star) and Chris Smyth live in my living room at Club Monkey, December 2006.

Aphex Twin at The Junction in Cambridge, 1996. Trouser flapping loud, and bass that almost stopped your heart. Several people actually left in tears. Excellent...
Doves at The Eden Project, 2000. Awesome surroundings, amazing gig, memorable weekend.
That Petrol Emotion's last ever gig in London, 1994. Emotional and amazing.
REM at Leicester DeMontfort on the Green tour, 1989. Nice medium sized venue. I got to stand 6 feet away from Mike Mills, my hero and just watch his hands.
Radiohead at South Park, Oxford, 2001. Fantastic home-town gig. It rained so hard I thought I might die and I had to drive home in my pants.
Violent Femmes at Royal Albert Hall, 1991. I got my toe broken in the mosh pit. Rock n' roll baby!
The Posies at Islington Academy, 2005. Awesome gig and we had great fun at the aftershow party. "Are you in The Killers?"
The Posies at Melkweg, Amsterdam, 2006. What a weekend that was! Nuff said...
Iain Archer at St Lukes Church, Holloway, 2007. An amazing, emotional solo acoustic performance by one of the nicest and most talented people I've ever met.
The Chameleons at The Barfly, Camden, 2001. Finally got to see them. It was so packed and everyone was dancing. I thought the floor was going to collapse, so I hugged the wall all night.

Bands/artists I like. I really can't be arsed to organise this whole list beyond the first 20ish. After that it's a pretty random list.
Summer Jets, Lasermonkey, Kizilok, Tiny Scientist, Andy Whitaker, The Chameleons, The Reegs, The Sun and the Moon, Weaveworld, Jon Auer, Spencer, Iain Archer, Jacob Golden, Infa Red, The Posies, Oranger, Radiohead, Buffalo Tom, Aphex Twin, The Freelance Hellraiser, Orbital, early REM (they suck now), Ludovico Einaudi, Stone Roses, CORD, Brian Eno, Nick Drake, Kristen Hersh, 50 Foot Wave, Throwing Muses, 10,000 Maniacs, Indigo Girls, Culture, Lee Scratch Perry, Cocteau Twins, Nada Surf, Doves, Dandy Warhols, Teenage Fanclub, Leaves, Violent Femmes, OKGO, Brendan Benson, Coldplay, Travis, Beezewax, John Vanderslice, The Ravines, Their Strange Gathering, Curve, Slowdive, Ride, Rain Parade, Sugar, Neil Young, Auf der Maur, Feeder, Thirteen Senses, Blackbud, Smoosh, Nirvana, Big Star, Death in Vegas, Kid Dakota, Jesus & Mary Chain, Pure Horsehair, Low, Captain, Ian McGlynn, Zookeeper, bit|bin, Boards of Canada, Original Cast
and a whole shed-load of others... you get the picture.

Movies:

Twelve Monkeys, Terminator, Pulp Fiction, Natural Born Killers, Kill Bill, Apocalypse Now, Once Upon A Time In Mexico, From Dusk Till Dawn, Twin Peaks - Fire Walk With Me, Shaun Of The Dead, Ocean's Eleven, Predator, Alien & Aliens, Leon, Face Off, 8mm, Lord Of The Rings, Fight Club, Along Came A Spider.......
I love action films, psychological thrillers, sci-fi, surreal shit. As long as there is some decent fighting and swearing.
Cannot STAND chick-flicks and love stories. I think Hugh Grant is a cunt! Stupid bumbling twat giving a terrible impression of English men to the entire world. I just want to slap him. Ponce.

Television:

I don;t watch it much, but when I do it'll be: CSI, Lost, 24, Carnivale, Twin Peaks, Scrubs, The Simpsons, Futurama, Malcolm in the Middle, Battlestar Gallactica (new), Stargate and Stargate Atlantis, Star Trek (TNG, DS9, Voyager, Enterprise), Band of Brothers.
Discovery channels, History channel, BBC nature documentaries, Seconds From Disaster, Myth Busters, Time Team, Forensic Detectives, Bill Oddie Goes Wild and stuff like that.

Books:

The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit, and anything by Graham Masterton or Robert Rankin. The books that got me into those authors were: Walkers, by Graham Masterton and Armaggedon, The Musical by Robert Rankin.

Heroes:

Hero is a weird word. It suggests complete adoration. The following people are not perfect, but I admire them for the things they are good at.
Mark Mills - cool dude and very tolerant person. Also acts as a very handy external hard drive.
My friends - they are all the family I need.
Jon Auer - voice of an angel, guitar god and bloody nice bloke
Mike Mills - made me want to play the bass
Homer Simpson - just because

My Blog

New music

I've found some excellent new music just recently. Most of it has been fellow Midlife Dementia Show artists and associated bands radiating out from them. This is when I love myspace. So here is t...
Posted by Suzy on Sun, 04 May 2008 11:46:00 PST

Woah!........

Memories can be triggered by the strangest things. I was just standing in the kitchen, stirring a pan of porridge for breakfast, when I was overwhelmed by strong and vivid memories of my grandparents....
Posted by Suzy on Sun, 04 May 2008 05:04:00 PST

du-du-du-du-du inspector gadget....

I FINALLY got around to blowing my birthday money, two full months after getting it.  Sad I know, but I couldn't think of anything I really needed... Mark suggested that I invest in a really nice...
Posted by Suzy on Sat, 03 May 2008 09:59:00 PST

what a week that was

Saturday daytime - took a leisurely drive up to Ashton in the afternoon, gatecrashed 5 year old Sam's birthday party. Saturday evening - went to Bollington near Buxton in the evening to...
Posted by Suzy on Sat, 26 Apr 2008 04:48:00 PST

Attic Lights at The Cambridge Corn Exchange

Just got home from a quick hit on Cambridge. The lovely fellas from Attic Lights kindly wangled it so we could get into the sold out show to see them. Thanks guys - much appreciated. Sorry we did...
Posted by Suzy on Tue, 22 Apr 2008 02:23:00 PST

The Legendary Manchester Busker weekend

Our weekend in a nutshell - good friends, new friends, fun times, loads of music, laughs, beer, fags, tea, toast, pubs, long drives, Polish bears, very late nights, good laughs, small worlds.............
Posted by Suzy on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 03:14:00 PST

oooohhhh how we laughed

It makes me chuckle to read stuff on a blog that's squarely aimed at me, even though the person writing it probably has no idea I'm reading it. Especially when that person is a LOON and...
Posted by Suzy on Fri, 18 Apr 2008 08:01:00 PST

Smoosh fucking ROCK!!!!!!

Everyone has a list of bands they'd really like to see and haven't had the opportunity to. Tonight I was very happy to be able to tick one of those bands off my list. We went to see a band visiting f...
Posted by Suzy on Wed, 16 Apr 2008 01:39:00 PST

The pros and cons of working from home

PROS I can listen to whatever music I like at a volume I want to. I usually have to have it barely audible in case the phone rings or someone tries to talk to me. I can have phone conversations&n...
Posted by Suzy on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 06:38:00 PST

a tear in my eye and a smile on my face

Read the blog ’Alive, not dead’. http://www.myspace.com/chameleonsvox
Posted by Suzy on Fri, 28 Mar 2008 01:50:00 PST