Stephen from ANBERLIN - ProfilesArchive

About Me

don't read to deep into a myspace profile. just because i checked a box that says i am not sure that i want kids, or i am divorced or single, doesn't mean i actually am. its that this is myspace. seriously. who devulges the absolute truth on here? do you see peoples pictures? do you not think that they took it from the best possible angle? isn't that a form of lying? your the one who bought into the whole online addiction. not me. to me it is still just another website. i am slowly finding the irony in honesty. you want to know everything but don't want me to open my mouth. when i pull skeletons from the closet you call me previously dishonest. what more do you want me to do? if i could pull open my chest cavity and reveal it to the world would it make you feel i was a better person. if i exposed my every secret to every person i encounter would it make you trust me more? i dont know how i feel about online gathering places of "friends", people sum you up by a profile, they get to know you without seeing your face. we dont have to form relationships using people skills, we just find someone with like interests and email them with no threat of rejection. people can be whoever they want to be on the computer. do you honestly think they look like that in person? do you really know any of these people? this is where life and fantasy cohabitate. reality sometimes hurt. but its called life, you cant live it behind a screen. be human, be vulnrable, be real, be hurt, be rational, be flexible, learn, grow, move on. be human once again. something i am trying to do.

My Interests

ANBERLINFANS.COM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'd like to meet:

people in real life. face to face. i want to develop relationships, not... i don't even know a word for it. how about 'shallow long distance e-friends'.

Music:

ANBERLINFANS.COM !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Television:

I SEEK MY VALIDATION ON THE INTERNET, NOT THE TELEVISION.

Books:

this list is forever but the last book i read that inspired was by Pearl S Buck and it was called "the good earth." It was not so much the story that inspired but the life that wrote it.

Heroes:

wow this question is on here? what use does our generation have for heros. after all we are our own gods.

My Blog

sing along on warped!

BITTERSWEET MEMORYdo you memorize theatrical linesthat seem to lead them in play the role with a good girl hearthide the tangled webs withinwho was it that lead you on that makes you want to...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Wed, 04 Jun 2008 01:17:00 PST

FOREWARNING!

companions, today. after three years of writing, rewriting, and self editing my book is finally "out". i felt the sense of accomplishment when i completed it, today i feel ...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Thu, 13 Mar 2008 11:23:00 PST

come to india!!!!!!!!!

Faceless International is taking a trip this winter to Kalcuta India & YOUR INVITED to come with us! the dates for the faceless trip will be: December 26th-Jan.5th. We will be flying into Kolkata Ind...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 04:02:00 PST

los angeles.

LA is overwhelming at moments, honestly though i see so much opportunity here! we met with neal avron today to start discussing the overall view of the record and we all walked away with a sense of ex...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Tue, 12 Feb 2008 05:06:00 PST

anberlin album IV

anberlin update.

friends.well im going to be honest. this is my first surfacing since december 16th when we got off tour with motion city soundtrack. i have avoided anything anberlin because i was honestly a little bu...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Thu, 31 Jan 2008 09:49:00 PST

FACELESS INTERNATIONAL: GUATEMALA

dear friends,as many of you know i helped co-found a non-profit organization called faceless international. we have taken several humanitarian trips overseas with members from various bands in attempt...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Fri, 28 Dec 2007 09:47:00 PST

my book is coming out soon! ’the orphaned anythings’

friends!check out my myspace (myspace.com/theorphanedanythings) for my upcoming book. you can even view the first chapter in the blog there.your friend,stephen
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 11:26:00 PST

my book is coming out soon! ’the orphaned anythings’

a social observation (.4) (i think therefore i consume)

we are beyond survival. we have elevated ourselves from needs to wants, and with frivolous and rather embarrassing results. i do not know if any of you have traveled to a second or third world country...
Posted by Stephen from ANBERLIN on Sun, 28 Jan 2007 06:59:00 PST