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Cara

I am more than the pain. I am more than the confusion. I am more than the fear.

About Me

Hi, I'm Cara C. and I was born about a quarter century ago in a small town in Long Island to two wonderful, insanely beautiful, and strong parents of Chinese and Italian heritage that I am eternally proud of in this world and the next....I now live in Brooklyn and I am learning all about this wonderful exotic new place only 20 miles from home and my little pink bedroom from childhood, but it seems so far away. I had a magical childhood and as excruciatingly exasperating as my life currently is I still must admit I lead a charmed life full of learning experiences and surprises as I slowly learn to see the good side in everything. I'm currently still trying to figure out exactly what I want to do with my life, kinda in the midst of a quarter life crisis. I'm an aspiring actress/novelist and also a teacher, promotional spokesmodel, and getting into screenwriting. I have many side interests, including writing freelance for a professional boxing website called Boxingtalk.com. I am also an amateur boxer with 20 fights and the 2005 and 2006 New York Golden Gloves Champion....I may go pro in the future but sometimes I figure I may need my brains for the writing thing and my face for the acting thing but I've also been described as crazy so I'm sure I'll do it eventually. I love the small things in life more than anything and my family is close to my heart including my best friend Jessica and my significant other. I am easily touched by small acts of kindness and witnessing the indiscreet heroisms of everyday life and people....i am easily moved to tears when I see something beautiful which is often....so I may be mistaken for sad but I really just appreciate life very much. I love to travel and plan to do alot more of it in the future....last month I went to Italy, just me and my mother and a map and her quest for knowledge which rubbed off on me- I had a deep love affair with the ghost of Michelangelo in Florence(the great artist of the Cistine Chapel, the statue of David...holy shit you have no idea his art was breathtaking) plus we studied all the other great Renaissance artists....I recently went to Las Vegas with a bunch of boxing friends to just chill, see fights, be coarse, and LIVE after fighting our asses off in Madison Square Garden the night before....I love mystical intriguing places....I went to Europe last summer and saw the South of France, London, Paris, and Scotland and my favorite part of the whole trip was a real castle I found near Scotland and walked six miles through pastures in the middle of the night to reach with a laptop on my back and a blanket as a jacket....I would love to go to Africa on a Safari or to China or Australia next....hoping my journey will take me there and then back again here where I love....for now I am just busting my ass going on auditions, acting in independent films (I just got a part as a Chinese warrior nun! I will die a tragic death in the end plus I have small parts in two other films where I will also be brutally killed in battle, I think its really funny that i have three different deaths this year), dealing with writer's block, boxing competitively, and trying to support myself financially in the meantime....times get tough but all I know is I'm following my heart and letting it lead me to my destiny whatever it may be, hopefully you do the same!
Watch my promotional video:
Watch the music video I was in:
The Vanishing Dragon Theatrical Trailer:
No Strings 3rd Trailer:
""Women are like tea bags..You never know how strong they are until you put them in hot water" -Eleanor Roosevelt

My Interests


| View | Add FavoriteReading good books, writing, boxing competitively, martial arts videos, fighting, cosmetics and fun make-up, eating amazing food, COOKING (I am SO GOOD, I have this intuitive cooking touch- my mother gave me a magic Chinese cookbook and wok- anything from it is incredible plus I understand the true flavors of homestyle Italian cooking), sushi, family, close friends, meeting people that are like me with similar interests, talkers of truth and speakers of wisdom, conversation, traveling, dreaming, children, museums, Renaissance art and Michelangelo Bonarotte, discovering new things, stars, beautiful people with beautiful heart, breathtaking places, star-gazing, beautiful words....
You Are a Tomboy
You're having too much fun to bother with nail polish and crazy diets.
Guys are instead impressed by how much you know and do! How Girlie Are You?Take the quiz:
What kind of boxer are you?

Boxer
You are a master of offense and defense. You fight well against sluggers because you are quicker on your feet and with your hands. You take your time to fight and like to find that open shot, you are very cautious but never scared.

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I'd like to meet:

People with MAGIC EYES who see beyond the surface; compassionate people that care about things other than themselves; good-hearted people; smart intelligent ingenious thinkers; great conversationalist who question things; writers and story tellers; other fighters; my parents and Aunt Jeanne when they were younger....to gaze into the eyes of my future children....free spirits and eccentrics....
"BECOME WHAT YOU CONCEIVE,TAKE IT BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS, AND WE WILL SURPASS THOSE WHO DO NOT DARE." - Bruce Lee
"In the heart of the warrior there is no surrender, when the mind and body say quit, the spirit screams NEVER!!!!"-Unknown(MY ULTIMATE MANTRA)
"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward."--ROCKY BALBOA
"ENJOY THE PAIN. It's weakness LEAVING the body."
"The eye does more damage than both hands." -from my last fortune cookie...lol

You have a twisted soul! Twisted Souls are never bad, and actually, are a rarity amongst souls. These souls are a little combination of everything, with always a little of their own chaos to add. Twisted Souls are kind, loving, weird, zany, temperamental, and very talented.
They have their own firm opinion, and can at one time be very outspoken and passionate, and the other time shy and feeling insignificant. Twisted Souls have good senses of Humor and other times can be a bore. You can act quite intelligent at one time, and grasp concepts easily, while other times they can find it difficult to understand.
Twisted Souls are always very fun and Kind, and can be party animals. But, if you love someone, youre serious about it, intense, and forever loyal.
Congratulations-the world should have more like you.

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Music:

Anything beautiful. I like 80's music and 80's love songs of course (like the kind you order from the corny infomercial late at night), romantic R&B ballads, good old school hip hop, God-des and She, i actually like some techno because it reminds me of Long Island but I don't like to admit that, meditation music and Frank Sinatra are relaxing to me.

Movies:

Mary Poppins, Annie, A Bronx Tale, The Shawshank Redemption, Back to the Future Part 2 haha, Life is Beautiful, Bruce Lee Movies- Enter the Dragon, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, 80's flicks, The Goonies, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, Dirty Dancing, ET, etc....corny romantic comedies, anything that features Johnny Depp. BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN.

Television:

Seinfeld, Old School Nick at Night, Late Night Cheesy VHI Music Videos....besides that I hate TV and I don't like to waste time watching it- I'd rather live my life than watch someone else's....reality TV gets on my nerves and so do people who obsess over it....if anything I should have my own reality show.

Books:

I love to read, I must have read at least two thousand books in my lifetime since I first fell in love at the Queens Library when visiting my Aunt when I was younger....no joke. (The second time I fell in love was at the boxing gym). Anyway I love The Harry Potter series, The Alchemeist, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Da Vinci Code, The Idiots Guide Books (I get them for EVERYTHING), Gone With the Wind, Shoeless Joe Jackson, Peter Pan, Roald Dahl books, I loved Nancy Drew and Sweet Valley books growing up, Shel Siverstein- The Giving Tree and Where the Sidewalk Ends, Ernest Hemingway, Nicholas' Sparks "The Notebook" touched my heart recently, THe Lovely Bones, Native Son, The Cat's Cradle, Amy Tan- The Joy Luck Club and The Kitchen God's Wife, Memoirs of a Geisha, Mark Twain, Huck Finn, Greek Mythology, Romeo and Juliet, science fiction and fantasy, Stardust and The Golden Compass, Dr. Suess, Agatha Christie....the list goes on and on and keeps compiling. I just read "In Cold Blood" by Truman Capote, it was the shit to say the least.

Heroes:

**My Mother, my father who fought in Vietnam and died for what he believed in, Bruce Lee, my Aunt Jeanne, Hulk Hogan, my younger brother who has been taking care of his wife and two kids since he was seventeen and has done and amazing job of it, great boxers like Lucia Rijker, Arturo Gatti, Ricky Hatton, and Emile Griffith; my insanely imaginative five year old niece Aria, Andre the Giant, my beautiful girlfriend who whose only two truths are respecting true love and conquering an amazing dream, the future me that I intend to become, Martin Luther King Jr., and all the other great fighters I haven't mentioned who know the meaning of heart, sacrifice, and courage.*****************I idolize Devout followers of Dreams and even more so those who will gracefully let their dreams go for loved ones....like an unselfish mother for her children....or a beautifully dedicated wife or husband....this is what courage is really about in the end.*******************Your results:
You are Wonder Woman Wonder Woman 90% Green Lantern 85% Hulk 80% The Flash 80% Spider-Man 70% Catwoman 70% Supergirl 65% Superman 55% Iron Man 50% Robin 47% Batman 40% You are a beautiful princess
with great strength of character.
Click here to take the Superhero Personality Quiz

My Blog

On JUNE 14--Please come support me and my WOMENS BOXING TEAM- see me BOX the best out there:)

Hey MySpace Friends,   As most of you know, I am part of a women's and girl's boxing team called Team Freeform.  We are a bunch of girls who come together to box and inspire each other and...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 13 Jun 2008 11:41:00 PST

Check out this article in THE DAILY NEWS about my fight last night

Go to this link: http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/more_sports/2008/02/29/200 8-02-29_cara_carries_on_at_golden_gloves.html...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 29 Feb 2008 06:03:00 PST

I WON A FIGHT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!

Simply put: After months of ridiculous hard work and training and FAITH, I won a fight tonight in the Bronx at The Paradise Theater.  It was a New York Golden Gloves quarterfinals fight...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 29 Feb 2008 12:10:00 PST

The POWER of POSITIVE ENERGY and how it helps me everyday

For all of you who did not know- my Mother, who was and still is the love of my life, passed away over a year ago in a horrible car accident and left me here in this world devastated and shell shocked...
Posted by Cara on Wed, 13 Feb 2008 11:31:00 PST

I was in an article in GO MAGAZINE's

Hey Peoples!  Check me out in GO Magazine's annual "100 Women We Love" June Issue!"  See if you can find me amongst the other amazing ninety-nine women's articles in the issue:)&nb...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 22 Jun 2007 08:47:00 PST

I got to guest commentate at the New York Golden Gloves this year!

Hey everybody-  I did not get a chance to fight in the Golden Gloves this year due to the tragedy in my family but I did get the opportunity to guest commentate the 119 pound female bout as the p...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 09:01:00 PST

I am in SHAPE Magazine this month!

Hey if any of you get a chance and pass by a magazine stand check me out in this Month's issue of SHAPE magazine....I am the punch out work out cards for a sick arm workout!  The cover has Kelly ...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 27 Apr 2007 08:52:00 PST

Send me your words of wisdom

Can anyone send me any true words of wisdom from the heart?  Or even a story?  I'm going through a tough, sad, and dark time in life and need inspiration.
Posted by Cara on Thu, 08 Feb 2007 08:16:00 PST

WATCH THE NEW REGGAETON MUSIC VIDEO I WAS IN PLAYING A BOXER

Hey MySpace Peoples- Check out this new music video I was in playing a boxer! GO TO: EDWINDECENA.COM and click on "FUEGO- ME Gustan Todas."  Its about the sixth down on the right side.  Then...
Posted by Cara on Fri, 01 Sep 2006 11:47:00 PST

Writer's Block

HELP ME CURE MY WRITER'S BLOCK!! Any ideas out there?
Posted by Cara on Wed, 14 Jun 2006 08:51:00 PST